Wen Jun had two intentions, so he decided to break up. Miserable and miserable, there is no need to cry when marrying. - "Bald Head"
This is Zhuo Wenjun's poem, which mainly depicts the dashing and resolute attitude of a woman who has suffered betrayal, which has resonated with the majority of women for thousands of years.
However, only you can't think of it, no human being can't do it, and the true disposition exposed after someone's divorce, not to mention the joy of one or two wide, even marrying without crying can't do it.
Human beings are the most complex animals in the world, but the human heart is more unpredictable than anything, even if two people eat and live together, they may not be able to guess what the other person thinks.
Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng were like this, the same strong souls collided together, and in the blink of an eye, they shattered into a slag on the ground, poking each one with a wound.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Love at first sight, goodbye </h1>
In 1979, at Xiao Mengneng's home, Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng met for the first time. At that time, although King Xiang had a dream, he had no choice but to hate when he did not meet and did not marry, and li Ao was accompanied by his then girlfriend Liu Huiyun.
Hu Yin's dream was as beautiful as a dream, which made Li Ao shocked that the heavens did not dare to blaspheme. Hu Yinmeng became famous at a young age, and at the age of 21, he became popular all over Taiwan with his starring role in "Cloud Deep Unknown Place", and won the Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actress in "People in the End of the World", which can be described as the limelight, when it was known as Taiwan's first beautiful woman, and the degree of popularity was comparable to Lin Chiling.
Li Ao was only three years out of prison at that time, and lived with his girlfriend Liu Huiyun for two years, and his relationship was still relatively stable. However, these are all magma buried in the ground, just waiting for the day when it erupts.
Hu Yinmeng is a talented woman and admires caizi, in her opinion, Li Ao's resistance to tradition and that madness have added an unexpected stroke to his charm.
Hu Yinmeng once said that her first meeting with Li Ao was quite unexpected, because she had read Li Ao's article before and thought that he was an untamed figure, but Li Ao in his youth did not have the slippery and deliberate burrs after that, but from hair to shoes, he reflected the tame and conservative of the doctrinal school, which made her feel a little good.
That day, Hu Yinmeng was wearing a long skirt robe, barefoot and barefoot, and she was sensitive to noticing that Li Ao's gaze had been glued to her feet. At that time, many people thought that Li Ao was shy to meet the goddess for the first time, but after a long time, Hu Yinmeng learned that Li Ao was originally a "foot fetish".
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, I don't know what to do </h1>
Hu Yinmeng, however, firmly did not think that they were love at first sight, because according to her memory, she did not have that electric flint-like chemical reaction to Li Ao.
However, Li Ao then began to pursue Hu Yinmeng, he took Hu Yinmeng to drink coffee, talk about life, and took her to see his own bookstore, which claimed to have 100,000 books. Li Ao suddenly kissed Hu Yinmeng there, but Hu Yinmeng did not feel the discomfort of offense, but became more and more curious about this cautious young man who would suddenly make unexpected behavior.
Later, Li Ao gave Hu Yinmeng a new book he had written, and he wrote on the page "Sleepwalker under the Red Flag", which was like a lightning bolt, just hitting Hu Yinmeng's death pit, and she consciously fell into it.
Hu Yinmeng was a Manchu from the Guarjia clan, and the Zhenghong Banner was one of the Eight Banners of the Qing Dynasty, originally originating in the Ulanchabu region of present-day Inner Mongolia.
The Eight Banners of the Qing Dynasty were divided into the Upper Three Banners and the Lower Five Banners, and the Zhenghong Banner was the first of the Lower Five Banners, but at the end of the Qing Dynasty, it was the least populous banner among the Eight Banners. Hu Yinmeng, like the famous writer Lao She, is from the Positive Red Flag.
Under the planning of Liu Huiyun, Li Ao met with the owner of The Vision Bookstore and subsequently published his new work "Tradition under Monologues", from which Li Ao made a formal comeback, and Hu Yinmeng accelerated the process by writing an article for him.
Just when Li Ao shook the literary world, his relationship with Liu Huiyun was pushed into a corner, and Li Ao said, I love you one hundred percent, but now I have met a thousand percent. You see, the rendition declaration of the talent is also so difficult to say.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, the collapse of the real revealed human set</h1>
The love affair between the two was not smooth sailing, the two were divided and merged, but they broke with their families, Hu Yinmeng and Li Ao finally broke through the obstacles and came together.
