In 2005, 46-year-old actor Gao Xiumin died of a sudden heart attack.
At her funeral, there were two men who couldn't cry themselves, one was He Qingkui, a close lover who had been with her for many years.
The other is Zhao Benshan, the partner of the former "Iron Triangle".
Faced with Gao Xiumin's posthumous image, the two men promised at the same time that they would help her take care of her newly graduated daughter Li Xuan.
Who knew that the promise in his mouth had not yet cooled, He Qingkui turned around and returned to the original match.
exposed the fact that Gao Xiumin had been with him for many years but had never received a marriage license.
Let the deceased Gao Xiumin bear the infamy of the mistress!
And Zhao Benshan, who fell out with Gao Xiumin before, the same vow, 17 years have passed, did he do it?
Why didn't Gao Xiumin forgive Zhao Benshan until he died?
What kind of unknown secret is behind the dissolution of the "Iron Triangle"?
How is her daughter Li Xuan doing now?
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Gao Xiumin was born in 1959 in Buyeo, Liaoning.
Unlike the impression of being rich on stage, until she got married, in addition to being tall, her figure was always slim.
Of course, these reasons are inseparable from the poverty in the family when I was a child.
This was also a common situation in the countryside at that time.
However, although the life at home is always hungry and full, it is based on the principle that no matter how hard you can't suffer your children.
Gao Xiumin's childhood was stable and happy.
Her parents also love to take her to see performances on the local rural stage.
In this vast black land, the art form of duo is rooted in almost every household here.
Gao Xiumin's parents were of course also deeply affected.
Although he did not embark on the road of literature and art, it did not affect the humming of two paragraphs between agricultural busyness.
Under such a subtle influence, Gao Xiumin developed a strong interest in the two's transfer at a very young age.
Maybe it's the art cells flowing in your bones.
Although the family never hired a teacher for her, it was the imitator of the performance of the actors on the stage.
By the age of 19, she had become a regular on the local "red and white event" stage.
The performance of professional actors is not inferior, which makes the villagers in ten miles and eight townships full of praise.
It is also the performance scene of these "red and white happy events".
Gao Xiumin met He Qingkui, who was 11 years older than her.
It's just that at that time, Gao Xiumin himself didn't know the true identity of He Qingkui, who was mixed in the band and blowing singing, and was a script editor.
At that time, many of the scripts for the "two-person turn" performance were written by him.
Of course, Gao Xiumin had no time to understand these situations.
The two who did not intersect deeply soon parted ways, and their fate went on a completely different path.
It's been years since we met!
Fast forward to 1997, and the Yufu Refinery publicity team was recruiting actors.
Gao Xiumin, who does not want to always be in the "grass platform team", participated in this selection.
Perhaps it is its own foundation placed there, dozens of people participated in the recruitment, as long as there are three places, Gao Xiumin was still selected.
Became part of the refinery's propaganda team.
Although nominally a performance publicity team, Gao Xiumin found that after joining, she had more opportunities to perform than when she was free.
More time is spent performing for employees in the factory.
Although as popular as ever, it is clear that this is not what Gao Xiumin wants.
So in 1978, after working for a year, she saw a recruitment poster posted by the "Yufu Civic Art Troupe".
I couldn't resist signing up again.
In fact, Gao Xiumin has always been more confident in her business ability, and thought that this registration was also a matter of hand-to-hand, but she was not selected.
She was not convinced by the fact that she met all the conditions and found the deputy head in charge of recruitment at that time.
In the face of this girl who broke the casserole and asked to the end, the deputy head could only answer truthfully.
"Girl, you meet all the conditions, you are too thin!"
It turned out that the "Folk Art Troupe" wanted to find an actor who could play an older role this time, but Gao Xiumin, who was slender at that time, was obviously not good.
After losing the election, Gao Xiumin was very unhappy, and there was no way she could only return to the refinery to continue working.
It was at that time that he was introduced to his husband.
Not long after marriage, he gave birth to his daughter Li Xuan.
Maybe it was the reason for giving birth to the child, or maybe Gao Xiumin was obsessed with what the deputy head said.
Her figure was visibly swollen.
Gao Xiumin once again found the Yufu Folk Art Troupe that eliminated her.
This time, I got my wish and became one of them.
Coincidentally, after joining the folk art troupe, the husband worked at the oil refinery.
He was also transferred to the city's cultural bureau.
The couple began a life of separation, and their daughter followed Gao Xiumin.
After working in a folk art troupe, in order to improve his business, Gao Xiumin joined Guan Changrong, a famous performing artist at that time.
After the guidance of her teacher and her own efforts, she began to show her prominence in the folk art troupe.
Within a few years, he was promoted from an ordinary actor to a deputy head of the group.
At the same time, He Qingkui, who was forced by life, had to give up his job as a screenwriter and sold fish in the vegetable market.
