In 1987, on the stage of a large-scale party in Inner Mongolia, Haskova, as the host, met singer Tengger.
At that time, Tenger was still a little transparent, and the unexpected popularity of "The Mongols" just gave him more opportunities to stand on the stage.
The glimpse of the excitement and joy made the two fall in love completely, but Haskova, who accompanied Tenger through countless difficult lives, finally had to endure the pain and chose to leave him.
In the face of Tengger's 6 redemptions, she did not waver in the slightest.
Now Tenger has become the father of the bereaved daughter who burst into tears when he sang "Iron Egg", and Haskova has obtained what Tenger failed to give her with her with her own efforts.
Fate sometimes seems to grasp the horse like this, meet surprises, and keep each other difficult.
In 1960, Tenger was born in Inner Mongolia, although his family was not rich, but the natural heroism of the grassland people made his heart very rich, and he also had a natural opinion on music.
1-year-old Tenger with his mother
In 1975, despite his family's obstruction, Tenger was admitted to an art college in Inner Mongolia, but for various reasons, he chose Sanxian and dance.
Three years later, after graduating from school, he was left to teach because of his excellent grades, much to the delight of his parents.
But it was also the year that the school decided to send some young teachers to the China Conservatory of Music for further study, and in the process, Tenger realized that perhaps his value could be greater.
Tenger studying at an art school (row, third from left)
The following year, he was admitted to the Tianjin Conservatory of Music, and after graduation, he began to work in the Central Nationalities Song and Dance Troupe in Beijing.
At that time, the salary was not high, but perhaps it was the heroism brought out of the grassland, in short, the first time he got the salary was to invite his friends to eat and drink.
Originally, if this life went on like this, his life could not make any waves.
But he loves to create in his spare time, and the song "Mongol" eventually allowed him to achieve a qualitative change in his career, and thus obtained his own love.
In 1987, the famous Tenger was invited to a party in Inner Mongolia, when he stood under the stage and looked at the articulate Haskova on the stage, which can be said to be love at first sight.
At that time, Haskova not only had a graceful figure, but also was given the title of "the first beauty of the steppe" because of her beautiful face.
Tenger's ex-wife Haskova poses with Sichenkova
It stands to reason that such a talented beauty should not lack the pursuit of young talents, and it should also be the most difficult to catch. But the ug-looking Tenger actually attracted the attention of Haskova at once with his creative talent.
Of course, the most important thing is that Haskova felt that a family like Tenger could finally stand on such a big stage, which was enough to prove his self-motivation.
So the two fell in love, but at that time she didn't know that it was her misjudgment that would delay her life.
Caught in the river of love, Hascova's eyes are full of love and adoration for Tengger, and in order to avoid being unable to marry her beloved due to the obstruction of her family, she simply cuts off first.
Then she gave up the career she had worked hard to build in Inner Mongolia and followed Tenger to Beijing to struggle.
At that time, Tenger could not afford to buy a house, so he could only live in a small room of less than 20 square meters allocated to them by the unit.
Although this life is very difficult, the people who have love in their hearts do not feel any problems at all, and Haskova is full of hope for Tengger.
In the 90s, Tengger's career underwent an astonishing development.
In 1991, his lyrics and composition of "Father and Me" won the top prize in Chinese works at the 2nd Asian Music Festival, and the following year he became the first mainland singer to hold a solo concert in Taiwan in those years.
When his powerful singing voice spread over the island, countless people sighed: they have never heard such shocking national music.
Even Taiwanese media exaggeratedly wrote: "There is a strong northwest wind blowing in Taipei!" ”
At that time, his heart fluttered, and he even said to Li Zongsheng unashamedly: Taiwan's songs are really boring, and they are all things that love and love.
Then he struck while the iron was hot to create his own band "Blue Wolf", which was a very face-saving thing in the singer industry at that time, and what was more unique was that all their members had long hair at that time, and the momentum of rock music was very strong.
After the first performance, they were paid more than 1,000 yuan, which was already a superior income in the music scene at that time.
After getting the money, Tenger did not change his habits for many years, and immediately took the members of the band to eat and drink, and it didn't take long for the money to be spent.
Tenger (first from left) drinks at home with friends
If the expenses of later performances accumulated, Tenger could also be regarded as making a lot of money, but he never saved money, nor did he buy a house and a car for his wife, but originally charged "big money" and invited guests to dinner.
The key is that every time he gets drunk, he is very generous, and a friend once took a fancy to a jade horse worth hundreds of thousands, and he actually waved his hand to give it to the other party.
While Tenger was spending money outside, Haskova was in their small 20-square-meter house, grabbing water from the toilet with others to wash clothes.
A man, the first time he makes money is not to improve the environment of his family, but to use it for self-enjoyment, such a situation can not be accepted by anyone, let alone Haskova who has suffered with Tenger for many years.
To this end, Haskova thought of various methods, whether it was persuasion or trouble, but could not change Tenger's absurd hobby.
In 1995, Haskova couldn't stand such a life and filed for divorce from Tenger.
