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Recently, I believe that everyone has eaten Dongzi's melons, right? From the Mingzhou case in 2018 to today, the prosecution has been carried out so many times, and finally the dust has settled: Liu Qiangdong's case was settled, and the circle of friends of the milk tea sister was quiet, and finally ended peacefully.
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Hold on~ Don't be busy mocking the milk tea sister, the whole melon is eaten, I think many people have overlooked an important point, that is, Zhang Zetian's attitude in the whole thing is a real strong demeanor, simply prove the importance of putting interests first with practical operations!
I only need to draw two important points:
1) The news broke that Zhang Zetian was recently waiting to give birth in the United States, and he is currently pregnant with his second child, and he has a strong son by his side. That's right, before the end of her husband's Mingzhou case, I began to prepare for pregnancy and prepare to have a second child.
▲ I seriously suspect that this is posing, to know that CVS supermarkets are usually not visited at all, this secret photo is almost to the face, can only say that everything is a routine;
2) Zhang Zetian specially attended the trial of Liu Qiangdong's Mingzhou case, and accompanied her husband in the audience throughout the whole process; Follow-up Qiangzi specially and publicly thanked the "wife's tolerance", which means a lot (the subway old man looks at his mobile phone .jpg)...
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Everyone is analyzing the marriage relationship between these two, after all, being able to achieve that her husband was exposed to the peach incident, and she was still in a hurry to give birth to a second child and show affection, this kind of relationship can be described as unimaginably "indestructible"!
This melon gnawed down, the whole thing gave me the biggest feeling that Zhang Zetian, this woman is really strong!
It is suggested that Zhihu million concerns the question "How to replicate the road of Wendi Deng?" "Can be changed to" What does Zhang Zetian teach women? "——Really, don't be busy mocking her as a "petite wife", after all, this "petite wife" only needs to rely on marriage to obtain a wealth of tens of billions ...
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Zhang Zetian has the same ambition as Deng Wendi, and what they have in common is that "anchoring a goal is to strive to achieve", and the way to achieve the goal also has many similarities. We do not rule out the fact that people have to rely on luck, but comparing their life paths, we can find that wise choices are more important than luck.
▲ I didn't expect to really dig up a photo of the three of them, Amazing!
Origin: Not satisfied with the basic conditions of the original family
Zhang Zetian's popularity comes from a "clear water hibiscus" photo of him in the ancient Internet era - pure appearance at the level of the goddess, holding down-to-earth milk tea, the background is an ordinary high school classroom, different from the various Internet celebrities that are now popular, the photo of the milk tea sister is absolutely well-deserved white moonlight.
Because the photo was widely circulated, the identity of the milk tea sister was also picked up. There are many related reports about her, I will not repeat them here, but roughly speaking:
Zhang Zetian comes from a middle-class family where his parents are divorced and was raised by his father, who is a professor. From high school to college, her father is equivalent to her private public relations identity, and will deliberately promote her school flower daughter to expand her exposure.
Because he was studying in a Chinese school outside Nanjing, he once inexplicably had some lace scandals with Suning's son-Zhang Kangyang, but it is said that the two actually have little to do with each other, but it also expands Zhang Zetian's popularity.
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Let's compare Wendi Deng's native family.
Deng Wendi was born in a patriarchal family, and the conditions of the original family were not good, and he was regarded as a well-off family. There are three children in the family, and their parents moved back to Guangdong from Jiangsu after giving birth to their son, leaving Deng Wendi to study in Jiangsu by himself.
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She knew the necessity of reading from a young age, so she got good grades. When she was in college, she listened to her parents' arrangement to study in medical school, but she was not satisfied with being a doctor, and she studied English seriously during her medical studies, thinking about going abroad in the future.
Opportunity: Make the smartest choice
If you want to climb up, it is really important to seize the opportunity, sometimes the opportunity is based on luck, and most of the time it is also your own value.
Zhang Zetian's opportunity was because after the photo of "Milk Tea Sister" became popular, her pure appearance was taken in by Zhang Yimou, a big director in the entertainment industry, and she was asked to be the heroine one after another, which is what we call "Mou girl".
According to the usual situation, once the girl is selected, there is a high probability of becoming a first-line actress, but whether it is "Jinling Thirteen" or "Hawthorn Tree Love", Zhang Zetian just doesn't go. That is to say, at that time, she was determined not to enter the entertainment industry, and the daily income of 2.08 million in the entertainment industry did not move her heart.
Looking at it now, if Zhang Zetian had chosen to enter the entertainment industry to be a female star at that time, then her current life and status would be completely different.
Look at Wendi Deng again.
