This is an era when young people are confused and confused about love. Sometimes I hear some girls complain, and now many boys are reluctant to take the initiative to chase girls. But sometimes I hear some girls complain that every girl once loved a scumbag. In fact, almost no man is born to chase girls, most of them are from a small boy who is careful about love, and slowly because of the girls he meets and the environment he grows up around him, he has become what he is now, and at first they have a good expectation for love to contact girls. Some men may deteriorate, depending on his upbringing, his circle of life, his own attractiveness (e.g. handsome, rich), and the first feelings he meets. Hugo said: "True love is timid in boys, bold in girls.". And the drama I am talking about today is a good explanation for girls to complain about why many boys are not willing to take the initiative to chase girls now.
The Japanese drama "Marriage Proposal" was released in 2007, but now it seems that the picture does not look retro at all. The main actors were Tomohisa Yamashita and Masami Nagasawa, who were both yan and art at the time. The protagonist of the story, Ken Iwase (Tomohisa Yamashita), has been secretly in love with Yoshida Rei (Masami Nagasawa) of the green plum takema since elementary school, but has not been able to confess, when attending her wedding, he looked at Yoshida Rei, who became someone else's bride, and there were past photos in the wedding slide, which reminded him of every photo with the heroine, because of his straight male personality, the heroine has never been happy, the male protagonist's intestines are remorseful, under all kinds of resentment, the goblin of the church appears, and the goblin appears every time, All the people and time are still, and only the male protagonist can see the elves and move. The genie promised to let him go back to a certain time in time according to the time point of the photo shooting in the slide, but he would return as soon as the time of the photo shoot arrived. In this way, the male protagonist constantly shuttles back and forth between the present and the past, hoping to recover this relationship. He travels back in time to the past for a short time, which is actually equivalent to possessing his past self. Yes, it's a crossover drama, and it's a flashback crossing. The male protagonist of this drama is hesitant about feelings, like many boys who want to love but dare not love now. Let's take a look at the timeline of the loss of the male protagonist and the female protagonist of this drama to see why the male protagonist gradually lost the female protagonist.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > every little boy has a dream of protecting a girl</h1>
In the third grade, the female protagonist Yoshida Rei transferred to the male protagonist Iwase Ken's class, the teacher arranged for the female protagonist to sit next to the male protagonist, children in childhood for the opposite sex, often have a fear of classmates to know that you have to be good and coaxed, so male classmates to express good feelings for female classmates can only use a deliberate way to provoke each other to anger each other to attract each other's attention, and even compete with girls. The male protagonist Iwase Ken did such a thing, he did a set of difficult turning movements on the horizontal bar, and then made a mockery of the female protagonist Yoshida Rei, Yoshida Rei is also a good and strong girl, he climbed up to do the same action, the result fell down and broke his arm, Iwase Ken, who committed the crime, sat anxiously in the hall of the hospital waiting for Yoshida Rei to finish bandaging out, and then stood in front of Yoshida Rei and her mother and said, "I will be responsible, I will take care of Rei for a lifetime." Sure enough, men like to make light promises since they were young, and this promise seemed very brave at the time, but in the later years, it was completely forgotten by Iwase, and only when he regretted it at the beginning did he remember it. But for the female protagonist, a small thing in elementary school, but let her remember a lifetime, that was an exam she forgot to bring an eraser, the male protagonist broke his own eraser half and handed it to him, when the female protagonist just transferred schools, the classmates in the class did not know, she saw the eraser written on the "Iwase Kenzo", in fact, the original complete eraser was written "Iwase Ken three years two class", because of this misunderstanding, in the days to come, the male protagonist is the only female protagonist called him "Kenzo", until he was disappointed in him and married to someone else.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > important people sitting next to you but never cherished</h1>
