She is a hot mother-in-law, a professional mother, or an unreasonable "countryman".
She is also the winner of the Golden Rooster, Huabiao, and Feitian Awards, and is an uncompromising acting school.
It is the selfish mother "Pan Guiyu" in the TV set "An Jia".
Don't look at the TV, Ding Jiali's performance is always so annoying, and a little unreasonable, spicy, the appearance is always untrimmed,
But when she was young, Ding Jiali was definitely a beautiful woman.
From her debut in 1986 to 2021, Ding Jiali has been in the actor industry for 35 years.
After winning the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 7th Golden Rooster Awards of Chinese Films, Ding Jiali had the beginning that others dreamed of
Then to the later Huabiao Awards, the Feitian Awards, and then the Golden Lion Awards on the drama stage, she won the highest awards as a TV actress.
However, the excitement of career always cannot withstand the hardships brought by life.
2 married and 2 divorced, almost did not accompany the child, and later with Sun Honglei rumors, the result became a lonely person, what bitter past does she have?
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In 1959, Ding Jiali was born into a poor family in Jiamusi City, Heilongjiang.
Her father was very patriarchal, plus the newborn Ding Jiali had a skin disease, and the family did not have extra money to treat her, so when Ding Jiali was still young, she sent this "money-losing goods" to a family in Shandong.
This act of the parents caused a great shadow in the heart of the young Ding Jiali.
Ding Jiali often recalled: Why did my biological parents abandon me? Am I not good enough? Do you need to give more in exchange for love?
But fortunately, the adoptive parents did not dislike the girl, especially the adoptive mother.
When the adoptive mother was a child, she was also abandoned by her biological parents, so the new family still treated this "adopted daughter" as her own.
Ding Jiali's adoptive mother is a critic actor, so under the influence of her adoptive mother, Ding Jiali also liked to express herself very much when she was a child.
When faced with strangers asking her to perform a show, Ding Jiali was not timid.
When she was a child, Ding Jiali was not a quiet little girl, and there was no difference between a tomboy, often leading a group of children up the tree to dig a bird's nest, the peaches in the village, the plums were ripe, and Ding Jiali led a group of "children's army" to sweep the fruit forests in the village.
But it is this "tomboy" who has a big dream of being the first college student in the village.
At that time, although the adoptive parents were actors, in that era,
As a critic actor, the income is not high, and the job is not very stable.
So when Ding Jiali was ready to go to college, her adoptive parents felt that her daughter should go to medical school, at least she came out as a doctor, her income was also high, and the key was respected.
However, at that time, Ding Jiali was already in a period of rebellion, especially when she thought of her own parents abandoning her, Ding Jiali decided to go according to her own ideas.
Since childhood, under the influence of her adoptive mother, she has a great love for performing on stage.
So the rebellious Ding Jiali, with her solid foundation from childhood, was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, became a student in the 80th class of drama, and became a university classmate with Liu Wei and Zhang Qiuge.
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In 1980, the 21-year-old Ding Jiali became a college student, and Sun Honglei, who later spread the rumor, was still a 10-year-old child at this time, charging with a wooden stick all day.
As the only college student in the village to be admitted to college, Ding Jiali has not only become "someone else's child" in the mouths of other parents.
It has become the pride in the hearts of parents.
After being admitted to the play, Ding Jiali felt that her life had been completed, and her life goal had finally been achieved, and she could "lie flat".
But soon, Ding Jiali's troubles came again, or she had a new pursuit.
From the countryside of Shandong to the metropolis of Shanghai, every corner of Shanghai Ding Jiali feels fresh,
But every time I go out with my classmates, my classmates dress brightly, but they look very earthy.
Ding Jiali felt that she looked very ugly and very fat, and began to have an inferiority complex
When it was serious, he called his biological parents and said, "Why did you make me so ugly and fat?" ”
As a girl, an actress, Ding Jiali realized that the image was really too important.
Whenever she saw the clothes of her female classmates, Ding Jiali decided to start changing.