Although her appearance conditions are not as good as Zhang Zetian, she knows that "social circle" is very important.
According to reports, 19-year-old Wendi Deng loved ballroom dancing during his college years and went to various dance halls to socialize, so he met Jake Cherry and his wife from the United States. She sincerely expressed her determination to study in the United States, and the couple also appreciated her and accepted her as an adopted daughter to sponsor all her needs for studying in the United States.
Imagine, if Wendi Deng only cares about studying in college and does not touch the social dance that the upper class loves, will she have the opportunity to meet her adoptive parents who can take her to the United States to study? If she does not take the initiative to make up for English, can her own conditions seize such an opportunity?
Elite schools: the best choice to enter the upper class
That being said, academic qualifications don't decide everything, but elite schools are definitely a stepping stone to entering the upper class. Only after this step, the circle of friendship is completely different, and this aspect also values their own ability.
Zhang Zetian Middle School studied in Nanjing Foreign Chinese, it can be seen that the academic performance should be excellent from an early age, coupled with the national aerobics runner-up, Zhang Zetian later successfully passed the written test and interview of Tsinghua University escort students and became a member of Tsinghua University.
As an undergraduate at Tsinghua University, she later went to Barnard College of Columbia University as an exchange. In fact, this college is affiliated with Columbia University, which is not so difficult to enter: finance and enrollment are independent, and students can use Columbia's classes and facilities by paying a sum of money to Columbia every year.
But the title of Columbia is here, what kind of academy does it care... The point is not here, you look at half of the entertainment industry and the second-generation circle, people's preferred American colleges and universities must be included, the so-called "Columbia marriage agency" is definitely not nonsense.
Columbia University is well-known in China, the location in New York is very convenient, there are many academic bulls, and most importantly, many rich people will deliberately go to Columbia University to study after starting a business...
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In 2014, Liu Qiangdong, who had a successful career, went to study at Columbia University for the second time, during which he was suddenly exposed to intimate photos dating his milk tea sister. The next day, Liu Qiangdong personally "certified" this relationship with a difference of 19 years, which can be regarded as an official announcement, and the relationship between the two has continued until now.
In 2018, Liu Qiangdong broke the incident, Zhang Zetian went to study at Cambridge University in the United Kingdom a few months later, and successfully enrolled in Jackie Business School. After graduating a year later, he returned to China and immediately opened many new companies, including a private equity company co-founded with her husband Liu... This powerful psyche!
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Wendi Deng's academic path also has many highlights.
She went to the United States under the sponsorship of her adoptive parents, first studying economics at the University of California, Northridge. At the same time, she also changed her real name.
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After that, the story development is very strange, the report shows that Deng Wendi has been living in the adoptive parents' house during his studies, married his adoptive father before graduating at the age of 22, successfully obtained a green card 2 years and 7 months later, and then began to fall in love with another man.
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After graduating from California State University, Wendi Deng went on to Yale University to pursue business administration and MBA. Yale tuition is particularly expensive, and this time her boyfriend sponsored her to complete her studies, which is inseparable from her plan for herself. In addition, only if you are really willing to endure hardships and work hard in your studies can you achieve your goals.
Marriage: Achieving class leaps through marriage
Zhang Zetian graduated from college in 2015 and quickly married Liu Qiangdong, and a child will soon be ready to be born.
Zhang Zetian, who became "Mrs. Liu", became an investor and began to have his own business. As early as in the "2017 New Fortune 500 Rich List", Liu Qiangdong and Zhang Zetian ranked 29th with a value of 38.82 billion yuan.
Now, 29-year-old Zhang Zetian has 188 billion assets and ranks 54th on the world's rich list! From an ordinary middle-class family, it took only 6 years to sit in the position of a female rich, which is an example of a real class leap achieved by marriage, and there are many people who ridicule her for not getting a penny...
Let's turn our attention back to Wendi Deng.
The highly educated status of Yale MBA graduation gave Wendi Deng more bonuses, and she was as lucky as ever. In order to seek development, Wendi Deng bought a first-class ticket to Hong Kong, so he met the director of Murdoch News Group next door, and got an internship at a satellite TV company through chat.
Reports show that Wendi Deng became an employee of Murdoch Group as she wished, she took the initiative to chat with Murdoch at a high-level banquet, and "accidentally" spilled red wine on him to attract his attention, knowing that at that time, Murdoch's News Corporation had a net worth of more than $40 billion and controlled 40% of the British newspaper, and she was not worried about being fired at all~
Then Wendi Deng became Murdoch's right-hand man during his visit to China, and the two were basically inseparable, and this state lasted for more than a year, and Murdoch divorced his wife of 31 years and quickly married Wendi Deng.
