Talking about Zhang Di, Feng Xiaogang once said such a paragraph - "I feel particularly wronged by my ex-wife, the last thing is me, I must like the new and hate the old."
If you want to say why Feng Xiaogang said this, it is clear at a glance what Zhang Di did.
When Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di had not yet divorced, they were already in love with Xu Fan on the other side, and Zhang Di carried the whole family with her weak body.
Every day before going to work, Zhang Di would bring food to her mother-in-law.
One day when Feng Xiaogang came home, Zhang Di was very happy, bought meat and vegetables, and wrapped dumplings. After the dumplings came out of the pot, Zhang Di first sent a bowl to her mother-in-law, fed her mother-in-law to eat, and would eat it only after she was busy.
Seeing that Zhang Di was busy, Feng Xiaogang filed for divorce.
In the next seven years, Feng Xiaogang rarely returned home, and his life can be described as indescribable.
In 1999, Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di divorced, and then married Xu Fan.
I remember when Feng Zhang first met, the latter was still a white swan.
Zhang Di was born in an ordinary family, and her parents were ordinary people. After finishing college, Zhang Di entered the hospital and became a nurse, although it is not very good, but it is very stable, and she is also content.
In the unit, there are quite a few people who like her, because of her young age, she does not think about it.
On the other hand, Feng Xiaogang has lived a hard time since he was a child, living with his mother and sister, and his life is very tight.
Because his parents divorced, Feng Xiaogang has not been bullied since he was a child, and he will also have low self-esteem.
In order to provide for his schooling, her sister gave up her studies early and worked part-time to earn money.
Seeing that his mother and sister were working so hard, Feng Xiaogang also vowed to let the two live a good life.
In 1984, Feng Xiaogang engaged in publicity work, and later met Zheng Xiaolong and entered the art center as an artist.
When he reached the age of marriage, his colleague introduced him to a partner, and this person was Zhang Di.
When the two first met, the woman did not have a good impression of the man, and in the eyes of the woman, Feng Xiaogang was a "street slipper" and did not tune in.
The man is different, he likes the woman very much, and he can't forget it for a long time.
In the following time, in order to meet Zhang Di, Feng Xiaogang often made dinner appointments, and through contact again and again, with his mouth skills, the woman also fell.
When the woman told the family about the object of the conversation, the family did not agree, thinking that her daughter could find a better one, not to mention that Feng Xiaogang's family was not good at that time.
It was useless for the family to disagree, Zhang Di just recognized it, so the two married in 1984 and lived together.
The original place of residence was very dilapidated, the door opened and smelled, the wall was still damp, and the wall skin was still peeled.
The couple simply cleaned up and got a few pieces of furniture, which can be regarded as a bit of home.
Usually, Zhang Di always cleans up the house in a hurry, and will keep meals in the kitchen, waiting for her husband to come back to eat.
What she didn't expect was that in the second year of marriage, her mother-in-law fell ill and couldn't get out of bed, what should I do? It can only be taken care of by Zhang Di, and one care is sixteen years.
And Feng Xiaogang was not idle, trying his best to climb up. Zheng Xiaolong saw that he was smart and had the ability to see, so he took a step up, met a group of big courtyard disciples, and had a certain network.
Among them, Wang Shuo is the person Feng Xiaogang admires the most, and he always tries his best to praise.
For Feng Xiaogang as a person, Wang Shuo is not exclusive, which is why the former later wrote a script for the latter and embarked on the road of directing.
In 1990, Feng Xiaogang's daughter Feng Siyu was born, Feng Xiaogang desperately rushed home, just arrived at the hospital, Feng Xiaogang found that his wife had been crying, and only when he saw his daughter did he understand that his daughter suffered from congenital cleft palate.
When such a thing appeared on him, Feng Xiaogang was depressed all of a sudden.
After slowing down, Feng Xiaogang said something very gentleman, we will find the best doctor to treat the child, and if it can't be cured, we will raise her for a lifetime.
Because this disease requires a lot of money, Feng Xiaogang works very hard. On the other side, Zhang Di takes care of her daughter all day, and she is busy with it.
Gradually, the two began to quarrel and did not understand each other, so cracks appeared in the relationship between the two.
When my daughter was one and a half years old, the operation was carried out successfully, very smoothly, and the postoperative recovery was also very good, and no traces of cleft palate were visible.
I thought that after her daughter's problem was over, Feng Xiaogang was more relaxed, who knew that he was busier, and he could hardly find anyone at home, and in this way, Zhang Di's burden was heavier, taking care of both her mother-in-law and her daughter, and she had to go to work.
In 1991, Wang Shuo pulled Feng Xiaogang and wrote Feng Xiaogang's name in "The Story of the Editorial Department".
