I watched a fairy tale for the first time in adulthood, but I didn't expect it to be a black fairy tale like "Carrot Whiskers".
What is a black fairy tale?
It is a silent indictment of the real world with pessimism and doubts about beautiful things, reflecting dissatisfaction with the current state of society, intended to tell everyone that real life is not a fairy tale, not so beautiful.
The book was very beautiful at first glance when it was opened, and the paper was thicker than the usual book paper when flipped through. The illustrations inside are also vivid and vivid, and the reading experience is very good!
"Carrot Whiskers" is about a teenage boy who is known as Carrot Whiskers because of his ochre red hair and freckles. Father, mother, brother, sister do not like him, take him out of anger, coldly ridicule him, bully him; Carrot whiskers are often frightened into doing many ridiculous and ridiculous things. However, the turnip whiskers, who grew up, finally began to rebel after going to school, and through hardships, he learned to be independent.
"Carrot Whiskers"
The little protagonist Carrot Whiskers, like each of us, we can see ourselves in the different stories of this book, and also let us see the problems of family education from another angle.
For example, you will never get praise from your parents," and when he first shot down a sandpiper with a shotgun, his father would walk over and ask, "Why don't you shoot down both of them that just flew over?" ”
"Carrot Whiskers" will never get a compliment
In one passage that impressed me, Carrot Whisker said that when playing the game of "jumping goat", he prefers to squat and let others jump, so that he can always be unmoving. When playing the game of catching people, whenever others want to catch him, he will let people catch him, and he never minds. When playing hide-and-seek, he hides so well that in the end others forget to come to him.
This self-deprecation makes me feel sad and loving, sensitive and timid little carrot whiskers, how many children long for more attention?
"Carrot Whiskers" jumping goat
Madame Lepek (mother) is more reasonable and gentle every time she educates her brothers and sisters, but she always does it directly to carrot whiskers. Mrs. Lepeake said, "His brother Felix is sensitive by nature and is not suitable for stick education, which is more suitable here in carrots. ”
Families with more than one child should be able to understand that fairness is the most important thing in the family, we try to level a bowl of water, but people's hearts are always biased, just like good students and bad students do the same wrong things, the teacher will definitely think that it is the reason for the poor students.
This treatment makes Carrot Whisker timid, and in order to avoid beatings and to get more love from his mother, he becomes submissive and more deliberate to please his mother. How to curry favor? For example, eat what his mother loves, and when his mother is full, he puts down his chopsticks and stops eating, and he likes what his mother likes.
"Carrot Whiskers" stick education
Little Carrot must be pitiful, a child who lacks love, but this book is written from his own point of view, he does one set of thoughts in his heart is another, and the child's acting skills are very clumsy, which makes the mother think that the child is very dishonest and has his own bad ideas.
Although it is a "fairy tale", I think adults will have more empathy. After reading it, it gave me a new perspective on parenting. Although some children are introverted, they also have a world of their own in their hearts. Although some children are timid, they are not without their own opinions, but they dare not express them. Even if such a child says good, he does not necessarily think so in his heart. We need to give him more love, tolerance and encouragement.
I hope that more people can see this book, which is of great help to family education and self-healing.
See yourself from another perspective.
Carrot's view on "family" is very special, I was very bright when I watched it, I liked it very much, share it with you~
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