Guests come to worship the Lord's cigarettes are not affected, and the wine is half tea full of shame. Pour tea without drinking and buckle the cup, and never step on this gatehouse.
This is the way of etiquette handed down by traditional Chinese culture, and two sentences are "pour tea without drinking and buckle the cup, and never step on this gatehouse." So what do these words mean? Let's take a look.
The meaning of this sentence is that when guests come to be guests, in addition to having a meal together, when they meet, guests hand you cigarettes, which is unacceptable at this time; because according to traditional Chinese culture, guests should come to your home should be you to entertain, the host family to hand you cigarettes, but you do not accept, in turn, you bring your own cigarettes to the host, indicating that the guests look down on the cigarettes you handed over, at this time, the guests in turn give you cigarettes can not be accepted.
There are guests to come, the dinner room is certainly indispensable to the wine, as the saying goes, "wine full of respect, tea full of deception", pouring wine is to pour full is to show respect for the guests, but also express their sincerity, if you go to the guest, the host only poured you half a cup of wine or tea for you to pour full, because the tea is generally hot, after pouring full, it is not good to serve it, which is equivalent to the disguised "eviction order" for the guests who come, so it is called tea full of deception. It's a humiliation for the guests.
In addition, if during the banquet, if the wine in the glass is only half dissatisfied, even if the other party does not drink, it is necessary to pour the wine in time to show courtesy.
The meaning of these two sentences is that if the guest is treated by the above, the tea is directly spilled and the tea cup is upside down on the table, indicating that he will not step into the house again.
The above is the traditional hospitality that has been handed down, which not only expresses the respect and sincerity of the guests, but also reflects their own cultural connotations. However, today's young people have a relatively shallow awareness, so there is no special meaning, if it is treated in this way, it may not be that there is no etiquette inheritance in this regard, and there is no need to pay too much attention to it.
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