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Zhong Xinghuo's life was lucky enough, he was deeply loved by two women, Chen Qian and Zhu Yunyi.
The former raised three daughters for him, and the latter took care of his old age.
But even such a lucky enough person that his family also has an unfortunate side.
That is, the daughters refused to meet him because of Zhong Xinghuo's second marriage.
For 20 years, the daughters have not seen Zhong Xinghuo.
The daughters' resistance to Zhu Yunyi made Zhong Xinghuo sad, but Zhong Xinghuo did not regret the second marriage.
Without him, it was under the care of Zhu Yunyi that Zhong Xinghuo had a happy old age.
After Zhong Xinghuo's death, Zhu Yunyi's choice was also tearful.
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Zhong Xinghuo was born in 1924 in Haozhou, Anhui, his original name was Zhao Xiasheng.
"Zhao" is also not the surname of Zhong Xinghuo's biological father.
It turned out that Zhong Xinghuo was succeeded by his biological parents to a local landowner surnamed Zhao as a stepson shortly after his birth.
Zhong Xinghuo's adoptive father had 5 wives, of which the eldest lady Wang was raising him.
The Wang family is very good to Zhong Xinghuo, and she made a relationship for Zhong Xinghuo when she was a teenager.
The other party's family lineage is comparable to that of Zhongxinghuo's family, and they all belong to local large families.
Zhong Xinghuo fulfilled his marriage contract at the age of 16 and married Chen Qian, and then left home at the age of 22 to join the army and entered the Linyi Liberated Area of Shandong Province, and then transferred to the Department of Literature and Art of Shandong University under the arrangement of the organization.
Zhong Xinghuo changed his name while studying at Shandong University, and he changed his real name "Zhao Xiasheng" to "Zhong Xinghuo".
The name Zhong Xinghuo has a deep meaning, among which, "Zhong" means that Zhong Xinghuo is one of the people, and the spark represents the glow, and the name means to put oneself in the crowd and exert one's strength in the crowd.
Zhong Xinghuo studied at Shandong University for 4 years and then was assigned to work at the Shanghai Film Studio.
Zhong Xinghuo worked in Shanghai Film Studio for 10 years before becoming a starring role.
Before becoming a starring actor, Zhong Xinghuo's life was very poor.
At that time, Zhong Xinghuo's monthly salary was only 2.8 yuan, and if he and his wife only supported each other, 2.8 yuan was more than enough. But what makes Zhong Xinghuo quite stressful is that he also has to raise 3 minor daughters.
It turned out that Chen Qian became pregnant not long after marrying Zhong Xinghuo, and in the fifth year of marriage, Chen Qian had given birth to three daughters for Zhong Xinghuo one after another.
Zhong Xinghuo's salary is difficult to maintain the family's life, but thanks to Chen Qian's family care, the family can struggle to survive in Shanghai.
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When Zhong Xinghuo first arrived at the Shanghai Film Studio, he couldn't act, and an old-timer at the studio proposed Zhong Xinghuo to watch a movie to learn acting. At that time, the old-timer said to Zhong Xinghuo: "Isn't the movie "Gone with the Wind" being shown in the cinema recently? You go to see it, and when you watch it, you will act. ”
Zhong Xinghuo listened to the advice of the old-timers, and after that, he took Chen Qian to the cinema.
Zhong Xinghuo originally wanted to watch "Gone with the Wind" with Chen Qian, but anyway, both of them were frightened by the huge ticket price.
At that time, a movie ticket cost 1.4 yuan, which was equivalent to Zhong Xinghuo's salary for half a month.
Zhong Xinghuo struggled at the door for a long time, still reluctant to spend so much money to watch a movie.
Zhong Xinghuo was reluctant to "spend a huge amount of money" to watch the movie, and Chen Qian was also reluctant.
But Chen Qian is a woman who understands the righteousness, and for Zhong Xinghuo's future, she still took out 1.4 yuan to buy a movie ticket.
Chen Qian handed the movie ticket she bought to Zhong Xinghuo, and she said to him: "This is for work, you go and see it!" I'll wait for you at the door."
Zhong Xinghuo was moved by his wife's actions, and after that, Zhong Xinghuo loved his wife even more.
Zhong Xinghuo had a deep understanding of performance after watching "Gone with the Wind", but at that time, Zhong Xinghuo's acting skills did not immediately improve, and he still acted for more than ten years, and his acting skills were greatly improved.
In 1959, Zhong Xinghuo's first male lead play "Today I Rest" was born.