In middle school, Ken Iwase and Rei Yoshida were still in the same class, and they formed a small group of five with three other people. The other three are Kano Tsurudo, who is handsome and can seduce his sister, Ogiri, who is beautiful and likes handsome men, and Tsurumi Sho, who is short but has always been in love with Oeiri. In the early days, Yukito Kano and Okuto were very much like those men and women who were not serious about their feelings, liked when they saw people, were together, and broke up when they got tired. In the high school stage, there are three things that reflect the feelings between Ken Iwase and Rei Yoshida, in the high school baseball league that rushed to Koshien, Ken Iwase, who returned to the past baseball varsity team, ran desperately in order to fulfill the promise of taking the team agent Yoshida Rei into Koshien (yes, the male protagonist promised again), although the result was lost, but still saved the smile of the heroine. In the episode on Ken Iwase's birthday, the episode was particularly sweet, Yoshida Prepared a birthday gift for Ken Iwase, but set up a similar way to guess the way to pass the customs to prompt, the previous straight man Iwase Ken obviously did not find out, and later crossed the past Iwase Ken finally guessed the heroine's mind. Finally graduated from high school, Japanese high school has a conventional traditional ceremony, that is, at the graduation ceremony, girls can ask the boy they like for the second button on the coat, because this button is the closest to the heart, if the boys are willing to give, it is to express love for each other and leave good memories for youth. Originally, Iwase Ken's button was reserved for Yoshida, but when a cute girl asked him for it, he actually hesitated, and at the instigation of onlookers, he was actually taken away from the button, although in the end he forcibly saved the heroine's heart through a wave of operations that crossed back, but this was enough to show that boys are often not firm in the face of temptation.
After getting along day and night from elementary school to middle school, Ken Iwase and Rei Yoshida's relationship has reached the realm of mutual understanding at this time, and they like each other, but the reason why they are in the same circle of friends is not broken. The male protagonist's hesitant performance is now a common disease of many boys, they face the girl they like, the nerve is large, always unwilling to use their minds to guess each other's thoughts, or even if they know what the other party cares about, but also in their hearts with this should not matter the mentality of self-comfort, would rather ask people to drink more hot water than to get up and buy something to send to her. It will also be because everyone is in a circle of friends, because they are afraid of being rejected and will be coaxed by everyone and are unwilling to take the initiative to show love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > love is like a dream, thinking that there will always be tomorrow</h1>
During college, Ken Iwase and Rei Yoshida studied different majors, but the five friends often played together, and tetsuya Tada, the heroine Yoshida Rei, who later married the groom, and tetsuya Tada, a high school intern teacher who later became a tutor at Yoshida Riku University, occasionally participated. During the college period, the male protagonist still hesitated, always feeling that the female protagonist was beside him and would not leave. Yoshida's most beloved grandfather once came to visit them, saw Iwase Ken's love for Yoshida Rei, and solemnly said to Iwase Ken when he was parting: "Why not be more active, I thought there will always be tomorrow, will suffer Oh, tomorrow's people are fools," Iwase Ken was touched at the time, plucked up the courage to give the heroine a first kiss, that scene is quite sweet, but after all, this is to travel to the past to regret the original Iwase Ken did, and when he returns to the present, the past Iwase Ken still thinks that love will wait for him as always. And even the few times that I crossed later, I still looked forward and backward, and did not pluck up the courage to confess to the heroine.
In fact, Iwase Ken's personality is vividly reflected in many boys who lack love experience, they like a girl, will accompany her, will go to her to talk, and even go to make her happy, but they are not willing to pluck up the courage to confess to her, always think that they are not ready, girls may not look at themselves, always think that maintaining such a relationship, will naturally be together in the future, do not know that the good girls you look up to are not only you think good, other boys will also go after her, When you slowly hope for the tomorrow when the water will come to fruition, the reality has long been human, and you can only sigh: "People don't know where to go, and peach blossoms are still smiling in the spring breeze."
