On October 19, when everyone was arguing about Cao Ge's marriage change, Wu Suling, as his wife, responded to the divorce for the first time through social accounts, explaining her marriage relationship with her husband, which quickly became the focus of heated discussions. People who eat melons have poured in to find out whose fault it is.
Judging from Wu Suling's long article, first understand your attitude, and the previous silence is not a tacit acquiescence, but I don't want to become the focus of public opinion. But unexpectedly, the other party did not let herself go, frequently updated the small essay, so that she was on the cusp, and when she suffered pain and collapse, she also had to insert a foot sideways and hurt herself under the banner of love.
Therefore, she chose to respond and let everyone know the truth, which turned out to be the pain and torment that her marriage had endured for many years. Cao Ge is a complex personality, living in fear and collapse in marriage, which has exceeded the load she has endured. All the forbearance and forgiveness before, the wounds that I licked and eaten, have completely collapsed myself.
So much so that even he couldn't deceive himself, and he knew very well what kind of person Cao Ge was, and it was impossible to change. And I was completely disappointed in him and could not forgive him for what he did. So for the sake of myself, I became strong inside, and I had to take care of my children, so I chose to live for myself, because I was completely hurt, so I wanted to get out of the past environment.
Now I am also asking myself whether I can let go and solve the problem. But for Cao Ge's paranoia and stubbornness, it seems to be crazy. But his own non-response and silence made the other party become more serious. So she chose to face it head-on, just to let everyone know the truth and free herself, and now she just wants to escape the draft quickly, and doesn't want to live in fear and collapse anymore.
Wu Suling also said that she thought a lot, and finally chose to cross the past and want to live a wonderful life. This seems to tell us that her marriage to Cao Ge is over, and the divorce is the end of the two. I have made up my mind to separate and want to live for myself.
And her response also says it all, in the years of marriage, she has been disappointed again and again with Cao Ge's forgiveness, and she has also compromised with herself, but in the end, the other party has not changed, but she is full of wounds. In countless pains and torments, she knew very well that if she wanted to be freed, she could only leave, and Cao Ge was no longer saved.
For Cao Ge's situation, many people must know that he has severe bipolar disorder, he can't control himself at all when he is sick, he has had many conflicts with others, and Wu Suling completely collapsed. But the other party said to change, but never repented, which made her completely disappointed.
And Cao Ge and Wu Suling have been rumored to have been married for more than half a year, which shows that Wu Suling has also chosen to forgive during this period, but for Cao Ge, there is no possibility of change at all, and he has thoroughly seen this person. Therefore, it is clear that he wants to live well, only to leave him, and now for Cao Ge, Wu Suling is bitter and helpless.
This can be seen from her taking off Cao Ge, the two have now taken off each other's accounts, and have also moved out of the love nest and lived alone with their children, showing her determination and choice. Maybe a person with a personality like Cao Ge is no longer able to communicate and understand, like drilling into the tip of a bull's horn.
I believe that any woman cannot bear such a marriage for a long time, for Wu Suling, divorce may be a real relief, compared to mental pain, even if life is difficult, she is willing. I believe that with her efforts, she will live more and more wonderfully.