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In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

In "Wife's Romantic Trip", Zheng Kai, as a new tour guide, took the initiative to mention living with Miao Miao's family.

At the dinner table, Zheng Kai suddenly started a topic: Then do you have the experience of living with your elders? Then without waiting for anyone to answer, he himself first rushed to answer: Anyway, I live with her parents.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

He explained that Miao Miao's mother originally lived in Beijing, but after they gave birth, the two elderly people moved to Shanghai. Miao Miao quickly explained: My mother came to help me take care of the child.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

Zheng Kai agreed with her statement, but the following words are a little strange no matter how they sound: her mother came to take care of the children again, her father himself couldn't take care of himself in Beijing, and then her sister was in some school, even the dog was brought over, and it was good that the family was happy together.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

But this is good, doesn't it sound that good? In particular, "what school is her sister in?" and "even the dog was brought here", I feel a little complaining inside.

It may be that she has not fully adapted to the fact that she marries a person but needs to live with her whole family.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

Zheng Kai will mention this matter, either because of the deliberate arrangement of the program group, or Zheng Kai himself has something to say.

Because, after talking about how Miao Miao's family moved to Shanghai with their family and lived with themselves, Zheng Kai immediately took out his mother as a control group.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

He said: My mother doesn't like to live with me, my mother likes to have her own world, my mother can be rich, my mother plays badminton every week, plays table tennis, sings and dances, a lot of activities, idle and nothing to come over to play with the children for two hours and then leave.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

Obviously, he is very satisfied with his mother's rich old age.

Whether Zheng Kai had intentions or not, but this kind of son-in-law living with his father-in-law and mother-in-law and sister-in-law was indeed relatively rare, so as soon as he said this topic, Miao Miao's expression suddenly became tense and solemn.

Before this topic, everyone was discussing the topic of who is in charge of money in the family, Miao Miao heard that Bao Lei held the financial power of the family, and Lu Yi's pocket money was Bao Lei's final say, and said to Zheng Kai very enviously: Let's learn from it too.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

At that time, the atmosphere was still relatively relaxed, and Miao Miao also had a smile on her face.

But when it comes to the topic of her parents living together, she clearly doesn't feel very comfortable.

After the other guests talked about living with elders, Zheng Kai specially cued Zhang Yunlong: Can you accept living with your wife's elders in the future?

Zhang Yunlong immediately said: It should be unlikely.

Zheng Kai said: Ideas will change.

The topic returned to himself.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

Zheng Kai said: I couldn't imagine this kind of day before, so many people living together, so many people with different habits.

After Miao Miao's family moved in, she also asked Zheng Kai if it would be inconvenient. Zheng Kai said: No, I said that the most important thing is that your family is happy together.

Here, Zheng Kai used "your family", obviously not counting himself.

Maybe Zheng Kai was not very satisfied with this status quo, but in order to make Miao Miao feel at ease, he made a compromise.

Therefore, he repeatedly said to Zhang Yunlong: People change.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

And after Miao Miao understood his voice, he said meaningfully: It's all for reality and changing himself. Obviously, Miao Miao's compromise with Zheng Kai is quite useful.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

In fact, about Zheng Kai living with Miao Miao's whole family, it caused discussion last year, and the key point was not the old couple, but Miao Miao's sister in her 20s.

The question of whether a small couple lives with their parents may have 101 answers to 100 people.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

The reality is that, whether you want it or not, after giving birth, most of the elderly in the family will come to live with them for a few years and help bring up the child, either mother-in-law or mother.

Liu Yun also said that when her son was young, her parents also lived with her and Zheng Jun.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

For ordinary people, there is no way around this. After all, most people need to go to work, and it is definitely not okay if the child is not brought with them.

Although the star family has money, you can hire a nanny, or even several nannies, but in the concept of many people, it is more reassuring to have relatives with children, and it is too hard to bring children alone, so parents still have to help.

Therefore, it is understandable that Miao Miao's parents live in their little two's home.

But for Miao Miao's sister, an unmarried girl who has graduated from college for several years, and lives in her sister's brother-in-law's house all year round, it is a little difficult to understand.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

Miao Miao's younger sister is called Miao Yibo, who is the acting class of the dance drama department of the Central Academy of Drama in 2017, and it is reasonable to say that she has graduated for two years, but it seems that she has not been working. After living in Zheng Kai's house in April 2022, he never moved out again.

It is estimated that this girl either wants to debut or become an Internet celebrity. Posted many videos of herself dancing on social accounts, which were basically posted after she moved into Zheng Kai's mansion.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

Some of them appeared with their sister Miao Miao, while others wore crop tops and swung their waists to show off their good figures.

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

It was these videos that caused controversy among netizens.

Originally, what kind of clothes a girl wears to dance is her freedom and her right, but thinking that this is at her brother-in-law's house, many people feel a little inappropriate.

Some netizens left a message: "I don't understand much about my mother's family, all live in the man's house"; "I think it's better to dress decently at my sister's brother-in-law's house"; "Originally, living in my brother-in-law's house was embarrassing enough, and dressed like this, as long as I am not embarrassed, it is my brother-in-law who is embarrassed."

In response to living with Miao Miao's parents and sister, Zheng Kai "complained": even the dog was brought over

In fact, Zheng Kai is an artist, it is estimated that there is not much time at home, and Miao Miao's sister may not dress so cool when he is at home, but his sister-in-law lives in her brother-in-law's house all year round, and it is not a matter of how to look at it.

Of course, some netizens said that Miao Miao didn't care, and Zheng Kai didn't care, why did netizens object.

This is true, but Sister Nag wants to say that my sister doesn't care because my sister is deeply affectionate, and my brother-in-law doesn't care about it may be taking care of my sister's face, but those who are sisters should not take their sister's home as their own home.

People still have to have a little eyesight, and it is better to be independent as soon as possible. What do you think?

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