In 1992, Xu Fan and Ge You's movie "The Great Sag" came out, and the screenwriter was Feng Xiaogang, because of such a connection, Feng set his sights on Xu Fan.
At that time, Xu Fan wanted to look like and have a figure.
Coincidentally, Xu Fan also had problems at that time, and Wang Zhiwen.
Taking advantage of such an opportunity, Feng Xiaogang launched an offensive, asking all kinds of cold and warm, and even looking for others to ask for tips on girls.
Later, the crew of "The Great Sag" went to Guangzhou to attend the award ceremony, and the two confirmed their relationship when they returned.
For Feng Xiaogang, Xu Fan once said this: "Feng Xiaogang nourished my soul when I was the saddest and was my benefactor for life. ”
Once in love, some people are unable to extricate themselves, Xu Fan is one, threw himself in the arms of the "benefactor", and felt the endless love.
Feng Xiaogang has made new progress here, and Zhang Di over there is bitter, carrying the whole family with her own strength.
Before going to work, she delivered food to her mother-in-law and sent her daughter to school.
Once I learned that Feng Xiaogang had come home, she bought vegetables and meat, wrapped dumplings, and was very excited. After the dumplings came out of the pot, Zhang Di first sent them to her mother-in-law and fed them to her mother-in-law personally, and when everything was done, she sat down to eat the dumplings by herself, and at this time the dumplings were already cold.
Looking at his wife, Feng Xiaogang felt ashamed in his heart, and did not say what he wanted to say, Zhang Di saw that Feng Xiaogang had something to say, took the initiative to ask, and as a result, he asked such a sentence - "I have someone outside, let's divorce!" ”
For Feng Xiaogang's words, Zhang Di did not agree, not for anything else, only for her daughter, who was still young at the time.
In the next seven years, Feng Xiaogang rarely went home, and even when he went home, he was to see his daughter, and he basically did not have a conversation with Zhang Di, let alone ask for warmth.
On the other side, Xu Fan is different, not only has he become the heroine, but the two have also cooperated in a series of film works, and the development is very good.
For the relationship with Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang did not hide it, he would hold hands in public, and he never shy away from it, in the eyes of outsiders, the two of them became synonymous with "Lang Cai and Girl".
Later, Zhang Di looked at Feng Xiaogang on TV, and the initial smile disappeared.
With the passage of time, Xu Fan got older and older, and it was not so much that he had no name, so he asked Feng Xiaogang for a name, and when the matter came to this, Feng Xiaogang had no ink, and directly filed for divorce again, knowing that he was guilty, but he could not live and face it sincerely.
In 1999, Zhang Di did not stop anymore and directly agreed, wanting nothing in terms of property, just her daughter. Feng Xiaogang knew that he was sorry for Zhang Di, so he chose to leave the house clean and gave everything to Zhang Di.
After the divorce, Feng Xiaogang married Xu Fan in the same year, when many friends were on the spot, the wedding can be said to be very lively, on the other hand, the marriage with Zhang Di is simply not like a wedding. For the grand wedding, Xu Fan was very happy and finally justified.
After Zhang Di's divorce, she has always lived with her children, and in order to take care of her parents, she also took her parents to her own home, which is convenient and lives very peacefully and warmly.
Although she divorced Feng Xiaogang, Zhang Di has not forgotten her mother-in-law, and will still go over from time to time to see, the affection is still there, chat when you have time, and simply greet and greet when you don't have time.
In the eyes of Zhang Di's parents, Zhang Di is very hard, alone with children, parents have advised Zhang Di to find another one, Zhang Di did not do this, she feels that with a child, she should still focus more on the child, don't be wronged by the child.
In 2001, Feng's mother died, and Feng Xiaogang felt very uncomfortable.
Whenever he thinks of his mother, Feng Xiaogang will think of Zhang Di more or less.
For Zhang Di, in fact, Feng Xiaogang has always felt guilty.
In order to make up for his ex-wife, Feng Xiaogang thought of many ways, but his ex-wife did not accept it, for Zhang Di, it is good to live her life without help.
After a long time, Xu Fan also began to focus on the family, became a virtuous inner helper, and she supported her husband's behavior.
In the face of love and marriage, no matter how gorgeous you have been, it will eventually come to an end.
Treating Feng Xiaogang as everything, gradually losing her life, and not having the height to climb, is this really what she wants?
In married life, only each other knows how life is going.
On the other hand, Zhang Di, after being withdrawn from married life, lived a very relaxed and comfortable life, without constraints, and very relaxed physically and mentally.
Nowadays, Zhang Di is accompanied by her daughter, and she travels when she has nothing to do, and enjoys seeing the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. On weekdays, I plant flowers and raise grass, and my life is very pleasant and beautiful.