Faced with his wife's request, Tenger realized the seriousness of the matter, and he thought of various ways not to apply for a divorce certificate, but in the end he could not resist Haskova's determination.
After the divorce, Tenger looked for opportunities 6 times, hoping to save the marriage, but at this time, Haskova had long been heartbroken and was no longer willing to give this man who had not repented for many years a chance.
In fact, Tengger's behavior can also be understood, when he was a child, he lived a difficult life, so he couldn't help but squander it when he had money, and the extravagant scenes were all to make up for the lack of childhood materials.
But what I didn't expect was that the regrets of childhood made up, but the regrets of marriage also appeared.
After the divorce, Tenger decided to work hard again after a period of depression.
I have to say that God still favors him in terms of career, and in 2000, he successfully became popular with a song "Paradise".
After becoming famous, he met his current wife, an actor in the Arab League Song and Dance Troupe, who was 18 years younger than him: Zhula.
This relationship is still love at first sight, but the road to marriage between the two did not go smoothly. At that time, Zhula's parents felt that Tenger had another failed marriage as a big star, and it would be nothing if it was just a relationship, but it was indeed a little unreliable to get married.
But the person who fell in love didn't care what other people said, so Zhula married this man without hesitation.
It is gratifying that after this marriage, Tenger has converged a lot, he has changed the image of wandering and playing outside in the past, and he cares for his new wife.
In the second year of marriage, Tengger's daughter Gagger was born, which made Tenger very happy, giving almost all his favor to the child, both material and companionship, he gave as much as possible.
But no one expected that this child was found to have congenital diseases when he was 3 years old.
This was a blow to Tenger, who took his daughter everywhere to seek medical treatment, but finally after struggling for 3 years, her daughter left him forever.
This incident was simply a fatal blow to Tenger's life, and his life was once again plunged into darkness.
After a long silence, he appeared again with great vicissitudes, but also matured a lot.
However, the innate talent has become a little weak for some reason, and the original talent has become only able to rely on covering other people's songs to gain attention.
But many of the songs he covered did not receive any good feedback, whether it was "Invisible Wings" or "Flying in the Sky", the style of music was very contrary to his image.
In this mixed situation, he did not come out again in the rapidly changing entertainment industry.
In 2020, he also tried to make movies, but his performance in "The Big Winner" was too ordinary and did not make him popular.
But now he has to come out to earn money to support his family for his son, and the "debt" he owed when he was young can only be repaid with today's hard work.
Unlike his hard work, Haskova's life after divorce was perfect.
When her marriage failed, she was not depressed, but regained the career she had given up because of her marriage. Leaving Tengger, she began her efforts to become an independent woman.
Originally, she was worried that she would be forgotten by everyone if she had not worked for many years, but she had a lot of opportunities as soon as she came back.
1996's "Governor Chang's Cave" is her comeback, and although it didn't make a splash, the pay was enough for her as a single woman.
In 2003, she ushered in a turning point in her career and filmed "Jujube Bay", which won everyone's love.
After that, she seemed to realize the value and happiness that her career brought her, and began to frantically toss between various crews.
The next year, the role in "Warmth" was played by her vividly and naturally, and praise came one after another inside and outside the circle, and under such excellent performance, she participated in "Red Pink Family" and "Xian Xinghai", which made Haskova's name echo in the audience's minds again.
"Warmth" won her the 8th Acting Society Award, and "Xian Xinghai" won her the Pearl Shadow Little Hundred Flowers Award for Actress.
As the trophies were taken back, she became more and more confident.
In 2019, because of the movie "Macao's First October", she unexpectedly appeared at the Macao International Film Festival event, she was 60 years old at the time, wearing a black dress, wearing red lipstick on the red carpet slowly strolling, the whole person looked radiant, gentle and atmospheric, and the temperament of the big heroine was fully revealed.
I have to say that the years seem to have forgotten the existence of this woman, and the increase in age has not had any impact on her figure and temperament in addition to giving her an extra layer of charm.
The difficult life during her marriage with Tenger is gone, and she has already bought a house in Beijing and a car she liked.
That failed marriage made her understand that people should live for themselves, so she devoted the rest of her life to acting.
As a public figure, of course, it is inevitable that reporters will sometimes ask whether they will regret the original marriage.
Every time, she smiled indifferently and calmly responded: "Don't regret it, it's all destined to experience, just experience it." ”
The feeling of light wind seemed to tell everyone that that relationship had long been her special experience rather than pain.
In life, there are often friends who persuade her to find another dependency, but she politely refuses every time, for her, "affection can't drink enough", and it is not bad to dedicate her life to what she loves.
In her free time, her favorite thing to do is play badminton, after which she takes a hot shower and then comfortably lies in bed watching TV.
On sunny days, I put on a comfortable T-shirt and sneakers and call my friends of many years to climb the mountain and see the scenery.
When bored, I will look through books to find peace in them, in short, life is more wonderful and exciting.
A woman's worth is never only reflected in marriage, and when she can be self-sufficient, love is only an additive to life but not a necessity.
Tenger's early attitude towards marriage is indeed worthy of criticism, but the most admirable thing is that Haskova was able to bloom without interference and still bloom on her own.