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In 1995, a haggard Haskova issued an ultimatum to her husband Tenger:
"You don't drink anymore, if you drink again, we'll divorce!"
The drunken Tenger did not take his wife's words seriously at all, and since beating them to get married, his wife had said such things every day, and he had long been accustomed to it.
Therefore, the next day, Tenger still called friends and did not return home until he was drunk.
Seeing all this, Hasgova was so disappointed that she immediately packed her bags and left home.
Another day later, when Tenger woke up from a hangover, he was greeted only by a divorce agreement.
Only then did he know that his wife was really moving this time.
Tenger regretted it and immediately found his wife Haskova, promising to change his past.
So, how did Hasgova react?
What happened between them so that the marriage of the two did not even carry 7 years?
1
In 1962, Haskova was born in Bahrain Youqi, Inner Mongolia.
A native of Inner Mongolia, Hasgova was able to sing and dance from an early age, and because she had an uncle who was a herder, he often taught her to ride a horse and shoot arrows.
Therefore, Haskova has a heroic temperament since she was a child.
After graduating from junior high school, she joined a local art group and often performed for herders in pastoral areas and villages.
Once, where they were performing, there was a crew working on a movie, and Hasgova thought it was new and sat next to it.
At that time, most of the crew was filmed live-action, so there were often many onlookers gathered on the scene.
Therefore, Hasgova ran to see people make movies every day, and the director team didn't feel anything, so she let her watch it.
But after watching for a few days, Haskova began to be dissatisfied.
Only then did she understand that the movies she usually watched were created in this way, which was both novel and exciting.
She fantasized about how glorious it would be if one day her father and fellow villagers could see her in the movie.
So, she ran directly to ask the director if he could arrange a role for her.
Looking at her immature and ignorant face, the director smiled: "Little girl, making a movie is not as simple as you think, you can't do anything, how can I arrange it for you?" ”
Haskova was not convinced and said, "Then you teach me, won't I?" ”
The director was not only not angry, but also amused by her, and then said: "In this way, there is a Shanghai Theater Academy, which specializes in teaching people to act, as long as you can be admitted to this school, I will arrange it for you." ”
Although the director is right, he doesn't really want Hasgova to take the exam, he just wants to find a reason to perfunctory.
But Haskova listened, and stopped pestering the director for the role, and when she returned to the troupe, she asked around how to be admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
After inquiring around, Hasgova's initial spirit has disappeared.
At this time, she knew that if she wanted to be admitted to the theater, she must first have a high school degree, but she had only finished junior high school.
Not to mention that if you don't pass the exam, you don't even have the opportunity to take the exam.
Seeing that this road did not work, but Hasgova did not want to give up her dream of acting, after being depressed for a while, she decided to continue to pester the director tomorrow.
She didn't believe that she couldn't find a role that suited her in a movie.
As soon as dawn broke, Haskova ran to the filming location, and as a result, when she arrived at her destination, she found the director anxiously arranging the task.
When she walked in, she realized that she was going to shoot the horseback riding scene today, but the actor was accidentally injured and could not be completed, and the director asked the staff to find a little girl who could ride a horse locally.
As soon as Haskova heard this, the opportunity came.
She said to the staff, "No need to look for it, I'll ride a horse." ”
The director didn't believe it, and he thought that this little girl was talking about it because of filming.
So impatiently said to Hasgova: "Little girl, we are in a hurry now, don't make trouble, can't you?" ”
Seeing that no one believed herself, Haskova did not say a word, walked to the horses, got on the horse in a depth, and before the director team could react, she rode away on horseback.
After riding around, the director immediately clapped and asked her to act in this horseback riding scene.
After this scene, Hasgova was satisfied and ready to leave.
She already knew that she would not be able to go to the theater, and today she passed the addiction of making movies, which was enough, and she would stop thinking about it in the future.
As a result, she didn't take a few steps, a staff member caught up and asked: "Little girl, I see that you are very talented in acting, if you can receive professional training, you will definitely be an excellent actor in the future." ”
Hasgova was a little melancholy: "I know, but I only have a junior high school education, and I don't even have the qualifications to take the exam, how can I study formally?" ”
For a period of time after that, Hasgova performed everywhere with the performance team every day and did not mention making movies again.
A month later, the teacher who persuaded her to go to drama school came again.