So I consulted the teacher to go for plastic surgery, and the teacher was a little disappointed after listening to it, and told Ding Jiali:
A really good actor never wins by appearance, but to have self-confidence and believe that he can become a good character actor. ”
After Ding Jiali listened to it, she was enlightened and decided not to have plastic surgery, but she had to lose weight.
So Ding Jiali began to run every day, running him 3000 meters a day, and as a result, after a meal operation, the amount of food became larger and larger, and the bitterness was to eat a lot, and the weight rose faster as a result.
If the staple food does not work, eat the side food, so like many little girls, cucumbers and tomatoes replace the staple food,
After eating for a while, Ding Jiali ate herself into a cucumber, and her face turned green.
After that, I took laxatives and other medicines, and as a result, I didn't lose weight, my body collapsed, and I got depressed because I took some things.
It seems that eating side foods is not enough, nor is it okay with diet pills, so Ding Jiali decided not to eat.
Ding Jiali, who hoped not to eat, put her sustenance on God, hoping that God could stare at herself.
As a result, after being hungry for a day, Ding Jiali couldn't stand it, ran to the restaurant outside the school, and asked for five drawers of buns and two bowls of Yangchun noodles
After eating it, Ding Jiali immediately showed the boldness of the Shandong girl, and regardless of the eyes of others on the side, she ate a wild meal, and while eating, she said to God: "God, this time you don't have to care about me, tomorrow will talk about it."
God listened—tomorrow.
In this way, tomorrow and tomorrow, until graduating from college, Ding Jiali's weight did not lose much.
The weight did not slim down, but love came.
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After graduating from university, Ding Jiali was assigned to work in the Chinese Drama Theatre, and in the process of working, she met Hu Guangchuan, who was also an actor.
The two came together because of common interests and became boyfriend and girlfriend, but after coming together, Ding Jiali cherished this relationship very much
When the feelings reached a certain level, Ding Jiali once again took the initiative
The two steal the forbidden fruit.
At that time, Hu Guangchuan's attitude towards this matter was very strict, saying that this matter was very important to girls, hoping that Ding Jiali could think clearly.
But Ding Jiali, who had been overwhelmed by love at that time, did not listen to her boyfriend's words, and said that since the two people were in love and had further intimate contact, what did it matter?
However, she forgot that girls do not love themselves, how can they get the respect of others.
Under ding jiali's repeated initiatives, she soon became pregnant.
Getting pregnant before marriage was a very humiliating thing in those days.
After telling her boyfriend, her boyfriend's attitude towards Ding Jiali also underwent a 180-degree change, bluntly saying: "Ding Jiali destroyed his best youth."
At that time, Ding Jiali was still busy with the troupe's drama, but her stomach was also getting bigger day by day.
The boyfriend treated the child in the belly with such an attitude, and Ding Jiali decided to have an abortion.
But she was afraid of losing face, and she did not dare to go to the big hospital, so she went to the black clinic in the suburbs of Beijing.
In the face of this little girl who was only 26, unmarried and pregnant, the doctor was full of contempt, and even scolded Ding Jiali with a "no face".
It was in this case that Ding Jiali had her first abortion.
When he originally thought that his self-love had let his cherished love pass away, her boyfriend Hu Guangchuan changed his attitude again after knowing that Ding Jiali had miscarried and began to accept the girl again.
In 1986, Hu Guangchuan married Ding Jiali.
Also in this year, Ding Jiali participated in the first film "The First Woman in the Mountains and Forests", and won the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 7th Chinese Film Golden Rooster Awards for her "Hercules" image.
After getting married, Ding Jiali also got pregnant again very quickly, this time justifiably, in 1987, Ding Jiali gave birth to a daughter Duoduo.
This year, Sun Honglei, who was far away in Heilongjiang, became fascinated by break dancing and participated in the Heilongjiang Break Dance Competition, winning the first place and becoming the dance king of Harbin.
With her own family, Ding Jiali, who has a lovely daughter, is not satisfied.
