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Written by Kao Kami
Edited by Mo Shang Huayang
Zhong Xinghuo is the first generation of Chinese actors, and he is also a respectable old artist in everyone's hearts.
His whole life has been dedicated to acting, and even Premier Zhou has personally met him.
However, it is such an old artist who is infinitely beautiful and highly respected in the eyes of outsiders, but because of his three daughters, he ended up "homeless" in the last stage of his life.
In December 2014, this veteran actor who dedicated his life to art died with regrets.
Only then did everyone know that it turned out that his daughter even avoided him for the last time.
It wasn't until eight years later that Zhong Xinghuo's widow said something from the bottom of her heart that brought tears to their eyes.
"Chen Shimei" in the eyes of her daughter
In June 1976, Zhong Xinghuo's original wife Chen Qian fell into a coma due to years of hard work at home, and died before she could be sent to the hospital.
At this time, Zhong Xinghuo's three daughters learned the news that their mother had died, and they all cried so much that they couldn't help themselves, and their hearts were full of grief.
However, when they looked at their father Zhong Xinghuo, who hurried back at this time, an indescribable anger surged in their hearts, resenting why their father always came so late.
Zhong Xinghuo listened to the hoarse voices of his three daughters crying, and only then did he have a real sense of his wife's death in his heart, he couldn't believe that his wife was still in front of him not long ago, why did he suddenly leave him?
He also deeply understands that he owes his wife and daughter a lot, and he is busy with his acting career and has not fulfilled his responsibilities as husband and father, which makes him feel very guilty and painful.
At this time, the three daughters not only did not comfort their father who lost his wife like ordinary fathers and daughters, but naturally they couldn't see the guilt and reluctance in their father's eyes for their mother.
Zhong Xinghuo, who was in extreme pain, survived a long time to get out of the blow of his wife's death, and his daughter did not come over to accompany her father after her mother left, but more turned a blind eye to her father.
So, Zhong Xinghuo, who felt lonely, devoted himself to his career, and he chose to use his busy work to numb his already painful heart.
At this moment, Zhong Xinghuo's old friend couldn't bear that he had been in deep grief and couldn't get out, so he introduced him to a nurse to take care of his life.
This nurse is his second wife Zhu Yunyi, and the two are in the same situation, plus they have been together for a long time.
At this time, Zhong Xinghuo, who found an old companion, told his daughters the news that he was going to get married, but what he didn't expect was that this incident completely ignited the dissatisfaction that his daughters had hidden in their hearts for many years.
They were very opposed to their father's decision to remarry, and the eldest daughter once said to Zhong Xinghuo: "My mother has only been dead for two years, so I want to marry another wife, are you worthy of her?"
However, although Zhong Xinghuo was sad that his daughters misunderstood him, he did not give up his plan to remarry because of their opposition, and still firmly chose to enter into marriage hand in hand with Zhu Yunyi.
However, seeing that their father had made up his mind, they no longer disregarded the father-daughter relationship in the past, and teamed up to force their father away, not allowing them to live in the house where their mother once lived after marriage.
Faced with his daughter's strength and rejection, Zhong Xinghuo, who was already guilty about them, gave in and took Zhu Yunyi to live somewhere else.
However, Zhong Xinghuo couldn't get peace for a moment after marriage, and his daughters often went to his house to make trouble, making him a "scumbag" who abandoned his wife and daughter in the eyes of everyone.
This also made Zhong Xinghuo receive a lot of condemnation from public opinion at that time, but they still did not stop all kinds of actions to embarrass Zhong Xinghuo.
This also led to Zhong Xinghuo moving nearly eight times after marriage, until the film studio couldn't stand it anymore, and then Zhong Xinghuo was assigned a house, and they ended their wandering life after marriage.
After Zhong Xinghuo remarried, although he did not enjoy the happiness of his daughter's family, under the care of his wife Zhu Yunyi, the two of them have been living happily.
Over the years, Zhong Xinghuo has never forgotten his daughters, but unfortunately even in 2014, at the age of 91, he did not see his daughters for the last time before he died.
At the funeral, only his youngest daughter attended the event, and the other two daughters did not even show up once.
Eight years after Zhong Xinghuo's death, his widow Zhu Yunyi said to her husband's three daughters: "Your father has always been very concerned about you, and you are the one who is most at ease before he leaves."
Hearing these words, the three daughters burst into tears, and their hearts were filled with inexplicable regret.