As a result, Wendi Deng has since become the wife of an international media tycoon, worth more than $40 billion. Although the two are divorced now, the more than 10 billion US dollars divided by the divorce at that time was enough to make Wendi Deng a happy rich woman for the rest of her life.
PS. Here is just a simple analysis of the case of "marriage across classes" between the two, and does not mean that it is recommended that everyone do this. First of all, it is best to achieve goals through a career, and secondly, it is very demanding for one's own conditions.
Social: Rich ladies who play Vanity Fair
When you become a grandmother, you can't always go out of the door without stepping out, so isn't it back to the marriage of the young grandmother in the feudal era? When the rich wife who represents wisdom, she will definitely work hard to socialize, and they will carefully screen out worthy social objects.
Focus: The social interaction emphasized here is definitely not the kind of social interaction that idly drinks afternoon tea and eats Michelin;
I specially wrote such an article before, having the triple blessing of "high education + high appearance + net worth of 58.4 billion yuan" is like opening the identity blessing, Zhang Zetian still has to stand in the corner because of insufficient qualifications in the top Vanity Fair.
▲ Other people in the photo, such as host Yang Lan, war correspondent Tian Wei, editor-in-chief of global fashion magazine Zhang Yu, and United Nations Ambassador to the United Kingdom Mrs. Barbara Woodward, are all typical career women;
Not only that, when participating in the fashion party, in the nine pictures where Zhang Yu, the editor-in-chief of the fashion magazine, posted a group photo of celebrities, he directly ignored Zhang Zetian.
After the "sideline" incident, Zhang Zetian was ridiculed by netizens for "not being able to get on the table", and later also went to see fashion week, knowing all tycoon-level figures, dressing aesthetics more and more online, it is estimated that there are private stylists, becoming the face of Jingdong.
▲ Holding hands with Zhang Zetian is Iris Apfel, the originator of mixing and matching in his 90s;
As we all know, Wendi Deng's circle of friends is very good, from Ivanka to Queen Jordan, Abramovich to Anna Wintour, Naomi...
From royals to celebrities, her social friends can be described as all over the world, after all, any afternoon tea is with Elon Musk's 70-year-old mother
Her social circle has also made her career, such as serving as the producer, producer and investor of "Snowflake Secret Fan" at the same time, and the film starring cast is very strong: Li Bingbing, Jun Ji Hyun, Wu Junmei and other first-line stars, although the movie score is not high, but also won a new identity for Deng Wendi.
Mentality: Do not live according to habitual thinking
In addition to the above mentioned aspects, the biggest feeling I have in the lives of Zhang Zetian and Deng Wendi is that their mentality and thinking are different from ordinary people. We can look back at their choices at every stage of their lives, but they did not follow the popular thinking.
For example, Zhang Zetian could directly be a conspiracy girl at that time (how many people tried to become female stars), and people were determined that they must continue to study well and not enter the entertainment industry.
For example, with her appearance and knowledge studying abroad in Columbia University, it is very easy to meet peers with superior conditions, but she chose Liu Qiangdong, who is 19 years older than herself, and the two married quickly.
Later, the Liu Qiangdong Mingzhou incident was exposed, Zhang Zetian did not decisively file for divorce, but went to Cambridge to study and retired from the public eye, until the dust settled on this matter and returned again as a sensible Jingdong boss wife.
As for Wendi Deng's strong mentality, we really don't need to elaborate.
After she married Murdoch, she deliberately went to the sperm bank to take out her 70-year-old husband's frozen sperm, and thus got 2 daughters, divided countless properties after the divorce, the daughter got shares and Murdoch gave away a sky-high mansion, even if Deng Wendi is now rumored to be in love with Xiao Xianrou every day, he is very at ease...
On the whole, Zhang Zetian can be brave in trial and error, while Deng Wendi is good at strategizing, grasping the goal to maximize benefits, and does not need to care about social evaluation.
The life stories of women such as Zhang Zetian and Deng Wendi have always been talked about by everyone, and the public has received mixed reviews. I said a series today, not to advocate everyone to copy the "life of xxx", from two directions:
First, more expensive than appearance, is personality charm. We can find some highlights in their lives that help achieve personal goals, such as perseverance, clarity of purpose/discernment, ability and willingness to work hard are all good qualities.
Second, for some people who are not very good in their own conditions and hope to go higher, they do not have to worry about their lives being troubled by origin, poverty and twists and turns. The so-called life has no limits, try to work towards your goals as much as possible!
As for other aspects, we won't say much, we can only say that everyone has the right to choose their own life
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