Because her husband often travels on business, the lonely ding jiali can't stand the inner torment, cheating on a third party in marriage,
And the other party has just gotten married, after cheating, Ding Jiali is also very soon pregnant again,
When pregnant, Ding Jiali found the man, but the man said: "How do you prove that it is mine, you and I are like this, won't you be with others?" You don't respect yourself, why are you looking for me?"
The man turned his head and left, leaving Ding Jiali alone with cold tears in the cold wind.
This sentence hurt Ding Jiali, and Ding Jiali chose to have an abortion again.
At that time, the cheating object also appeared in his parents' home with Ding Jiali, but his father's eyes were very poisonous, and he said at the time that he would let the man go.
But at that time, Ding Jiali was very willful, saying that this was my friend, but my father said, you are a human wife, you must know that you are doing things in proportion.
Sure enough, the father was the one who came over, and Ding Jiali did not grasp the measure well, until later ding Jiali told her father the news of her marital infidelity and abortion.
The 80-year-old father actually smoked a few big mouths of his own.
When Ding Jiali had an abortion, she was filming in Mudanjiang, northeast China, doing a crowd in the morning, and came to the set in the afternoon.
In mudanjiang in winter, the temperature is more than -40 degrees below zero, but Ding Jiali does not dare to tell the crew about her surgery.
So Ding Jiali wore cotton pants to crawl in the snow in order to shoot the scene, until the snow water soaked the cotton pants, and her stomach hurt even more.
But I don't dare to mention it to others, I have an abortion, I am very ashamed,
In this way, Ding Jiali had a chronic disease, which could not be cured in her lifetime, as long as her feet were cold, her stomach hurt terribly.
Later, her husband Hu Guangchuan could not stand Ding Jiali's cheating, and divorced Ding Jiali when her daughter was still young.
The daughter was sentenced to her father, but at that time, the husband was also in the ascendancy of his career, very busy, and did not have time to take care of his daughter.
So the daughter Duoduo was sent to her uncle's house and was often beaten by her uncle.
Ding Jiali never imagined that her behavior would cause her daughter to repeat her mistakes and become an "orphan" with a father and a mother.
The daughter Duoduo was sentenced to her father, and then Ding Jiali disappeared from Duoduo's life, and it was not until the daughter was 15 years old that Ding Jiali appeared 2-3 times.
At that time, my daughter asked many times in her heart: "Why did my parents give birth to me, but they didn't want me, why didn't they come to save me?"
Maybe that's karma.
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In 1988, 18-year-old Sun Honglei won the second prize of the second national break dance competition, and was recruited into the China Break Dance Star Art Troupe, opening his own artistic path.
As a big star in Heilongjiang, Ding Jiali often appeared in newspapers at that time, which also became Sun Honglei's idol.
It's just that Sun Honglei didn't know that in the future, he actually acted with idols, and there was also a scandal.
In 1990, Ding Jiali, who had been divorced for 3 years, met her love again, a university lecturer.
At that time, Ding Jiali did not know how to biyun, and when they were together, they had two abortions in succession, until the second year after marriage, giving birth to their son Guoguo.
After marriage, because of a failed marriage, Ding Jiali cherished it very much, but fate once again made a joke with Ding Jiali.
The husband who is a teacher actually cheated on the female student.
It is in response to that sentence: "Three people, three people are always three"
So after her son's full moon, Ding Jiali ended her second marriage.
The son followed himself, but because of his career relationship, he has been going to boarding school since the beginning of the child's elementary school, when the son often pretended to be sick in order to be able to see his mother, and today his stomach hurts, tomorrow his heart hurts.
Until later, she was really sick, and as a result, Ding Jiali involuntarily beat her son violently.
Ding Jiali, who was hurt by love, focused on her acting career.
In 1991, she won the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 12th Golden Rooster Awards of Chinese Cinema for her film "New Year"; in 1993, she was nominated for the Best Actress Award at the 14th Golden Rooster Awards of Chinese Cinema for "NoBody Applauds", and in 1999, she won the 6th China Film Performance Society Award for "Red Hair Card".
