1. A psychology professor visits an insane asylum to learn about the living conditions of lunatics. At the end of the day, I think these people are crazy and act unexpectedly, which can be regarded as an eye-opening. Unexpectedly, when I was ready to return, I found that my tire had been dropped. 'Some crazy man must have done it!' The professor thought indignantly, and took the spare tire and prepared to put it on. Things are getting serious. The person who got off the tire actually dropped the screws. There is no screw and the spare tire can not go up! The professor was at a loss. When he was in a hurry, a madman jumped over and sang an unknown song of joy in his mouth. He spotted the professor in distress and stopped to ask what had happened. The professor didn't bother to pay attention to him, but told him out of courtesy. The madman laughed and said, 'I have a way!' He put a screw on each tire, so he got three screws and installed the spare tire. The professor was amazed and grateful, and was very curious: "How did you come up with this method?" The madman giggled and said, "I'm crazy, but I'm not a nerd!" '
Revelation: Changing a way can often have unexpected effects! Usually a lot of things turn out differently in a different way. On the road of life, it is important to improve mental patterns and ways of thinking.
Story two
2. There was a little boy, one day his mother took him to the grocery store to buy something, the boss saw this cute child, he opened a can of candy, asked the little boy to take a handful of candy himself. But the boy didn't make any moves. After a few invitations, the boss personally grabbed a large handful of candy and put it in his pocket. Back at home, the mother curiously asked the little boy why he didn't go to catch the candy himself but asked the boss to catch it? The little boy replied wonderfully, "Because my hands are smaller!" And the boss's hand is bigger, so he must have taken a lot more than I did!"
Revelation: This is a clever child who knows his own limitations, and more importantly, he also knows that others are better than himself. Learning to rely on others at the right time is a kind of humility and a kind of wisdom not only by relying on one's own strength, but also by learning to rely on others at the right time.
Story three
3. Linklater, a well-known American host, visited a child one day and asked him, "What do you want to do when you grow up?" The child replied innocently, "Well... I'm going to be the pilot of the plane!" Linklater then asked, "What would you do if one day your plane flew over the Pacific And all the engines went out?" The child thought for a moment: "I will first tell the person sitting on the plane to tie up the seat belt, and then I will hang up my parachute and jump out." While the audience laughed wildly, Linklater continued to stare at the child, wondering if he was a clever guy. Unexpectedly, then the child's two lines of tears came out of his eyes, which made Linklater realize that the child's compassion was far beyond the words of pen and ink. So Linklater asked him, "Why are you doing this?" The child's answer revealed the child's sincere thoughts: "I'm going to get fuel, I'm going to come back!!!." Revelation: This is the "art of listening". One is to be obedient and not to listen to half of it. The second is not to project your own meaning onto what others say. Learn to listen, listen with your heart, and listen with an open mind.
Story Four
4. There are two monks who live in temples on two adjacent hills. There was a stream between the two mountains, so the two monks would go down the mountain at the same time every day to fetch water by the stream, and over time they became good friends. Five years have passed since I was unconsciously picking up water every day. Suddenly one day the monk of the mountain on the left did not go down to fetch water, and the monk of the mountain on the right thought, 'He probably overslept.' He didn't think so. Who knows that the monk on the left side of the mountain still did not go down the mountain to fetch water the next day, and the same was true on the third day. After a week it was the same, until a month later the monk on the right side of the mountain finally couldn't stand it, and he thought, 'My friend may be sick, and I'm going to visit him and see how much I can help.' So he climbed the mountain on the left to visit his old friend. When he reached the temple on the mountain on the left, he was surprised to see his old friend, because his old friend was playing tai chi in front of the temple, not at all like a person who had not drunk water for a month. Curiously, he asked, 'You haven't gone down the mountain to fetch water in a month, can you not drink water?' The monk on the left of the mountain said, 'Come and come, and I will show you.' So he took the monk from the mountain on the right to the backyard of the temple, pointed to a well, and said, 'For the past five years, I have taken time to dig this well every day after I have done my homework, even if I am sometimes very busy, I can dig as much as I can.' Now that I've finally been able to dig out the well water, I don't have to go down the mountain to fetch water, and I can have more time to practice my favorite tai chi. '
Revelation: No matter how much salary we receive in the company, it is all a water. And grasp the time after work to dig a well of their own, cultivate their own strength on the other hand, in the future, when we are old and physically unable to fight young people, we still have water to drink, and we can also drink very leisurely.
Story Five
5. Two people went to the mountain to look for exquisite stones, and A carried a basket full of them, and B's basket contained only one stone that he thought was the most exquisite. A smiled at B: "Why do you only pick one?" B said: "Although there are many beautiful stones, I only choose the most exquisite one." A laughed and said nothing, on the way down the mountain, A felt that the burden was getting heavier and heavier, and finally had to constantly pick one of the worst stones from a basket and throw it down, and when he went down the mountain, only one stone was left in his basket! Revelation: There will be many things in life that are worth nostalgic, and sometimes you should learn to give up.