One person goes fast, a group of people goes far.
Chasing "Go to the Windy Place", seeing the group of people in the "Windy Small Courtyard", I suddenly remembered this sentence.
In order to heal themselves, they came here from Tiannanhaibei - Xu Hongdou died because of his girlfriend, Barley because of creative bottlenecks, Nana because of online violence, Hu Youyu because his dream could not be realized, and Ma Ye because of investment failure. Fortunately, after a period of getting along, they all found their former selves and harvested sweet love.
Everyone has a wound in their hearts, and that is where the sky once fell. Many times, we do our best, not only to earn money to support our families, but also to heal ourselves.
It's just that some injuries are destined to not heal themselves, and at this time, we need friends.
In the story, in addition to the love between Xie Zhiyao and Xu Hongdou, the friendship between Nana and Barley is also moving, and the two-way rush of the two girls heals each other, not only fulfilling themselves, but also healing others.
The twenty-eight-year-old transparent author, facing pitiful subscriptions, a large number of pirated articles, and bad comments from readers every day, has no hope for the future. Barley used to say this about himself.
The same people who write, I can empathize with the pain of barley, people say that writing is very profitable, but they do not know that the people who really make a lot of money by writing are only a few people at the top, and under this numerator, there are a large number of struggling denominators, who sit day after day, plow month after month, but never see hope.
As a result, many people chose to give up halfway, and only a few people were able to persevere.
It's not that we have lost the courage to pursue our dreams, it's because our dreams are too far away, and we are all real people after all.
Fortunately, Barley met Nana.
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Nana's kindness from the heart always makes people feel warm, making Barley inadvertently unload her guard and open her heart.
Perhaps because of the nature of his profession, Barley's biological clock is completely different from others, going out day and night, and his mental state is far inferior to that of several other people.
Most importantly, Barley has always been a social fear, and even if she lives in the same courtyard, she rarely talks to others.
In my gut feeling, Nana should be the first person in the courtyard to talk to Barley.
That day, Barley was about to wash the sheets, because there was something temporary, so she put the sheets there, and after Nana washed her clothes, she helped Barley wash them.
For Nana, this is just a casual thing, but for Barley, it is a rare warmth.
The reason why I have this idea is because I am also a person with mild social fear, for social fear people, on the one hand, they are afraid of contact with others, but deep down, they expect others to be close to us.
In order to repay Nana's kindness, Damai took the initiative to send the electronic version of his novel to Nana, so that on the one hand, he could not let himself fall off the horse, and on the other hand, he could save money for Nana.
At first, I thought it was nothing, but later I found out that this is the greatest goodwill that barley can release - as a codeword, what I value most is the original manuscript of my work, and sending the original manuscript to others is undoubtedly handing over all my family wealth.
If it were not someone who absolutely trusts, no one would be able to do this.
If it weren't for the fact that Nana is a kind person who took the initiative to release kindness to Barley, how could she exchange Barley's sincerity?
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
Because you have been hurt, you can empathize with the pain of others.
Compared to Ma Ye, Nana seems to be more mysterious.
Although Xie Zhiyao is the owner of the coffee shop, Nana is only a volunteer of the coffee shop, but Xie Zhiyao is busy all day, so Nana needs to know more about the situation of the coffee shop.
There was a time when I almost thought that Nana used to open a coffee shop in a big city, because she was tired of the hustle and bustle of the city, so she came here.
Later I learned that things were not as simple as I thought -
That time, the village wanted to make a promotional video, everyone was very happy and wanted to take the opportunity to show their faces, but when the camera turned to Nana, Nana avoided it.
Because she is not an ordinary workplace worker at all, but a music anchor with unlimited scenery, she once publicly raised funds from netizens and fans during the live broadcast, promising to donate these income to poor families. However, the platform only distributed 30,000 yuan to Nana, so when Nana made the donation list public, it was criticized by many fans, thinking that Nana had stolen the money.
Even if Lin Na provides proof of income, there are still black fans with rhythm on the Internet, and netizens who do not know the truth have no brains to follow the trend and criticize, it is really not cured, and Nana fled here.
It is for this reason that Nana is particularly concerned about the feelings of others.
That time, several people in the small courtyard chatted together, and in order to help Barley "publicize", she said that Barley was an online writer, because Hu Youyu kept asking, which made Barley very embarrassed.
Even if Barley has never blamed her, in her heart, she has never been able to get over that hurdle, and she has always felt that she is sorry for Barley.
If it weren't for Xu Hongdou unraveling her, I don't know how depressed she would be.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
As a friend, Nana has always been Barley's strongest support.
As an online writer, Damai encountered a writing bottleneck, fans are very demanding, she wants to write works that satisfy fans, but more and more bad reviews make her emotionally anxious, and in the end completely limit the use of inspiration.
For this reason, Barley often hid in the room and broke down and cried.
When the village was filming the promotional film, Barley didn't want to participate in the script because she felt that it was cross-border.
At that time, after talking with Sunzi, she felt that the two saw each other at first sight, discussed inspiration with each other, and took the initiative to join the creation of the script, adding many romantic and interesting bridges to the plot setting.
During the shooting, Bamboo invited Barley to see it and talked about her experience in the crew, although she felt tired most of the time, but she loved this job and would find a lot of interesting things from it.
Under the guidance of bamboo shoots, Barley began to walk out of his house and take the initiative to communicate with people. For a person with social phobia, this is a complete qualitative leap.
And all this is Nana's arrangement, in order to cheer up Barley, Nana privately asked Bamboo shoots to help, wanting her to invite Barley to participate in the creation, and Bamboo shoots did not refuse, so there was this series of things.
Later, Barley got food poisoning, and it was Nana who was always by her side to take care of her, making her less desperate.
Of course, in the friendship between the two, what touched me the most was that Nana specially registered an account to fight against fans on the Internet in order to encourage barley, not only registered several accounts by herself, but also pulled Xu Hongdou together.
Because he has been in the rain, he will hold an umbrella for others, which is a person like Nana.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
I have always felt that friendship is real, more touching than love.
Because love is to combine two people into a whole and regard each other as their destination; But friendship is not like that, we meet in the vast sea of people, we go through a journey together, in this journey, we go in both directions, heal each other, and when this journey is over, we will all start our respective lives.
Even if the years to come never intersect again, all that remains in each other's memories is beautiful.
Because friendship is not exclusive compared to love, two people (several people) can come together and rely on each other's soul magnetic field to attract each other, so some people say that marriage can be done, but friends cannot.
Take this friendship between Nana and Barley, on the surface, it seems that Nana has been giving, but if we look at it from another perspective, we will also find that Barley is also healing Nana in her own way——
For example, barley will cook noodles for Nana at night; For example, Barley enriched Nana's life with her own words; Most importantly, because of Barley's existence, Nana found herself...
Maybe that's what friends really mean --
Heal low self-esteem together, support and encourage each other, and become a better version of yourself; Heal anxiety together, live well in the moment, and solve the problems encountered at this moment; Heal worries together, no longer fear the unknown, and look forward to walking together through every part of each other's journey.
If you are experiencing despair, turn around and look behind you, and you will find that behind you, you will not only have the silent support of your family, but also the company of friends along the way.
If you can have a friend like Nana, why expect anything else?
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
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