In 1997, Sun Honglei, who suddenly lost 40 pounds, relied on his break dance and danced into the gate of the Central Academy of Drama.
Soon, Sun Honglei will be acting with her idol.
In 1999, 40-year-old Ding Jiali and 29-year-old Sun Honglei met in the drama "Curie and His Wife".
At that time, Sun Honglei was separated by his girlfriend and got a "mental" stomach ulcer, and Ding Jiali never had a new boyfriend after divorcing her second husband.
So the two wounded souls warmed each other, comforted each other, and came together.
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However, this 11-year-old age difference in love did not resist the beauty of another girl.
In 2002, Sun Honglei became famous for starring in "My Father and Mother" and "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", and ushered in another big drama of his own, "Zhou Yu's Train".
It was in this film that Sun Honglei met Gong Li, who had broken up with Zhang Yimou for many years and was married to Huang Xianghe, president of British American Tobacco Asia Pacific.
Perhaps acting too much, Sun Honglei was rumored to be in love with the married Gong Li.
Perhaps because of this scandal, Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei's love has come to an end.
After the breakup, various rumors about the two followed, including Ding Jiali kneeling to the director in order to seek a role for Sun Honglei, Sun Honglei relying on Ding Jiali to ascend to the throne and so on.
Later, it became the object of ridicule in Venus's mouth.
But after being single for many years, she met her beloved man again, and Ding Jiali made a lot of comebacks.
The feelings of true comeback have no good results, which also makes Ding Jiali close herself off for a long time, refusing to face the media, and once stopped taking the role.
It wasn't until 2004 that she spoke "quietly" about how she felt at the time: I don't resent anyone, though I once resented it. I've gone through detours like all women, and I want women to shorten the time of pain and really don't love it.
And the person involved did not say who it was from beginning to end, only used "that man" instead.
Until later, Sun Honglei responded that he did not rely on women to succeed, and when the reporter asked about Ding Jiali many years later, Sun Honglei did not refuse to answer, but said that Ding Jiali was indeed a good sister.
As for the scandal with Gong Li, until 2014, Gong Li returned from the movie and was asked again about the scandal with Sun Honglei that year, Gong Li replied that she had never cheated in marriage.
Later, Sun Honglei's career rose steadily, becoming the "Sun Da beautiful" in the public's mouth, and married his wife Wang Jundi.
In 2007, she won the Outstanding Actress Award at the 12th China Film Huabiao Awards for her film "Alley Premier".
In 2010, Ding Jiali, who studied traditional culture, told on TV about her 2 marriages and 2 divorces, as well as being a third party and having abortions four times.
Although it caused an uproar, even her daughter was very incomprehensible at first and felt humiliated.
But Ding Jiali used her own personal experience to tell girls to know how to love themselves.
Later, because Ding Jiali got older, her play path became very narrow, so he slowly became a professional household for his mother.
It is a person in the TV set "Mendi" who supports the family and lives a difficult life in the city.
Until 2020, Ding Jiali starred in the role of the selfish and selfish woman "Pan Guiyu" in the TV "An Jia", who only knew how to ask for money from her daughter, with this deeply rooted role, many netizens believed that the best actress of the Magnolia Award that year was not Ding Jiali, but unfortunately lost to Xiao Tao Hong in the same popular TV series "Little Joy" that year.
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Jiali Ding is a recognized acting school and has won the highest awards in the industry many times.
These hard-won awards also bear witness to the audience's recognition of her acting skills.
She was successful in her career.
But in life, she was a failure.
Married twice, had abortions four times, and in the end no man truly loved himself, and if so, maybe only her father and son.
When a person recognizes her mistake and is determined to change her past, then she actually has a new life.
Ding Jiali has gone through many detours, suffered a lot, and left a lot of pain on herself, from the end of her second marriage at the age of 30, Ding Jiali did not remarry and was single for 30 years.
Maybe now she is also happy, her son and daughter are now part of the show business circle, although not a big hit, but also peaceful, happy, perhaps this is the most important thing for Ding Jiali.
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