In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the emperor became suspicious of Zhen Huan four times, the first time was Cao Guiren chatting, the second time was the blood spilled to recognize the relatives, the third time was when the emperor sent Zhen Huan to poison and kill the king of Guojun, and the fourth time was Yu Jiao saying that the sixth brother and Meng Jingxian's children were very similar.
Every time, Zhen Huan was put in a near-desperate situation, hovering at the door of life and death, so that we who chased the drama followed the thrill.
The emperor is the Son of Heaven, and everything is decided by himself; The palace is even more a deep palace compound, Zhen Huan is not Sun Wukong, without the permission of the emperor, it is difficult to take half a step out of the palace in this life, why should the emperor suspect that Zhen Huan has come to this point, is it just afraid that the child is not his own?
No, no, the emperor knows too well what kind of person Zhen Huan is, not afraid that he is not the father of the child, but afraid of these 3 points.
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I am afraid that the person Zhen Huan loves is not herself
The first suspicion was that Cao Guiren said something to stir up discord, and the emperor asked Zhen Huan: "When did you have feelings for Xuan?" If Zhen Huan was talking about the back garden, then the person Zhen Huan loved was the King of Guojun, and he used the identity of the King of Guojun to talk with Zhen Huan about flower poetry.
Zhen Huan is not a fuel-saving lamp, the answer is that when the emperor solved the siege and dealt with the Yu family because of himself, at this point, the identity of the emperor had been exposed, so the emperor concluded from Zhen Huan's words: the person Zhen Huan loves is himself.
The second time was the blood recognition incident, everyone said that the twins were Dr. Wen's, the queen proposed to spill blood to recognize relatives, Zhen Huan's team members jumped out to object, the emperor still insisted on spilling blood to recognize relatives, not for fear of the world's discussion, but for fear that Zhen Huan stayed by her side on the surface, but loved others in her heart and gave birth to other people's children.
The third and fourth times, it was clear from the hands of others and the mouths of others that he learned clues close to the truth of the matter, but the emperor still held a trace of luck, hoping that it was not, hoping that Zhen Huan's heart loved herself.
Zhou Xiaopeng, a well-known international emotional marriage mentor, said: "Married men are not afraid of divorce or lack of money, but are afraid that their favorite wife will not love themselves." ”
Because of love, I am willing to give, my wife does not love myself anymore, what is the point of all giving?
People who love you always know how to love you, do what they love you, and say what they say loves you.
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Afraid that Zhen Huan will affect his career
The first time I suspected, the reason why the emperor asked was to confirm who Zhen Huan loved in her heart, and the people around her did not love herself and marry herself, so wasn't it for her own career? If it weren't for Zhen Huan's answer, which happened to be what the emperor wanted, the emperor would have divided Zhen Huan's five horses into corpses.
The second suspicion, he could have calmed all rumors by directly killing Zhen Huan without taking such a big effort. But it's not cost-effective.
The family's reputation is gone, the face of his own man is gone, and he was actually brought a green hat by the pillow person, and helped others raise children, so hard to establish everything, just because of a moment of anger and all criticized, it is indeed not cost-effective.
The third suspicion, the audience's voice was the highest, the emperor at this stage had obtained the family letter of the King of Guojun, and also confirmed that the King of Guojun and Zhen Huan had an affair, and the evidence was conclusive, and Zhen Huan could be killed. But the emperor did not do this, and chose to kill the king of Guojun to leave Zhen Huan, not because he loved Zhen Huan, but because he was afraid of affecting his imperial power and Jiangshan.
From beginning to end, the emperor never stopped doubting Zhen Huan, but he didn't say it himself, which was the emperor's silence after careful consideration, and it was also the choice of conscience after the calculation was completed.
Zhang Jiahui, a veteran artist in the entertainment industry, once said: "I dare not cheat not because I am afraid of my wife, but because I am afraid of affecting my career." ”
This sentence is so true and heart-wrenching, there is no long-lasting love in this world, it is a relationship that weighs the pros and cons of each other.
Love words are also about the heart, you should not overestimate human nature, nor can you have too high requirements for the other party.
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Afraid that Zhen Huan will be too ruthless
After Zhen Huan gave birth to Xun Yue, the emperor sat on the side of Zhen Huan's bed and said, "Concubine Guan, don't you still understand?" You have already given birth to a princess for Xuan, as long as you want, Xin can immediately make you a concubine, and Xu will treat you the same as before. ”
The emperor's words were a big concession, which could be seen as begging Zhen Huan to stay.
But Zhen Huan did not, just according to her previous plan, after giving birth to the child, she bid farewell to the emperor and left the palace, and took nothing but a piano.
So ruthless, so determined, shocked the emperor. He is ruthless, ruthless is the mouth, and Zhen Huan is ruthless, ruthless is the heart.
The emperor was afraid, so after Zhen Huan returned to the palace, the emperor did not dare to easily provoke Zhen Huan to be angry.
Because of a huge harem, except for Zhen Huan, no one can talk to himself, let alone mention himself, willing to give advice for himself.
No one wastes their time giving you guidance.
Even seeing your mistakes, your shortcomings, and you are taking detours, will not tell you. Because no one wants to, the other party is smarter than themselves, and no one hopes that the other party will have more things than themselves.
Instead, I hope that the more stupid you are, the better, the more honest the better, and the easier to use the better.
Because of this, they can control and use you well for their own benefit.
This is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it.
The emperor went through, understood, and was afraid.
Relative to the emperor, relative to us, don't have expectations and dependence on anyone, don't take anyone too seriously, trust too much, don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, don't take human feelings too seriously.
Look for people of the same kind, and values, people of equal strength, get along without getting tired, do not have to worry so much, no glass heart, no jealousy. If you want to learn, the best way is to pay.
The relationship between people is very light and cool. Cherish when the fate is together, and do not linger when the fate is separated.
The two things of growing and making money also have to rely on themselves, and protecting themselves also has to rely on themselves.