#My life is also a headline #Did you go home this year? Have you been "urged to get married", have you "urged marriage" others #New Year##催婚？ #
After returning home, in the face of various relatives, have the "glorious deeds" you did at the beginning been used to "say things"?
Is there anything like me, who is used as a "teaching material" and used by juniors to "draw scoops based on gourds"?
The eldest nephew brought his girlfriend home this year, and when the grandmother told the nephew to be careful not to get the girl pregnant, so as not to get married by the son, the eldest nephew actually said to the grandmother: "Isn't my second aunt pregnant and married?" ”
Of course, the second aunt is me. In 2010, at the age of 26, I had been forced to marry for many years, and I was 4 months pregnant when I married my husband. Unexpectedly, many years later, he was used as a "role model" by his nephew.
Yes, in today's open society, there is nothing to marry a son, as long as the two people have a good relationship, both parents also support and respect, pregnancy will not only not affect the relationship between the two, but also promote the feelings of both parties, like Lin Xinru is married to the son but was favored by Huo Jianhua.
However, if you are afraid, your mind is not correct, and you will use the girl's pregnancy to lower the bride price or not hold a wedding, or the woman threatens the child to be the man's family, the bride price starts at the ground, and all kinds of unreasonable demands are flying in the sky, this kind of devotion should not be married, do not let the child become some people's selfish chips.
Therefore, I would like to tell my nephew, and I would like to advise you, that if you are born of love, we should encourage you. But if it is a marriage caused by an unexpected pregnancy, and one party is bullied by the other, this kind of marriage is not enough, what do you think?