He said to Hasgova: "Little girl, I am a teacher at the Shanghai Theater Academy, we went back to discuss, I think you are very talented, so I decided to let you enter the school out of the ordinary, are you willing?" ”
Haskova jumped three feet tall: "Really? ”
Before the teacher could finish nodding, she was sad again: "No, going to college is too expensive, if I go to school, I won't have a chance to earn money." ”
The teacher added: "Your family situation has also been considered by the school, and you can continue to perform with the team during the school day, as long as you don't delay your studies." ”
With the help of teachers and the school, Haskova finally officially became a student in the theater.
During college, Hasgova took on a series of works and became the most famous Mongolian actress after Szczynkova.
After graduating from university, Haskova was assigned to work in the Inner Mongolia Art Troupe.
Because of her outstanding appearance and fame, in addition to filming, she is indispensable for any large-scale activities in the troupe.
It was because of this that Hasgova met her own love.
2
While Hasgova was fighting for her dream of actress, Tenger, who was two years older than her, was also working hard for her musical dream.
Tenger also came out of the steppe.
There are many children in the family and the income of parents is not high, so when he was a child, Tenger always did not have enough to eat.
After graduating from junior high school, Tengger was admitted to the Inner Mongolia Art Institute to learn three strings and dance, and stayed on to teach directly after graduation.
But Tenger doesn't like this kind of life, what he longs for most is to stand on the stage and sing.
A year later, Tenger was sent by the school to study at the Central Conservatory of Music.
In Beijing, Tenger came into contact with all kinds of music, saw all kinds of dreamers, and the musical dream that had been hidden in his heart broke through the ground, and he decided to follow his heart.
When he returned, he wrote a letter to his original unit and left.
After his parents heard about it, they made a special trip from their hometown to stop him, and in the parents' opinion, their son had already served the iron rice bowl, so he should stop tossing around.
But Tenger made up his mind, and no matter how much his parents persuaded, he just didn't listen.
Later, Tengger was admitted to Tianjin Art Institute and was assigned to the Central National Song and Dance Troupe after graduation.
In the song and dance troupe, Tenger is still in charge of the three strings and dance, and is 108,000 miles away from his musical dream.
In his depression, he began to write his own work, and "Mongols" was written at this time.
However, he is a dancer after all, even if he writes his own songs, he does not have the opportunity to sing them in person, so he can only give them to others.
But this song mainly expresses the longing for hometown and relatives, the love for the prairie, and only people who have really lived in the steppe can sing the rhyme of it.
Therefore, when this song was first sung, it did not cause much repercussions.
Until 1986, Tenger took the song to participate in the first "Peacock Cup" young singer competition.
His thick and powerful voice and full of emotions have touched many people and successfully squeezed into the top ten.
The match changed Tenger's fortunes, and the group changed his position to singer.
In 1987, while attending a literary evening, Tenger met Hasgova.
At that time, Haskova was the host of the party, and Tenger was a new singer who was gaining momentum.
And both of them are originally from Mongolian grass, and they have a natural sense of closeness, so the organizer arranged for Haskova to interview Tenger.
Don't look at Tenger's rough appearance and powerful style, but his personality is actually very introverted, especially when he first debuted, he often held the microphone and didn't know what to say.
Hasgova looked at the slightly nervous Tenger, whispering comfort to him while constantly passing him words, reminding him what to say next.
After an evening, Tenger was full of gratitude to Hasgova, and Hasgova was deeply impressed by Tenger's musical talent.
In addition, the two are fellow countrymen, so naturally they walk closer.
Going back and forth, Tenger found that he had a different idea of Hasgova.
But he was too shy to confess.
Until a friend saw through his mind and frightened him, "You have to hurry, Hasgova is very popular in the workplace, if you drag it on, maybe someone else will take it away." ”
This trick really worked, Tenger made up his mind, and confessed the next day, and he absolutely could not delay it any longer.
But the next day, before he could speak, he heard Hasgova say that she was going back to the unit.
In this way, Tenger missed the opportunity again.
The friend watched from the sidelines, and he knew that these two people were interesting to each other, so he decided to add another fire.
As soon as Hasgova left, Tenger was like having been sucked out of his soul and sullen all day.
