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This is the real reason why men change their hearts, whether women believe it or not about Ma Yili and the article relationship, after five years finally ended, the forgiveness of "doing and cherishing" at the beginning was not supported in the end

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This is the real reason why men change their hearts, whether women believe it or not

Regarding Ma Yili's relationship with the article, it finally ended after five years, and the forgiveness of "doing and cherishing" at the beginning did not support them to the end, and it could only be the result of fate.

From "Kitakami Hiro Don't Believe in Tears" to "The First Half of My Life", although there are some differences in the characterization of characters, it is not difficult to see that the characters played by Ma Yili are all strong and fierce personalities.

And Ma Yili in life is the same, when netizens criticized the article, the mother of the article stood up to fight for her son.

In an interview show, she said: "Ma Yili is very strong in the process of living with the article, not only sleeping in a separate bed with the article, but also yelling and drinking at the article. ”

Ma Yili's strength has not changed before and after marriage, and a woman's strength is precisely the source of marriage failure.

Perhaps, the article suffered from oppressive suffocation for a long time in this marriage of strong women and weak men, his sense of self-worth could not be realized, and he would become a balloon full of air in the long run.

As long as there is any breakthrough, the once unspeakable sense of value will be perfectly solved in another person.

And this, I think, in addition to character, may also be the real reason for men's change of heart.

In marriage, women provide needs and men provide needs

Zhao Youting and Gao Yuanyuan are well-known model couples in the entertainment industry, the two do not hype, quietly manage their emotions in the two-person world, and live a full and down-to-earth life.

In daily life, Gao Yuanyuan will always "trouble" Zhao Youting, such as objects that are obviously within reach, but he coquettishly asks Zhao Youting to help take them, and these trivial things in life occur one after another.

It may be that in the eyes of ordinary people, it is a kind of work to let others help everything they can, but for Zhao Youting, such a "small trouble" can just realize his sense of value that he is needed.

In an interview, Zhao Youting said that he is a person who needs to be needed, and the other party expects his performance to give the other party performance.

In a marriage, the most painful feeling for a man is his idleness and superfluousness.

For the realization of the value of being needed, both men and women will be involved, but men's need to be needed is generally stronger than women's, which comes from the desire to protect in their bones.

Therefore, women create needs through some "small troubles", which can make men get a sense of accomplishment in completing a small thing.

A woman who is too strong will make men want to escape

In the movie "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", the heroine is a strong person, married for many years, she has always been in control of the entire family, and the slightest thing a man does not do well will attract her scolding.

Once, in the process of moving, the man saw that the moving master was thirsty, so he took the initiative to buy water, and the woman felt that she had paid the cost of moving, and the man's move was to spend money lavishly and would not live.

Therefore, in front of outsiders, she took out the attitude of reprimanding men at home, without considering men's feelings at all.

Maybe it's because he usually has been limited by the reverse of his obedience, or maybe he lost face in front of outsiders, making him angry, and this time the man did not choose to swallow his voice.

He announced his unilateral divorce from a woman on the spot to end so many years of wrongdoing.

A woman does not want to spend too much, this starting point is good, but her fault is to disrespect men, according to her own strength to reprimand men regardless of the occasion, she has anger to vent, but her husband also has dignity to protect.

In marriage, women who are too strong are always self-centered, think that everything they do is right, do not consider the feelings of others at all, and block their own retreat while not leaving a way back for others.

For men who change their hearts, it is timely to stop losses while they are freed as soon as possible

At the beginning of the article, when he changed his mind, Ma Yili chose to forgive, so he had the golden sentence of "do and cherish" later.

However, even if you forgive, the relationship between the two is still not the same as before, the big show of affection under the lights, and the like interaction on Weibo.

All the signs are telling people that their relationship is the same as before, but only they know whether they will return to the way they were.

In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun, played by Ma Yili, had no so-called forgiveness after learning that her husband had changed his heart, and she chose to leave directly.

Although ending a worry-free marriage really brought Luo Zijun a lot of suffering, these setbacks blossomed in later times, and she let go of her wrong feelings and met the right person.

In life, some people inevitably have some reluctance in the face of flawed feelings, even if the other party has done something unforgivable, he will comfort himself with the reason that "he did not abandon me and loved me".

In fact, the man who has changed his heart at this time is like the ill-fitting shoes on his feet, you always think that patience will pass, but the reality is that your feet have been worn to blood, but the fact that has been established has not changed.

For men who change their hearts, it is timely to stop the loss as soon as possible, just like pulling out an inflamed wisdom tooth, although it will be very painful, but after surviving, it is incomparably refreshing. #婚恋手册 #

This is the real reason why men change their hearts, whether women believe it or not about Ma Yili and the article relationship, after five years finally ended, the forgiveness of "doing and cherishing" at the beginning was not supported in the end
This is the real reason why men change their hearts, whether women believe it or not about Ma Yili and the article relationship, after five years finally ended, the forgiveness of "doing and cherishing" at the beginning was not supported in the end
This is the real reason why men change their hearts, whether women believe it or not about Ma Yili and the article relationship, after five years finally ended, the forgiveness of "doing and cherishing" at the beginning was not supported in the end

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