Recently, a video has attracted widespread attention on the Internet, in which a woman wearing sunglasses persuades the "older leftover men", believing that 18-year-old and 20-year-old young girls are mature and intelligent, and no longer need the status of "baby", nor do they necessarily value the "bride price" given by the man. This video has a unique point of view and has sparked extensive discussion among netizens.
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But one thing is that young women also need "upbringing". Girls aged 18 or 20 need to continue to learn and grow in many aspects such as emotional and life planning, although they have strong material self-care skills. A healthy family needs to love and support each other, not unilaterally "take advantage" of each other. As one of the traditional customs, the bride price should not be too belittled.
Temperament is also a source of feminine charm. The weak and lovely "baby" demeanor not only attracts the sweetheart, but also gives the older partner the "sense of dependence" needed. Such a feeling will make the relationship harmonious and stable. It does not mean that it "belittles" women's quality and status, but reflects a certain "gentle" and "amiable" feminine charm. It is this balance that is needed for a stable relationship.
Age is a relative concept. For "older leftover men", for example, 35 years old is actually still in the right years of his career, full of vitality and responsibility, and the same is true for women. And 18-year-old girls have relatively little life experience. Mature experience and the amount of experience in the world may also bring additional "fireworks" to this relationship. Such conclusions should not be made too absolute.
Everyone has their own aesthetics and preferences. Age is not everything. For example, there are 28-year-old girls who like 42-year-old mature and stable "older leftover men", and there are 18-year-old boys who like 26-year-old girls with experience. The most important thing is whether two people have the same mind and whether they can complement each other. If you can get along well and cherish each other, then take advantage of the opportunity to write a happy fairy tale together.
In today's different social contexts, concepts such as "bride price" need to be redefined more broadly. You can't stereotype others with narrow thinking. Everyone deserves true love and happiness. As long as you don't break the law and discipline, you should adopt a more open mind to understand and accept different choices.
With the progress of the times, people should not be stereotyped based on age and other factors alone. We should learn to appreciate the individual's individual individuality, rather than using a set of rules to distinguish between "standard" and "non-standard". A healthy relationship is based on spontaneous respect and understanding on both sides.
Only by promoting open-mindedness and progress can equality and respect for women's rights be achieved in the true sense. Society also needs to be warmly tolerant and supportive of the growth of healthy relationships, rather than questioning and differentiating too arbitrarily. And give each other more possibilities and opportunities, so that diversity can flourish and better meet the needs of everyone.