It is often mentioned in the chat that -
"That girl is obviously a green tea, why do many men like it?"
"Why can a scumbag like him find such a good girlfriend?"
It's not acid, it's just plain incomprehensible.
Men and women who use routines and tricks can always receive the favor of the opposite sex.
Until the circle of friends saw a sentence, suddenly realized:
What many women want, only scumbags can give;
And what many men want, only green tea can give.
There's a movie called "Best Bid" that I brushed up several times.
The male protagonist is an auctioneer who privately collects a lot of priceless works of art.
He had a huge fortune and remained single for decades.
Until he met a young woman, approached step by step, trapped.
In the end, he unloaded all his secrets and had a good dream of protecting women for a lifetime.
When he returned home, he found that the treasure had been looted and the woman's whereabouts were unknown.
Like a dream, he sat in the coffee shop like this.
He has countless treasures and can see through any fake at a glance;
But in the face of the forgery of love, he is as naïve as a teenager who has just opened his heart.
When it comes to love, we don't pretend to be mature.
Objective calmness is the posture and rhetoric of the bystander.
In the midst of emotions, we always accept all kinds of lies and absurdities out of thin air.
"He went to the hotel with the girl just to talk about business, and I believe he was a man."
"Hang up my phone continuously, there should be something wrong, he loves me."
"Didn't return to WeChat to give the girl a thumbs up, he should have just forgotten it."
Love is a willing deception.
I don't know if you remember such news.
The elderly living alone have been defrauded of hundreds of thousands of health product salesmen.
The relevant departments went door-to-door to investigate, but the old man interceded for the young man.
"I gave them this money willingly, and they spent more time with me than my children."
Moths are willing to put out fires, why is that?
Scumbags, green tea, cheaters, sometimes just fulfill an emotional need.
They read the human heart and know what the other person wants, even though doing it is driven by profit.
What do women like?
Like to be used to being pampered and praised, like to listen to love words and listen to promises.
What do men like?
I like to be held and admired and cared for, and I like to feel great in a moment.
I also talked to some young girls about this topic.
They said that straight men are boring, and scumbags are quite attractive.
When it comes to playboys, the experience may not be that bad.
Good clothes, knowledgeable, gentle and understanding, will joke and have a scale.
He arranged the restaurant for the day and knew the girl's taste in advance.
Even if you are familiar with the former offender' muttering, after some contact, you are still a bit overwhelmed.
"He's not as bad as others say, could I have heard it wrong?"
But beware, these are seemingly mild pitfalls.
One of the points I've seen before is this—
If you don't take the initiative, you'll be waiting for a scumbag.
Because many boys with integrity and principle have not yet learned to seduce people.
Many girls are easily attracted to "talkative" boys.
It seems too boring for the frank boy to think straight.
In fact, the difference point is here, the scumbag is not cost-effective.
Good boys want to be serious with you, tell the truth, talk about reality.
Scumbags approaching you is just a short-term goal.
He can lie to you with impunity and create a perfect persona for you.
Just get you, and then disappear, no matter what the flood is terrible.
Men treat feelings with the same dementia.
In order to accompany the girl who eats ice cream with herself, she abandons her wife who boils soup and pinches her shoulders.
Many years of feelings, a sentence of "you are not interested" is sent off.
As everyone knows, the green tea in the high rank has long been ready to hunt the next target.
"You think you're picking up a leak, but you're actually doomed."
The profession of liars has really been "passed down" for thousands of years.
Because there is a need, human beings are always imaginative and unrealistic.
Friends around you are in love with scumbags or green tea, and don't rush to find an opportunity to debunk.
Many people should have suffered this kind of loss -
My friend, who was in tears with me last night, got back together with my boyfriend this morning.
In order to make her feel better, I didn't sleep all night, and I helped her scold the scumbag.
Today she actually said to me – take care of yourself.
Feelings about this thing, one is willing to fight and one is willing to be beaten.
Whether the other person loves a person or a dog, helping to identify is a high-risk job.
I see hundreds of thousands of loves backstage every day.
I also have a hard time judging, defining, any human feeling.
Many times we can't be sure that the person we love is worth it.
But I want to say —
People whose family and girlfriends and friends feel that they are not ok, give up as soon as possible.
Because the people who care about you the most really don't want to see you hurt.
I also don't want scumbags to teach any of you a lesson.
I hope that you will become soft and transparent in your kindness;
Instead of being betrayed, I feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings in this world.
There are too many routines in this world, so if you can't do it, try it slowly.
Of course it will be heartbreaking, and possibly pain, despair.
From gray to black, at one point disappeared.
But I'm sure you'll regain love, recognize love.
And redouble the value of the meaning of love.