One day Gao Xiumin saw him while shopping for vegetables.
2:
Big Brother, who met in the early years, has now fallen to this point.
Gao Xiumin, who was enthusiastic in Gudao, recalled He Qingkui's care for her at that time, and naturally talked about it, hoping to help in all aspects he could.
When I learned that this big brother was still a screenwriter, and read the script he carefully pulled out of his arms.
Sigh that He Qingkui's talent should not be buried.
It just so happened that the art troupe also lacked screenwriters, so he sincerely invited He Qingkui to join the folk art troupe as an ordinary screenwriter.
Dedicated to writing the script of the show!
You must know that He Qingkui was almost unable to eat at that time.
Gao Xiumin's approach completely solved his urgent need.
I was very grateful in my heart, and I reciprocated Li by creating a sketch script for Gao Xiumin.
Although the colleagues in the art troupe were not optimistic at that time, it was with this script that Gao Xiumin won the first place in the provincial literary and art show at that time.
At this point, Gao Xiumin, who saw He Qingkui's talent, was even more reluctant to let go.
And He Qingkui also became Gao Xiumin's royal screenwriter in the days to come.
A behind-the-scenes script, a front-stage show.
The two who happen to cooperate with the tacit understanding are very committed in their careers.
Back and forth, the days together are even longer than the other half of the respective family.
At that time, however, people's thinking was relatively traditional.
Two people with their own families, working together for a long time.
It is inevitable that there will be rumors.
Although Gao Xiumin's grinning personality does not care about other people's opinions.
But the damage caused to He Qingkui cannot be ignored, after all, he is also a person with a family.
Perhaps because of this, in order to avoid suspicion, Gao Xiumin resigned from the position of deputy director of the Yufu Civic Art Troupe.
became a self-employed duo turned actors.
Ben thought of getting rid of the troubles caused by the rumors.
But unexpectedly, He Qingkui also quit his job in the art troupe and accompanied her.
He even fell out with his wife at home.
It was also in this year, the stage of the National Sketch Competition held in Shenzhen in 1992.
Gao Xiumin won the gold award with He Qingkui's sketch "Baggage"!
At this point, Gao Xiumin, who became famous in the First World War, gained fame and fortune, and performances all over the country occupied almost all of her time.
The task of taking care of her daughter Li Xuan had to fall to her husband.
It was already true that Gao Xiumin had been busy with work for a long time and ignored family dissatisfaction, and rumors about and He Qingkui reached her husband's ears.
The few time the two spent together also turned into endless quarrels.
The choice of family and career was placed in front of Gao Xiumin.
In fact, about this marriage Gao Xiumin is not unsaved.
However, the conflict between him and her husband has accumulated for a long time, and it is far from being solved simply by giving up her career and returning to the family.
Therefore, as a result, the two still came to the point of divorce.
It is always the children who are hurt by the divorce of parents.
Although her daughter Li Xuan did not say anything, it was still difficult to accept this cruel truth in her heart.
After living with her mother for a long time, Li Xuan became depressed.
It was the love of his stepfather He Qingkui that made her gradually come out of the haze when she was young!
3：
The reason for the divorce seems to have nothing to do with He Qingkui on the surface, but in fact it is inseparable from him.
After returning to singleness, Gao Xiumin has undergone qualitative changes while her career is booming, and her relationship with He Qingkui has also undergone qualitative changes.
However, unlike Gao Xiumin's decisive choice of divorce,
He Qingkui never went through the divorce procedures with his wife.
Such a strange relationship makes the three of them awkward.
In the end, He Qingkui's wife chose to give in and returned to her hometown in Guangzhou to take her grandson.
left her husband He Qingkui to accompany Gao Xiumin's future life.
Perhaps out of such gratitude,
Despite the fact that he has actually lived with He Qingkui.
But for the next 14 years, Gao Xiumin never urged He Qingkui to divorce his wife.
Therefore, Gao Xiumin, who did not have a marriage letter after his death, bore the infamy of "junior"!
In 1996, Zhao Benshan was not satisfied with the sketch about to appear on the Spring Festival Gala, and the trustee found He Qingkui to revise the script.
The three got to know each other.
At that time, this future sketch king Zhao Benshan was trying to create his own "golden team".
The appearance of He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin made him ecstatic!
Maybe it's a hero cherishing a hero, facing the olive branch thrown by Zhao Benshan.
Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui nodded in agreement without much consideration, so they added Fan Wei later.
The future popular "Iron Triangle" was officially unveiled on the stage of the 1997 Spring Festival Gala.
In the past 10 years, the four people who have achieved each other have stepped into the highlight of their respective careers step by step.
However, what the world does not know is that there is already an undercurrent behind the seemingly superficial prosperity.
A year before Gao Xiumin's death, the "Iron Triangle" combination fell apart!
