My girlfriend Ina sat in front of me, her hands shaking uncontrollably.
She said: I have dreamed more than once that my marriage has problems, but I just don't want to admit it, and I have been pretending to be happy in the circle of friends, seriously and persistently sticking to self-righteous love.
Last year, she was 28 and Michel was also 28, and everyone was tired of the game of love that you chased after me, and all the interactions were just to be able to wait to fulfill the marriage procedure.
However, when the engagement is made, the two sides begin to disagree, and all contradictions are fermented to the maximum at the moment of the wedding. On that hot night, ina's face was mixed with makeup and sweat, blackened eyeliner, stained hair, the groom's sleepy eyes were hazy, and the corners of her in-laws' mouths were drooping.
There was no romantic ceremony, and everyone who was hungry began to feast, but the table of Ina's parents, who was arranged in the corner, did not move.
Hearing the news, Ina rushed to the table, looked around at the man's relatives who were eating happily, and then looked at her own mother's family, the dissatisfaction of many days was like a huge balloon, the fried person turned over on her back, she waved the tableware on the table to the ground, and shouted: Why can't we eat at this table? Do you still want to get married?
Mike stepped forward and shouted: What is your name, this is the responsibility of the waiter, don't go on the line!
Ina, who was 3 months pregnant, blushed and her eyes didn't squeak, but that was just the beginning of her unhappy life.
After marriage, with her stomach held up, she still had to send food to Mike every day at noon, and the meals could not be repeated during the week;
He couldn't bend down and was responsible for washing his socks and underwear every night.
Ina said that now that the child is 7 months old, she just wants a divorce.
In retrospect, it can be seen from the wedding day that Mike is a late straight man, does not know how to pity Xiang Xiangyu, and does not know how to solve problems.
Most importantly, he didn't love her at all.
When the child was a week old, I officially divorced him. Ina said the words again, smiling brightly, as if relieved.
Some women, even if they turn the wedding into a battlefield, do not delay her decisive stop loss and rebirth!
I went back to my hometown for a wedding.
The day before the wedding, during the rehearsal, the man was perfunctory and did not want to go on stage to propose to the woman on one knee. When the woman saw him like this, her heart turned upside down, and she gambled and said: This marriage is really not interesting, simply pull down.
The man immediately responded: If you don't tie the knot, you won't tie the knot, who rarely wants you.
The woman was angry, the brother standing next to him came forward and punched the man in the face, the man fled in the wilderness, but asked for help from the family, and soon, the man's parents arrived, and the situation escalated.
The good deeds of the two people, who were originally very happy, turned into a fight between two family members, and the wedding was cancelled on the spot.
It seems that it is because two people are immature and cannot talk well, or the relatives are grumpy and interfere too much, but in essence, there is not enough love at all.
Otherwise, even the cutscenes that should be taken are not willing to go, and the plays that should be played are not willing to be performed, as if everyone is gambling with whom, and they will jump like thunder at every turn and disperse without joy.
None of them are three-year-olds, so who are they to show?
The two people who reluctantly got together in order to get married, each pregnant with a ghost fetus, wary of each other, neither of them wanted to let the other take advantage, and they were not willing to take the initiative to bear the storm that they should have.
I remember attending my classmate Xiaoxiao's wedding, she put on a wedding dress and secretly said to me: You see, the flowers here are all real tweeds. He said that he would marry once in his life, but he couldn't wronged me, he was really wasteful.
When I think about it now, it was a kind of dog-like show of love.
Xiao Xiao has been pampered like a princess after marriage, and we are not surprised at all, we can give a wedding that a woman likes, it can also give a prosperous year after marriage.
The wedding ceremony is a grand farewell ceremony, which allows the participants to say goodbye to the past years and embark on an unknown journey with a nervous but excited mood.
It has witnessed the happiness of many girls, and from then on, she will say goodbye to her parents and share her joys and sorrows with another man.
It also bears witness to the anxiety of many men, and from then on, he will also say goodbye to his parents and walk through the rest of their lives hand in hand with another woman.
It is also a testimony to the grief of their parents, and the children who have been raised for many years will henceforth be called the parents of two other people who are not related by blood, which will reduce their sense of identity by more than half.
Such an important link from top to bottom, of course, needs to be treated with care.
The reason for the perfunctory performance at the wedding is nothing more than to work hard and hurt the people, or it is a reluctant marriage that has been kidnapped by affection or morality, or even just because the old love is not over.
The cinnabar mole in the mouth of the heart was faintly painful, and the white rose in his hand was not fragrant at all.
But no matter what, we can't escape, and life really needs a sense of ceremony, no matter when and where, in church, on the ocean floor, or even under a big tree in the countryside.
When the surrounding bustle is bustling, people are holding their stomachs and grumbling while impatiently watching the performance of the newcomers, even if it is only one person who is moved to tears, then it is also very appropriate.
Love, naturally can give a heart-to-heart wedding, no matter how simple and happy;
Not loving each other, can only give everyone a hypocritical performance, no matter how luxurious is illusory.
The wedding is the first stop to test the quality of marriage, this scene can not be passed, let alone the rest of your life is you?
So, please be sure to be kind to your wedding, but also a good promise for the rest of your life.
Some marriages, from the moment the wedding is held, are already doomed to an unequal ending, but everyone is lucky, thinking that it is only a temporary anxiety, not enough to shake long-term love.
Afraid and afraid, too little love, and too much heart.