Looking at the soulless Tenger, the friend said with added vinegar: "Oh, I heard that the one who confessed to Hasgova again today, and Hasgova also said that she considered it." ”
After saying too much of this, Tenger's sense of crisis arose, and he wrote a confession letter to Hasgova overnight and asked a friend to hand it on.
Looking at the sincere confession, Hasgova nodded and agreed without hesitation.
In this way, the two awkward people finally talked away and officially got together.
Because Tengger's work unit is in Beijing and Haskova is in Inner Mongolia, the two can only convey their thoughts through letters.
But it was this way that made the relationship between the two heat up rapidly, and they got married not long after.
After getting married, although the two were still in different places, Haskova still followed the Mongolian tradition, quit her job, and planned to meet her husband and children at home.
Not long after, after hard work, Haskova was transferred to the Central National Song and Dance Troupe, became a colleague with Tenger, and the two were finally reunited.
I thought that the reunion was the beginning of a happy life, but I didn't expect it to become the fuse for the divorce of the two.
3
Hasgova is an actress who has no place at all in a cabaret troupe, so most of the time she can only stay at home and live the life of a full-time housewife.
At the same time, Tenger's singing career was thriving.
After "Mongol" became popular, he wrote the more well-known song "Paradise", which pushed his singing career to the peak.
With fame, masterpieces, and more money will naturally be earned.
However, Tenger was naturally bold and not good at financial management, and every time he earned money, before he could cover the heat, he used it to treat guests and drink all the time.
Perhaps it was the experience of not having enough to eat as a child that impressed Tenger, so he was particularly willing to spend money on food and drink.
The millions earned from the show were all spent by the guests.
Every time Tenger goes out to drink with friends, the saddest thing is his wife Haskova.
Not only did she not see Tenger earning a penny, but she also had to help her husband clean up the mess after drinking.
She also once persuaded Tenger to take out some of the money to treat guests to dinner, and save the rest, but Tenger did not listen to it.
Hasgova had no choice but to think of other ways.
She said to Tenger, "Since you like to treat guests to dinner so much, why don't we open our own restaurant?" ”
This time Tenger listened, and he thought, yes, opening a restaurant will not only make money, but it will be more convenient to drink with friends in the future.
Just do it, and within a few days, "Tengjia Restaurant" opened.
It can only be said that the ideal is very full, and the reality is very skinny.
Although the restaurant opened, Tenger did not know anything about management, and everything fell on his wife Haskova.
In addition, Tengger opened the restaurant itself just to drink with friends more conveniently, as for whether the restaurant lost or earned, he didn't care at all.
In addition to taking care of the operation of the restaurant every day, Hasgova also has to clean up the endgame of drinking by friends late at night.
After a few years, she was already physically and mentally exhausted.
Once, after getting drunk, Tenger picked up a collection item in the hall and gave it to a friend who had just met for a few days.
This practice deeply stung Haskova.
She understood that her husband's habit of drinking and giving things away could not be changed, and she had no other way but to leave.
Thinking of this, she said to Tenger: "Either quit drinking or divorce." ”
But Tenger thought she was joking and didn't take her words seriously.
Hasgova had no choice but to leave a divorce agreement and move away from their home overnight.
Looking at the divorce settlement on the table, Tenger woke up like a dream and knew that this time it was true.
He regretted his mistakes, deeply reflected on what he had done, and promised Hasgova that he would never do such a foolish thing again in the future, and asked her forgiveness that he did not want a divorce.
But Haskova had made up her mind, and Tenger came to ask for a reunion 6 times, but she refused.
Seeing this, Tenger also knew that they could not go back, so they could only agree to divorce.
After the divorce, the two lived completely different lives.
4
In order to avoid looking up with Tenger, Hasgova resigned from the Central National Song and Dance Troupe, picked up her old business, and started filming again.
Tenger met his second wife, Jula, and had a son and a daughter.
After several years of hard work, Hasgova's fame has also grown, becoming a golden supporting role, and she can be seen in many hit dramas.
Tenger's singing career is still booming, but his daughter died of illness when he was six years old, which caused him a big blow.
Later, Tenger himself also reflected, saying that his daughter's illness may be related to his unrestrained drinking when he was young, plus he was older when he had a child, and his health was not as good as before.
In any case, it's always good to be aware of your mistakes.
But people should look forward, no matter what has happened, and hope that each of them will be healthy and happy.