I watched the American movie "He's Just Not That Into You" starring Jennifer Aniston in college.
I especially like a few lines in it: Sometimes we prefer to believe that a man is too stressed, too tired, too inferior, too sensitive. Have childhood shadows or love your ex-girlfriend too much, but don't want to admit a simple fact.
Yes, he wasn't too busy, he wasn't injured, he wasn't psychologically shadowed, he wasn't a phone that fell down the toilet or he suffered from amnesia. He just doesn't like you that much.
You're raining in a strange city, and he's holding someone's hand in a city where you can't breathe.
You're crying in a room where you can't see your fingers, and he's wandering through the brightly lit crowd.
You are wholeheartedly preparing a sumptuous dinner, and he hugs left and right in the middle of the party.
Time, distance, off-site... They all become excuses for our hearts to deceive ourselves, and we refuse to admit the truth that he doesn't like you so much.
Fan Xiaoxuan sang in "Oxygen": If you love me, you will come to me; you will know that I am not happy to live; if you love me, you will come to save me, the air is very thin, because of loneliness.
If he likes you, he will buy medicine for you and drink water for you when you have a cold; he will hate you when you are suffering from the enemy on your back; he will hug you when you are vulnerable; he will come to you when you miss.
Just remember your name, and no matter where you are in the world, I will, go and see you. Always looking for you, never stopped.
Regardless of the weather age outside, the gender constellation, across the time distance, in order to find you, meet you, I chase a lifetime. Just because you touched my mood. Important people, people who can't forget, people who don't want to forget.
Just as Mitsuba and Taki are concerned about each other in "Your Name", if you want to meet someone, you must do your best to meet him.
Two negative examples suddenly occurred to me, Xu Zhimo was shipwrecked in order to participate in Lin Hui's performance in Beijing, and Mei Yanfang flew to Japan before becoming seriously ill just to see Makoto Kondo.
Maybe some people advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age, girls to take the initiative to pursue the person they like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him because he will take the initiative to send him to the door.
It's also a line from "He Doesn't Like You That Much." Really like you, he will find a way to stay with you. Even in the stage of mutual affection, he did not take the initiative to come to you, do not regret.
What's more, Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin, Mei Yanfang and Lang Kondo Makoto, which are known to the world as he doesn't like you.
Even outsiders can see that there is no you in the other person's heart, so why should you deceive yourself? Those half-heartedness in the interactions, those rough branches in life, those marriages in the various indifference, not so much why, he just doesn't like you so much.
If a man really likes you, but he will never drag the mud and water, he will let you know immediately. He will not let you have a heart hanging on you, because he himself will be sure that you will not be discouraged by this and turn to another good person.
So, don't waste your time anymore. Then look for your own You are my exception.