Family affection is an indelible existence in the world, and this kind of feeling is a kind of feeling that is connected by flesh and blood. Someone has said that no one in the world is good to you for no reason, except parents. Parents' love for their children is innate, and they are willing to sacrifice a lot of their time to build the safe world they want for their beloved children, which is a kind of love that is deeply engraved in the hearts of parents.
"Elf Hostel" revolves around the love of the vampire Dracula for his daughter, in order to protect his daughter, let her grow up in a healthy and safe environment, and even built a castle for her daughter, inviting partners to accompany her daughter to grow up. Bringing joy to the daughter also reflects the overprotective aspect of the parents, which is to constrain the freedom of the children.
Protection vs. overprotective
The love of parents for their children begins from the day they become parents. But sometimes this protection is not controlled to a limited extent, and then it develops into excessive protection, which in turn affects the normal growth of children. In order to protect his daughter, Dracula built a huge castle for her daughter and invited countless good friends, which not only ensured her normal social interaction, but also ensured that her daughter would not encounter danger because she went out. In fact, we can understand this kind of thinking, the outside world does not know the existence of Dracula and vampires, if the daughter ventures out, it is inevitable that she will encounter danger. But the daughter did not know all this, she had been locked up in the castle for quite a long time, full of curiosity about the outside world, if you can see the outside world, it is undoubtedly the best.
But this idea was opposed by his father Dracula, whose protection became overprotective. The more he restricts his daughter's range of activities, the more he provokes her daughter's rebellion, and the more her daughter wants to see the outside world. Many parents understand how to teach their children how to allow their children to explore the outside world on the basis of ensuring their safety, but in fact this scale is really difficult to grasp. Especially when his daughter stepped into the outside world, Dracula's feeling of anxiety was always a boulder in his heart, and he worried about the safety of his daughter and hoped that her daughter would be safe and happy, which was undoubtedly conflicting with each other.
The selflessness of parental love
The reason why the love of parents is praised as great and selfless is because they put all their efforts and future on their children, such as Guo Gangtang And Guo Zhen, who recently searched for relatives. After his son Guo Zhen was abducted by human traffickers, Guo Gangtang, a father, preferred to ride a motorcycle to find his son in search of his son instead of finding his displaced son. For decades, Guo Gangtang helped other fathers and mothers who had lost their children find their sons and daughters, and he had also been looking for his long-lost son Guo Zhen. After decades of long road of searching for relatives, Guo Gangtang ran dozens of pairs of shoes and ran a few motorcycles, but still did not give up looking for his son.
In the years when his hair was gray, he finally met his long-lost son in his lifetime. Fortunately, my son was not bullied, but received a good education, and now he has become a college student with a house and a car. After asking for his son's opinion, his son Guo Zhen chose his adoptive parents. In order to respect his son's choice, his father Guo Gangtang chose to quit. For him, as a father, as long as he sees his son can live happily and happily, even if his hard work for more than ten years has not been in vain. The root that supports Guo Gangtang's search for relatives is the innate father's love.
Like Dracula's love for his daughter in "Elf Hostel", one is the hardship of the road to find relatives, and the other is the determination to build a castle to protect his daughter, although the way of expression is different, they are willing to give for their sons and daughters, as if this is the meaning of his life. This kind of crisp and clear love can indeed be regarded as the most sincere and selfless love in the world.
How can I prevent overprotection?
Overprotection may seem like a simple word on the surface, but in fact it not only represents the love and protection of parents for their children, but also reflects the inability of parents to control the limits of their love for their children. Parents protect their children on the basis of ensuring safety, so that they can develop towards their future and life. However, in the eyes of parents, children are still children, even if they are thirty or forty years old, they are still children, always uneasy that they will explore the road of future life, nor do they trust to completely let go of the growth of their children.
This situation is understandable, but it is not considered growing up without experiencing setbacks and falls. If parents always protect their children within a limited range, always let them face happiness, and block the coming of all difficulties and dangers, this kind of growth is growth in the greenhouse, which is not a kind of growth at all. They have not experienced the tempering and beating of society, how can they exercise the steel and iron bones of independence?
summary
We can understand that the love of parents for their children is selfless and accompanies human growth throughout their lives. But to know the real meaning behind the phrase "how can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain", if children do not learn to grow up, do not learn to deal with a thing independently, how can they better face the world after their parents leave in old age? Parents can think about the future of their children's lives, but also for the sake of their children's normal life development, Dracula's love for his daughter is understandable, he loves his daughter, from a father's protection of his daughter, but also from his commitment to his wife.
In the long process of growing up, Dracula also realized little by little that when her daughter grew up, she also needed to pursue her future life and love. As a father, he cannot treat his daughter as his own personal belongings, but as an independent being. Dracula chose to let go of his daughter Mevis's growth process, which is also a reference for today's parents to protect their daughters and sons in their growth.
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