This play is a starting point for the rise of Zhong Xinghuo's acting career, and after filming this drama, Zhong Xinghuo is like a god. After that, he successively starred in film and television dramas such as "Soldier No. 51", "Dead Wood Fengchun" and "Li Shuangshuang".
The movie "Li Shuangshuang" is another small peak on Zhong Xinghuo's acting road.
With this film, Zhong Xinghuo not only won the Best Supporting Actor Award at the Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award, but was also warmly received by national leaders.
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After becoming famous, Zhong Xinghuo's acting career was not smooth sailing.
A year after the filming of "Li Shuangshuang", due to the peculiarities of the age, Zhong Xinghuo was sent to work on Fengxian Farm and could only return home once a month.
During this period, Chen Qian was also involved a lot because of Zhong Xinghuo.
At that time, someone visited the house twice and forced Chen Qian and Zhong Xinghuo to divorce.
At that time, Chen Qian's answer was: "I will not divorce Lao Zhong, I and he are a husband and wife with both prosperity and loss."
Zhong Xinghuo was very grateful to Chen Qian for not leaving him during his trough.
Zhong Xinghuo filmed a lot of scenes after the end of his labor, at that time, the three daughters also grew up, and Zhong Xinghuo and Chen Qian's life became better and better.
But just when Zhong Xinghuo and Chen Qian's life became more and more comfortable, an accident happened, and Chen Qian died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage.
Zhong Xinghuo was very sad after Chen Qian's death, and at that time, because his daughters had their own families, Zhong Xinghuo was still very lonely.
After seeing Zhong Xinghuo's situation, his friend introduced Zhu Yunyi, who was a nurse in the hospital, to Chen Qian 2 years after his death.
Zhu Yunyi, like Zhong Xinghuo, also had an arranged marriage.
Zhu Yunyi's arranged marriage was very unhappy, so after the founding of New China, Zhu Yunyi divorced her husband and lived alone with a pair of children.
Zhong Xinghuo was 55 years old when he met Zhu Yunyi, and he and Zhu Yunyi saw each other, and soon the two decided to get married.
Zhong Xinghuo's decision was opposed by his three daughters, who did not agree to Zhong Xinghuo marrying Zhu Yunyi, but Zhong Xinghuo, who wanted to be accompanied by someone, insisted on marrying Zhu Yunyi.
However, Zhong Xinghuo only married Zhu Yunyi the day before, and the next day, his eldest daughter forcibly occupied his house.
There was no way, Zhong Xinghuo had to live with Zhu Yunyi without a fixed place.
According to rumors, Zhong Xinghuo and Zhu Yunyi moved 8 times in 4 years. During these 4 years, they lived in the attic of their mother-in-law's house and slept on the floor of a friend's house.
After living at a friend's house for a long time, Zhong Xinghuo and Zhu Yunyi were gently urged by their friends to move out.
At that time, a friend approached Zhong Xinghuo and said to him tactfully: "Xinghuo, I have relatives coming tomorrow!" ”
The friend only said this sentence, and Zhong Xinghuo understood the meaning of the friend. Immediately, he awkwardly packed his luggage and hurriedly moved out of a friend's house with his wife.
If living in a fixed place is only a small obstacle to Zhong Xinghuo and Zhu Yunyi's happy life after marriage, then the public's perception of them is a big obstacle to their happiness after marriage.
In 1982, an article titled "What Happened to the Family of Movie Actor Z" dragged Zhong Xinghuo and Zhu Yunyi into the controversy.
At that time, because of this article, it was widely rumored on the Internet that Zhong Xinghuo "does not care for the elderly, and does not raise children at the bottom."
Zhong Xinghuo was badly hurt by this article.
At that time, as long as Zhong Xinghuo walked on the road, someone would point at him.
In addition to being accused by passers-by, Zhong Xinghuo's film contract was also affected.
Originally, many directors designated Zhong Xinghuo to star in their film and television dramas, but after the content of the article fermented, Zhong Xinghuo was abandoned by the directors.
Zhong Xinghuo could not bear the negative impact of this article, so he sent three letters to the magazine "Democracy and the Rule of Law", hoping to pay him back.
In these three letters, Zhong Xinghuo explained in detail his family composition and the reason for his marriage with Zhu Yunyi.
Because of these three letters, passers-by no longer chased Zhong Xinghuo and scolded.
At the same time, because Zhong Xinghuo's colleagues and unit leaders have come out to prove that Zhong Xinghuo is a good father and son with feelings and righteousness, Zhong Xinghuo's reputation has been restored to a certain extent.