It is said that Gao Xiumin's dissatisfaction has been around for a long time.
Perhaps it is the difference in the growth environment of the two, compared to Zhao Benshan, who has survived from the hard days, Gao Xiumin values the friendship between them more.
In this way, the two are completely different in their attitude towards Fan Wei.
In Zhao Benshan's concept, Fan Wei became popular by relying on him, and naturally did not give much in the distribution of performance remuneration.
Even to the point that Gao Xiumin couldn't stand it.
According to rumors, Zhao Benshan took 200,000 yuan for a business performance that year, and only gave Fan Wei 7,000 yuan.
After Gao Xiumin found out, she fought for Fan Wei.
Zhao Benshan ignored it, so in a performance where she and Fan Wei went out alone, Gao Xiumin paid 55 cents.
Now Zhao Benshan stopped doing it.
Gao Xiumin was called and asked, "Sister, how can you say hello to me, how will I divide it after you give him so much?" ”
But these words fell into Gao Xiumin's ears and became inexplicable.
What does my two separate performances have to do with "Iron Triangle"?
Don't you give it and don't allow me to give it?
Gao Xiumin, who values righteousness and lightness, is dissatisfied with Big Brother Zhao Benshan for the first time.
It is worth mentioning that after Gao Xiumin left, Fan Wei also bid farewell to the "iron triangle" and many people, including Zhao Benshan, who thought it was different.
Leaving the comedy stage, he proved himself with movies!
If these are just secret rumors.
Then the incident that happened before the Spring Festival in 2003 confirmed that the rumors were not groundless.
On the eve of the "Iron Triangle" Spring Festival Gala rehearsal, Gao Xiumin received a plea from a friend to perform "save the scene", and it is clear from the description above that Gao Xiumin is a very enthusiastic and grinning person.
So considering that the journey is not far, I can rush back on the night of the performance without delaying the Spring Festival Gala sketch rehearsal, and set off without saying a word.
Perhaps in a hurry when leaving, Gao Xiumin forgot to say hello to Zhao Benshan.
Coincidentally, the rehearsal, which was scheduled for review the day after tomorrow that night, was brought forward.
So despite trying her best to rush back, Gao Xiumin, who was belated, still did not review the rehearsal effect well because the preparation time was too short.
Zhao Benshan was furious, and Gao Xiumin, who was at a loss, also admitted his mistake.
In exchange for Zhao Benshan's endless nagging, Gao Xiumin, who was born in the northeast, still failed to suppress his hot temper.
Run away with He Qingkui in a negative mood!
In 2004, after leaving Zhao Benshan, He Qingkui screenwriter Gao Xiumin performed the TV series "Holy Water Lakeside" jointly invested by the two and quietly released, triggering a movie-watching boom.
Broken, there is no rumor that leaving Zhao Benshan will not be on fire.
It is worth mentioning that her daughter Li Xuan, who has just graduated, also participated, and she thought that under the protection of her mother, this would be the start of her career.
Unexpectedly, this is the only TV series she participated in in the entertainment industry!
The popularity of "Holy Water Lakeside" has put the shooting of the sequel on the agenda.
However, on the eve of filming.
In February 2005, He Qingkui's eldest son was in a serious car accident on the way home, and died after ineffective rescue.
He Qingkui was devastated, and the filming of the TV series was forced to be shelved.
Unexpectedly, just in the past few months, Gao Xiumin, who was alone at home in August, had a heart attack and her life was forever frozen at the age of 46.
The double blow made He Qingkui white overnight.
In front of the Spirit Hall, Zhao Benshan, who rushed over, cried even more uncontrollably, trembling and said, "Sister, brother is late!" ”
Perhaps at this time, Zhao Benshan let go of the mustard in his heart.
Unfortunately, such misunderstandings have no chance to talk to each other.
However, Zhao Benshan at that time also promised to take good care of Li Xuan,
Now, 17 years later, has he done it?
4: Ending
In fact, Li Xuan also admitted in a later interview that it was his personal choice to go to Beijing alone after the death of his mother.
Whether it is stepfather He Qingkui, or Zhao Benshan, or even Fan Wei.
All gave themselves enough care and help.
She politely declined these, after all, the prosperous and changeable entertainment industry is really not her favorite.
These elders also respected her choice.
Therefore, after Li Xuan withdrew from the entertainment industry, many people misunderstood that Zhao Benshan had ignored his promise in vain.
In 2007, at Li Xuan's wedding, Zhao Benshan sincerely sent blessings to this niece.
Now Li Xuan also has his own son Liu Zitian.
As this son gradually grows up, a trace of Gao Xiumin's shadow can be faintly seen between his eyebrows.
And for this Liu Zitian, Zhao Benshan is also very loved.
Li Xuan also often takes her to visit this aging elder!
After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed and done it!
What do you think about this?