Since ancient times, we have been a country of etiquette, with particular emphasis on etiquette, and hospitality is paramount.
There are guests at home, how to make others feel more decent?
Hospitality is not just about having enthusiasm, but about following etiquette and fitting into a "degree". Everything in the world is easy to do, but it is difficult to master a "degree". The old saying often says: "Tea is always full of food and wine", this sentence is the way of hospitality, but also "degree".
In fact, this sentence is not difficult to understand, pour tea for guests, pour seven points full just right, give guests eight points full just right, and pour wine for guests, you must fill the wine glass.
So, why use this "degree"? In fact, there are mysteries in it!
The so-called tea pours seven points, and there is a saying in the folk: "Tea pours seven points full, leaving three points is human feelings." Partners can carefully taste the truth in this sentence.
Drinking tea since ancient times is to drink hot tea, if you pour the cup too full, guests will be ugly because they can't afford to pick up the cup, so this is not a humane way of hospitality.
Tea poured seven points full is not the same, guests can not only pick up the cup freely, but also avoid the taboo of "profit is loss, full is overflowing".
Well, the next thing to say is to serve the guests a meal, and it will be good to serve eight points full. If you stuff the guest's rice bowl too full, it is very impolite to do so, don't ask why, ask is not to know.
China's wine culture is broad and profound, but no matter what kind of wine, it is necessary to pour a full glass of wine for the guests, which is full of sincerity.
Moreover, the wine should always be filled with guests, which means that the friendship is continuous.
"Tea is full of food and wine" is not only about hospitality, but also the measure of our people.
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