After the incident, Zhong Xinghuo's eldest daughter also appeared and said: "I hope to meet with my father to resolve the dispute and get back together." ”
At this point, Zhong Xinghuo was finally no longer "shouted and beaten by everyone".
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Zhong Xinghuo and Zhu Yunyi were taken good care of by Zhu Yunyi after they got married, and it was under Zhu Yunyi's care that Zhong Xinghuo's body became healthier and healthier.
In 1987, Zhong Xinghuo went to Nanchang to shoot the movie "The Legend of the Little Big Old".
At the start-up banquet, Zhong Xinghuo drank too much, resulting in acute stomach bleeding and needed to be hospitalized. There was no way, Zhong Xinghuo had to suggest that the director change the actor.
But how could the director find a leading actor again in just a few days. So in the end, Zhong Xinghuo still went into battle and finished filming.
After experiencing this incident, Zhong Xinghuo decided to quit drinking.
But alcohol is not easy to quit, Zhong Xinghuo only quit for a while and then drank again, and he drank more and more. Even once, Zhong Xinghuo fainted from drinking.
After Zhu Yunyi saw that Zhong Xinghuo could not quit drinking, she took the initiative to adopt the "alcohol restriction method" of "two changes and one reduction" - "gradually change from drinking high-grade alcohol to drinking low-alcohol alcohol, from drinking low-quality wine to drinking high-quality wine, and reducing the amount of alcohol from large alcohol to small alcohol" to help Zhong Xinghuo quit drinking.
With the help of Zhu Yunyi, Zhong Xinghuo really quit drinking.
Even if Zhong Xinghuo wanted to drink after that, he would only drink the medicinal wine recommended by Zhu Yunyi.
Zhong Xinghuo was very grateful to Zhu Yunyi for her dedication, and later, Zhong Xinghuo also called Zhu Yunyi the younger sister of Zhu Yingtai, saying that without Zhu Yunyi, her body would not be so healthy.
In his later years, Zhong Xinghuo liked to watch TV, flip through books, and when he was fine, Zhong Xinghuo would practice calligraphy for a while.
At that time, someone once asked Zhong Xinghuo: "How can you maintain such optimism in old age?" ”
Zhong Xinghuo replied: "Why not be optimistic?" It is really profitable to be able to live such a comfortable life as I am now in old age. ”
Zhong Xinghuo's later life was really comfortable, at that time, Zhong Xinghuo also traveled to the United States with Zhu Yunyi for a while.
During that time, Zhong Xinghuo lived at Zhu Yunyi's son's home in the United States.
Zhu Yunyi's son respected Zhong Xinghuo very much, and although he was not related to Zhong Xinghuo, he still called Zhong Xinghuo his father. Zhong Xinghuo was also full of smiles when he mentioned Zhu Yunyi's son, and more than once, Zhong Xinghuo smiled in front of outsiders and called Zhu Yunyi's son his son.
In 2006, Zhu Yunyi's son and daughter-in-law were returning from the United States.
After Zhong Xinghuo learned of this, he got up early to mop the floor on the day his son and daughter-in-law were about to arrive, just to welcome the arrival of his son and daughter-in-law.
Unfortunately, Zhong Xinghuo's relationship with his three biological daughters did not ease before his death.
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Zhong Xinghuo lived to the age of 91 under the care of Zhu Yunyi, who died in Shanghai on December 25, 2014.
After Zhong Xinghuo passed away, Zhu Yunyi was very sad.
For a long time, Zhu Yunyi could not get out of her grief.
At that time, friends came to visit Zhu Yunyi and were frightened by Zhu Yunyi's current situation. Without him, after Zhong Xinghuo passed away, Zhu Yunyi seemed to have aged 10 years overnight.
When Zhu Yunyi was just together with Zhong Xinghuo, many people thought that Zhu Yunyi came for Zhong Xinghuo's fame and money.
But after Zhong Xinghuo's death, Zhu Yunyi proved that her love was innocent, and her marriage with Zhong Xinghuo did not involve any interests.
It turned out that after Zhong Xinghuo passed away, Zhu Yunyi only left the house where they lived, and then gave all Zhong Xinghuo's property to his three daughters.
And the reason why Zhu Yunyi left this house was not for wealth, but only to leave all the memories of her and Zhong Xinghuo.
Now that Zhong Xinghuo has passed away for seven years, Zhu Yunyi still misses her husband in the house where they lived, and their feelings are touching.