Hu Yinmeng regarded the marriage as her own adventure, but on the day of the wedding, Li Ao's words suddenly made her heart suddenly cold. At the end of the two people's licenses, Li Ao suddenly said to Hu Yinmeng seriously, "You have signed a contract now, I see where you can still run, go make me tea and drink!" ”
Hu Yinmeng was originally also a very self-reliant and strong person, she married Li Ao not to be a maid for him, where can stand Li Ao's face on the spot.
In a fit of anger, she tore up the marriage certificates of the two on the spot, and this was not to divorce Li Ao, but to prove to him that whether she was married or not, she was a free person with a free soul, and Li Ao did not want to use this broken paper to imprison himself.
This move was originally just a woman's momentary anger, but Li Ao took it as a challenge to marriage, and instead of fulfilling the promise made to Hu Yinmeng before marriage, he took the lead in bowing his head and making peace with his mother-in-law, but in front of Hu Yinmeng's other relatives and friends, he wantonly insulted her family, "I did not do anything wrong, how could I go to an inexplicable old woman to make reparations?" It was this angry sentence that provoked Hu Yinmeng to return to his mother's house with his father on the spot.
A few days later, Li Ao, who had woken up, took the initiative to call Hu Yinmeng and asked her how she wanted to compensate herself before she was willing to go home again. Hu Yinmeng did not answer, so Li Ao asked again, if he stood at the door and let Hu Yinmeng's mother scold for an hour, could it be considered remorse?
Hu Yinmeng nodded. So Li Ao went to the Hu family with gifts the next day, let Hu Yinmeng's dissatisfied mother scold, and then finally took Hu Yinmeng's hand and brought her home.
However, the problem between the two cannot disappear because of someone's temporary weakness, which makes Hu Yin dream in her throat, she is a sensitive woman, which is an advantage in the work, especially when performing, but when with a strong person like Li Ao, it becomes an obstacle.
She was acutely aware that there were too many difficulties between the two, very different life habits, growth and living environments, and diametrically opposed codes of conduct, and these problems were only temporarily overshadowed by the sweetness of the new marriage, but they were always there.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > four, the same forest birds fly separately</h1>
Li Ao understands that Hu Yinmeng likes himself, but he does not understand that In addition to love, Hu Yinmeng's heavenly woman cherishes freedom and independence. Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng fell in love because they did not understand each other, but they were separated because they understood each other.
The last straw that broke the marriage was Li Ao's private sale of his friend Xiao Mengneng's property and furniture and antiques.
Hu Yinmeng loved Li Ao, who had a clear insight into fame and fortune, she fantasized about a chivalrous heart for her lover, but she was shattered by the ruthless reality, and many years later she evaluated Li Ao as a clever criminal who was resourceful and only cared about her own selfish desires, so she immediately decided to silently remove all her things and then filed for divorce.
In this protracted divorce lawsuit, Li Ao personally broke Hu Yinmeng's residual warmth, and fulfilled Hu Yinmeng's evaluation of him, counter-suing Hu Yinmeng for forging documents, forcing Hu Yinmeng to stand in court again and again and go to court with him.
Even when the media asked Li Ao why he didn't want Hu Yinmeng, Li Ao said something that embarrassed any woman, he said that seeing Hu Yinmeng's face was red with constipation, which was really unbearable." However, Hu Yinmeng lightly resolved the embarrassment: "Too close, there is no beauty." ”
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
The old affairs of Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng are certainly lamentable, but fortunately, Hu Yinmeng did not collapse because of a failed marriage, but used these old events as material and brewed into a book, and her talent made Li Ao after the divorce unsatisfactory, and turned to attack from time to time, in vain.
In fact, life is like a practice, you will meet all kinds of people, some people will walk with you for a while, some people will accompany you for a lifetime, and some people will give you a fierce lesson to let you see a variety of bottom lines.
But the most important thing is not these people, but how you distinguish between these three, those who can only walk together for a while, let go quickly, those who have given you lessons, graduate quickly after learning, do not continue to repeat grades. If you can't cross people in practice, then it is enough to cross yourself.
Reference: "White Head"
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