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Text/Xiao Ning talks about sports
Editor/Xiao Ning talks about sports
Life is destined to have countless knots, some are crazy beginnings, and some are unexpected endings. is like the marriage between Hu Yinmeng and Li Ao, when they are in love, they are envied by others, but after the divorce, they are full of blood and tears. Until the end, with a big heart, she transcended it all.
A perfect match for a pair of talented and beautiful women
Peel off the fog of time and return to Taiwan in 1979. Li Ao, a "madman" in the literary world, has just made a comeback. This person, who once set off the turmoil of the Cultural Revolution, is known as "the son of a peasant, the son of Taiwan, and the son of the Chinese nation". Even the other side of the strait is crazy about him.
At that time, the famous actress Hu Yinmeng also admired him. She admires Li Ao's sharp brushstrokes and fearlessness. Previously, Hu Yinmeng had written a approving text for him.
A chance encounter made the lovers of life and death start a love affair with lips and teeth. Perhaps it was Li Ao's uninhibited style that attracted Hu Yinmeng's attention. At the home of Jinlan Mansion, he was not as rough and bold as rumored, but was deferential and polite.
In a blink of an eye, Hu Yinmeng moved into Li Ao's home. Li Ao prepares drinks and newspapers for her like a sophisticated machine, which makes her feel warm. Hu Yinmeng brought a sunny personality into his world and injected vitality into this withdrawn man.
However, it did not last long. After marriage, Li Ao exposed his obsessive-compulsive side. His demands on Hu Yinmeng intensified, and he was also angry about small things. In the end, the unspeakable reason made the couple quickly part ways.
Hu Yinmeng discovered that Li Ao, who was once a "chivalrous man" in his eyes, was just a "smart criminal". He took over his friend Xiao Mengneng's belongings, and even Hu Yinmeng was involved. This made the deeply hurt Hu Yinmeng completely disillusioned and insisted on divorce.
The 115-day flash wedding caused an uproar in the outside world. The two then hurt each other in divorce declarations, defamation, and lawsuits, and even got into a dispute for years. The original perfect marriage was reduced to a piece of chicken feathers.
The poet insulted the beauty, but he poked at the sore spot
Many changes after marriage made Li Ao depressed. In many talk shows, he began to belittle and humiliate his ex-wife without a bottom line.
"Hu Yinmeng always likes to wear high heels because he is not tall. "Her feet are huge. "It takes her an hour to put on makeup, and the difference between makeup and no makeup is too great. The image of Hu Yinmeng was ruthlessly destroyed in his pen.
Li Ao even broke the news without reservation: "Once when I opened the toilet door, I saw her squatting and constipation and her face was flushed, and 10,000 grass and mud horses ran by in my heart, I was really unbearable." "
This statement is too explicit and straightforward to make people laugh. This is a well-known master in Taiwan's literary circle, why do you belittle your ex-wife so much?
In fact, the root cause of Li Ao's slander of Hu Yinmeng lies precisely in his inability to let go of his inner obsession. A Sagittarius man's pride and self-esteem have taken a serious hit. As a wife, Hu Yinmeng has a tough attitude towards his theft, which he can't accept.
Therefore, in the program many years later, Li Ao kept repeating the words slandering Hu Yinmeng. It seems like it's a way for him to combat painful trauma. However, it was this resentment and harm that made his heart sink deeper and deeper.
Hu Yinmeng was calm and calm, and he was filthy from different streams. She said indifferently: "Over the years, he has been humiliating me, which is a good practice for me. She saw it thoroughly and felt that behind Li Ao's slander was the lingering obsession and unrelenting nostalgia in his heart.
A generation of talented people wept: goodbye Hu Yinmeng
Time flies, and the years are merciless. In his twilight years, Li Ao suffered from a terminal illness, and he realized that his life was coming to an end. So, this talented man who has been vigorous and arrogant all his life began to review his past.
He hosts a goodbye tour where important people in his life are invited to come and reconcile. However, what haunted him the most was the ex-wife Hu Yinmeng, who had been entangled with him for 40 years.
82-year-old Li Ao still hasn't forgotten this woman who haunts him. Whenever he talks about Hu Yinmeng, he still praises her as the most beautiful person he has ever seen, even more beautiful than the actress Tang Wei.
"Our love is like a mess, and we can't always figure it out. This time, I want to say goodbye to her sincerely. Li Ao said. The years finally gave him a broad mind and could face up to this absurd marriage.
But when Li Ao saw Hu Yinmeng again, everything seemed to go back to the past. At the age of seventy or eighty, he was still impressed by Hu Yinmeng's quiet and solemn bearing. He couldn't hide the excitement in his heart, and he couldn't wait to embrace this former beloved immediately.
But Hu Yinmeng just silently put his hand on his back and stroked it. She had already seen through the fragility behind Li Ao's defensive psychology, and there was no need to say more. The eyes were full of tolerance and understanding, as if to say, "It's okay, it's all over." "
In the end, in the reminiscences of the end of his life, Li Ao still couldn't completely let go of this stunning woman. "We could have been happy, but we walked this bloody path. He couldn't stop crying.
Hu Yinmeng was indifferent and relaxed, and his cultivation was fruitful
However, unlike Li Ao's struggle, Hu Yinmeng has already seen through marriage and let it go. After her marriage, she was severely malnourished, but soon regained her vitality and devoted herself to the study of philosophy and psychology.
She has not only translated many Buddhist scriptures and psychological classics, but also launched several environmental campaigns in Southeast Asia. What's even more commendable is that she has made great progress on the road of self-cultivation.
In the face of slander and injury, Hu Yinmeng responded indifferently: "Over the years, he has continued to humiliate me like this, and he has been practicing very well for me. It can be seen that she has already seen through the red dust and is not confused by fame and fortune.
People who like Hu Yinmeng often say that she is like a fairy who does not eat fireworks in the world, cold and unworldly. But what is even more incredible is her tolerance and understanding of the emotional world.
Not only did she never entangle with Li Ao, but after knowing the news that he was critically ill, she made a special trip to visit this former rival. His eyes were full of pity and reluctance, and this compassion was touching.
Ordinary women endure such setbacks and resent them for the rest of their lives. But Hu Yinmeng not only transcended the harm, but also resolved the resentment. Years of precipitation and experience have made her cultivate a heart of great compassion and compassion. Who would have thought that the rebellious girl back then would be so wise and foolish?
When she dissociates with this world, she has long since lost her former glory. But the free and open-minded nature of a transparent life is an indelible light in the red dust.
One day, we will all meet a Li Ao, a person who gets carried away and hurts himself. Or perhaps, we are the poor people who are resentful, paranoid, and stubborn. In any case, the story of Hu Yinmeng gives us a lesson from the past.
That is to learn to forgive, let go, and forgive. Even when others have hurt themselves, respond with greater tolerance and compassion. Only by not being confined by fame can we truly live our own lives and make our lives more sacred and shining.
Have you ever been deeply hurt by someone, and how will you cope with such a difficult situation? Feel free to share your stories and thoughts in the comments section.
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