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > confession is not just a word of bravery, but a lifetime of determination</h1>
After entering the society, after Iwase Ken woke up, Yoshida Rei was preparing to accept the marriage proposal of his teacher Tetsuya Tada. Now Ken Iwase crossed back again, ready to make a final attempt. This time, he impulsively hugged Yoshida and asked her not to accept Tada-sensei's marriage proposal and accept his love. Note that when the male protagonist said such words, he did not think about it at all, he did not consider that the female protagonist was already Tada's girlfriend, nor did he consider how to face Tada-sensei if the female protagonist changed her mind, let alone how to go in the future. He is a regretful man from the future, seeing the beloved green plum bamboo horse married to someone else, and blurting out a confession because of the pain of loss. As a result, Yoshida refused him and said to him, "It turns out that ken you don't know anything." ”
If you meet a girl you like, you should be brave to confess, but this confession is best with a plan for the future two people together, after all, you are not carefree students. Some people may say, who knows if two people together will go on forever? But if the initial love is not the original intention of holding together forever, it is still called love, self-confidence, it is definitely just a dew marriage.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the key to miracles is not in the past, but in the hands of the present</h1>
At the end of the play, the male protagonist, Ken Iwase, returned to the wedding scene, and the slideshow was broadcast, but the reality did not change because of his flashback efforts, and the bride Yoshida Rei still sat next to the groom Tada in her wedding dress. The male protagonist was discouraged at this time, but the elf told him: "And when I first saw you in the church, my expression completely changed, and I was happy for your growth from the bottom of my heart." I am also very much looking forward to your future, returning from the past to here is a souvenir I give you, and here is the most suitable place for you to find answers after going through desperate trials and painful training. The male protagonist suddenly realized that these efforts to return to the past were not the key to changing the status quo, these efforts allowed him to grow and understand what love is. The key to changing the status quo should be now. In this way, the male protagonist, Ken Iwase, said goodbye to the elf, and in his wedding speech, expressed his apologies to the groom Tada, and then confided in his hesitation, missed his love for the bride Yoshida, and blessed the bride and groom with a white head and old age. This paragraph is very touching, and every time you watch it, it can make people tear up. After the male protagonist left, the protagonist's aura began to shine, and the kind groom, Mr. Tada, pulled the bride into the dressing room, and then told her that he saw hesitation in her eyes and hoped that she would make a choice at this last moment. The bride finally chose the answer in her heart.
This drama is a love after thinking about it, hesitating, and then with a little arrogant man's growth experience, in fact, in the face of true love, these concerns are worthless, those young men in real life, if they meet a girl they like and have a good feeling for you, they will desperately love her, to confess to her, to be good to her. In fact, if a girl is willing to take care of you, rather than treating you perfunctorily or ignoring you, it means that the girl is more satisfied with you, waiting for you to say the sentence "I like you, let's be together." "Then please in the future life, more for each other's future to plan, do your best to work hard, in fact, most girls value the most is the man's character and the heart for the girl." Some people may say that now is not a society where gold worshippers are popular, but in fact, this is irrelevant, because such a girl will not look at you at all and will not take care of you. We have to work hard, to be brave, to have a good feeling for you, but you think about it, procrastinating feelings, not a fairy tale that comes forward to confess when you see a beautiful woman on the road.
If you have a nice girl around you, be brave enough to chase it, change for her, work hard for her, like the protagonist of "Marriage Proposal". If you fail, what does it matter, you just lose a girl who doesn't love you, and if you don't fight for it, then you may lose the love of your life.
The show is only 11 episodes, and the people in it blurt out a lot of thought-provoking truths, especially Mr. Elf, who exports chapters and often quotes the Words of the British satirist Wilde. For example, "Everyone holds a key in his hand to open the door of miracles, but very few understand it." The miracle of changing destiny never appears in a hurry. As long as you have the dream of change, step by step, step by step, the door of miracle will be opened for you. "Wilde once said that a man wants to be a woman's first lover, and a woman wants to be a man's last lover." "People who talk about effort all day long usually don't work hard." "If you want to say something, you have to say it, thinking that you can understand it without saying it, which is a big mistake." etcetera. It is worth mentioning that this drama also has a 12 episodes with a similar ending extension, and after watching it, you will find that in fact, like Iwase Ken's friend Kozuru, it is a model of trying to love someone.