Unfortunately, this remorse was eight years late, and they never saw their father smile gently at them again.
When did Zhong Xinghuo's three daughters start to be dissatisfied with their father, and they didn't go to see him for the last time until he died.
The original match of the childhood sweetheart.
Not long after Zhong Xinghuo was born, he was thrown to live in his adoptive parents' house by his biological parents, and his original name followed his adoptive father's surname, and the name Zhong Xinghuo was his stage name that he later obtained for acting.
At that time, Zhong Xinghuo and his original wife Chen Qian were "baby relatives" set since childhood, and people in that era generally got married early, so the two got married when they were teenagers.
The two were originally a good match, so they also had some common language after marriage, and Chen Qian was also very considerate of her husband's ideals and ambitions.
Within a few years, the two gave birth to three daughters after marriage, because Zhong Xinghuo was going to study Xi in the officer training regiment of Linyi Liberated Area, Shandong, looking at his wife and children around him, he couldn't make a decision for a long time.
However, Chen Qian, who had already seen her husband's worries, said to him: "You can rest assured that you can go out to study Xi work, and I will take care of everything at home, and when you are stable in the future, you will take us over."
So, Zhong Xinghuo embarked on the journey of work with the reluctance in his heart, and in 1949, he finally sang with the art troupe, and finally entered a newly established film studio in Shanghai.
However, when he finally stabilized, he rushed home to find that his daughter didn't remember him anymore and was very repulsive to him.
Chen Qian, who saw this scene, immediately ran over to her daughter and said, "This is your father", and after returning home to visit, Zhong Xinghuo took his wife and daughter to the train and settled in Shanghai.
It's a pity that Zhong Xinghuo is busy acting to earn money to support his family, and often has no time to go home to accompany his wife and daughter, which also leads to the three daughters always being vague about the role of their father.
In their childhood, only their mothers worked hard, and even in their memories, their mothers changed from a beautiful lady to a patient with serious strain for their father.
Moreover, the three daughters have seen more fathers on the big screen than at home, and their impression of their fathers comes more from the roles they played in movies such as "South Island Storm", "Li Shuangshuang" and "Dr. Bethune".
During that period, Zhong Xinghuo also became a hot actor with his superb acting skills, and the sharp rise in fame also caused him to have no free time to spend with his family.
Because of the long time together, the three daughters have never been close to him, and even because of their father's profession, they suffered unimaginable torture in that era.
The three daughters watched their mother pull the three of them to grow up, and because of their father's occupation, she was tortured by a lot of suffering, and more and more complaints gradually rose in their hearts about their father.
However, Chen Qian still gritted her teeth and persevered, and she kept reporting good news to her husband Zhong Xinghuo, and she couldn't bear to look at her husband's already trapped heart and worry about them.
The three daughters saw that their mother was still worried about their father, so they suppressed their dissatisfaction in their hearts, and the relationship between father and daughter was not as stiff as it was later.
After Zhong Xinghuo came out, he returned to Shanghai Studio to continue to engage in his old profession - acting, at this time he received an invitation to the movie "A Pair of Safety Belts", but he didn't expect that because of this play, he would be separated from his wife when he came back.
This also led his daughters to think that if it weren't for their father's constant busyness with his career and never stopped to accompany his mother, maybe her mother wouldn't have had an accident at all.
In fact, Zhong Xinghuo was busy with his career in that era, in addition to his love for acting, he wanted to earn money to support his family.
Because he wants to ensure the economic expenses of a large family, he can only work hard to work hard outside for his career, so busy that he has no time to go home, and the responsibility of the family naturally falls on his original wife Chen Qian.
So when he remarried, his daughters felt fierce resentment towards him, after all, they thought that the new wife his father had taken over his mother's original position.
The momentary resentment also prevented them from seeing clearly that their father's guilt and love for them led to the tragedy of both parties over the years.
epilogue
Zhong Xinghuo's life has been dedicated to his acting career, and he has left one classic image after another on the big screen.
However, when he is busy with his career, his role as a father in the family is missing, and although money can buy anything, it cannot buy the missing father's love.
From the daughter's point of view, Zhong Lao is not a qualified father, but he has been working hard for the family for so many years, and the three daughters cannot completely ignore the hardships of their father's hard work outside.
Therefore, Zhong Lao's example also reminds everyone to be considerate of each other when getting along with their families, so as not to regret it for the rest of their lives.
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