Text/Dream sky is slightly blue
I once heard such a saying: "Who does not want to die at the same time, but at the same time desperately wants to live." "I think so.
In this vast world, we are full of hope to move forward, but life has given us a blow in the head, catching us off guard, and our eyes are black. At such moments, we really want to die.
However, we are not so fragile, as long as we do not give up and are strong, there will be light in the dark land after all.
In the book "I Have a Little Man in My Heart", I saw such a strong soul. She was helpless, doubted her existence, and was exhausted by depression, but eventually achieved self-redemption. From her experience, we see the light of life, as long as you don't give up, there is always a way to take you to the light.
This is a particularly healing book, the essence of the author's 2192 days and nights, 53 psychoanalytic graphic diaries.
The author takes the painting as the eye, dissolves the deepest black in the darkness a little bit, so that the brightest light in life shines into his own life, and also into the life of the reader. From this book, I learned 3 truths of life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >01 It's not terrible to say the wrong thing, it's terrible to not let yourself go</h1>
The author writes:
"Don't be afraid
Wrong
It quickly dissipated
Don't be afraid
The lights went out
And the moon is bright."
When getting along with others, many of us have such feelings, afraid of saying the wrong thing, or saying the wrong thing, and we can't let go for a long time. But the author tells us not to be afraid, those who say the wrong thing will soon dissipate, we don't have to worry.
Yes, in this vast world, everyone is taking care of themselves, where is there so much energy to pay attention to another person! Therefore, why should we have difficulty in putting a shackle on ourselves and trapping our hearts!
Let go of those unnecessary attachments and see the good, and our lives will be brighter.
As Lin Qingxuan said: "Life is already bitter enough, if we sum up the decades of unsatisfactory things, it will definitely make us difficult." ”
Only by learning to let go and often thinking about the beauty of that one or two, will our lives have sunshine shining in.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="21" >02 Life is malleable, don't set limits on yourself</h1>
Do you often feel that you are too much of a failure, and there is no way to break through the bottleneck and reach another height in life?
In fact, the author worm also feels this way. She is a painter who is good at painting real scenes, that is, what she sees in front of her. Moreover, she attaches great importance to the correctness and professionalism of painting, and she feels that this is the only correct direction for the painter.
Therefore, all along, she only painted what she saw in front of her, and from the bottom of her heart, she thought that she lacked the talent for imagination and could not draw the things in her fantasy.
It wasn't until she underwent psychoanalysis and drew imaginary villains that she was relieved. She found herself able to do it, but for a long time, her self-imposed limitations trapped herself. As long as she's willing to start, she can do it.
In fact, our lives are all malleable, and no one can prescribe what we should be, only we can.
The road to breaking through the bottleneck and moving towards a new life has always been there, as long as we believe in ourselves and work hard to practice, we can find it.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" >03 In the trough, don't ask if there is a road ahead, just go</h1>
Nietzsche said, "There is the only way in the world, and no one can take it except you." Where does it go? Don't ask, just go. ”
Once, while the author was undergoing psychoanalysis, the counselor asked her, "What's stopping you from getting better?" She thought for a long time and came up with an answer: "Myself." ”
Why did the author come up with this answer? She remembered a nickname given to her by her friends many years ago, "I'm Afraid of Bugs." How did this nickname come about? Words from the author always begin with "I'm afraid".
In fact, many people have such worries as the author, such as fear of darkness, fear of loneliness, fear of doing the wrong thing. Because of fear, everything in life, we will feel afraid, afraid that the leader will not do well what he has told us, afraid that we will not be able to do it.
But in fact, these so-called "worries" and "fears" rarely really happen, but we just think too much.
As the author puts it, "I thought I had a hundred fears, but in fact they were all one kind of fear, and I took a hundred names." ”
So, how can we get rid of this "fear"? In fact, just move. Don't ask about cause and effect, don't ask about cause, just try to do it.
As Lu Xun said: "In fact, there is no road on the ground, and the more people who walk, the more they become the road." ”
As long as we can bravely take the first step and go on bravely, there will be a road and hope.
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