@ Emotional Review Awards, Chen Meiling and Ivy in "Goodbye Lover 2" are a couple, who have known each other for 31 years, have been married for 18 years without children, and are now separated for two years.
The man fell in love at first sight when he first met the woman. When she was young, Chen Meiling was a big beauty and a champion in beauty contests. It can be said that the woman's man's dream lover. After seven or eight years of love, they finally got married in 2002. It can be said that before marriage, the woman fully meets the man's criteria for choosing a mate, and it is the man's initiative to pursue and marry the wife for seven or eight years. It can be said that in this process, men love women more.
A few years after marriage, Chen Meiling developed a uterine fibroid. It finally weighed 12 pounds and was removed after three surgeries. Polycystic liver due to uterine fibroids. It was his kidneys and liver problems. The husband took good care of his wife after the operation, and it was a particularly happy time for them together. In the end, the 18-year marriage ended with the problem that the husband persuaded his wife not to play mahjong and the wife failed to do so.
Why did the two parties who were originally in love eventually separate? It seems like. The wife loves to play mahjong, and the husband is worried about his wife's health, and the persuasion is not successful, resulting in separation. How could 31 years of relationship disappear because of a mahjong game? Mahjong, this is an excuse, behind the fear of unsolvable women's physical health diseases. The man spent more than ten years accompanying his wife to overcome the disease. Suddenly, I am over 60 years old, and when I am old, I am a little weak. With the fear of life and death, his plans for his future, the hope that when he is old, when he is sick, there is someone next to him who can take care of him, so he chose an excuse to escape.
A woman like Chen Meiling, who was once beautiful and had a perfect lover who loved him, became seriously ill after middle age. It is also inevitable to be divorced. In the face of illness, all human nature is vividly displayed, and the ancient Chinese saying is that there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and you should never challenge human nature. Therefore, women must have a good destiny, and what they can do is to make their own decisions about their own health.
1. The main cause of Ms. Chen's problem is that she has a problem with her own body. Sometimes life and death are not a choice. But as women, we should try to do our best to do our health. Everyone is an independent person, no one will be responsible for your health, only yourself.
2 If possible, one should have a child at a relatively young age. This can improve security in old age. Because blood relatives are more stable than yin relatives. The child's obligation to support the parents is statutory.