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"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

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He is the chivalrous and righteous "Zhen Sanjiang" in film and television dramas; is also the "Lao Ding" who was aggrieved and "married" in "Parental Love".

After working the drama stage for 8 years to enter the entertainment industry for money, Ren Shuai has starred in two high-scoring film and television dramas "Breaking into the Guandong" and "Old Peasant".

But it has always been "popular people are not popular".

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

In "Parental Love", "Lao Ding" married the plain-looking "Jiang Dehua".

In real life, Ren Shuai married an ordinary "little red flower".

When I got married, I didn't even have a matrimonial room, and I became a "son-in-law with an upside-down door".

If his wife is good to him, he will be doubly good to his wife.

Income and savings were all handed over, and only the name of his wife was written when he bought a house.

He has been debuting for more than 20 years and has zero scandals, never disclosing the information of family members to the outside world, and only seeking a safe and calm.

Serious acting, down-to-earth life, and love with his wife for more than 20 years, Ren Shuai is known as a "good man" worthy of the name...

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Adhere to ideals and compromise with reality

On May 16, 1970, Ren Shuai was born in an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province.

The northeast land has a strong literary and artistic atmosphere, and the traditional art duo and the big song have been handed down to this day, affecting every generation of northeast people.

Because he was able to sing and dance since he was a child, he is quite interested in literature and art.

Ren Shuai was admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts in 1990 to study literary performance.

After graduation, he became a drama actor in the Lanzhou Military Region Combat Repertory Troupe.

It took 8 years to grow from a trickster to a backbone of the team.

Years of training on the drama stage have laid a solid foundation for him in acting.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Young Ren Shuai

Although his acting skills have been greatly improved, Ren Shuai's work income is very small.

At first, this northeastern man was not impressed, but he turned to 29 years old.

Ren Shuai, who is obsessed with acting, is not only shy, but also clueless in terms of feelings.

"How are you working over there?" "When can I let my mother hold my grandson?"

Every time he goes home to visit his parents, his family's attention to his feelings always makes Ren Shuai, who is optimistic on the surface, feel sad in his heart.

When a man stands in his thirties, he should start a family.

But the meal has to be eaten bite by bite, and things have to be done one by one.

Only when you have money can you get married, so that you can give a small family security after marriage, and you can not let your parents worry too much.

He believes that the first priority to solve is the issue of income.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Having made up his mind, Ren Shuai immediately applied with the leader for permission to take on film and television dramas without delaying the performance in the troupe.

With years of performance experience accumulated by the troupe to enter the film and television industry, Ren Shuai quickly won the favor of many directors.

In 2000, when he went to Shanghai to film, at the opening banquet before filming, when everyone was staggering to drink and talk, a figure came into Ren Shuai's eyes.

"If you drink too much alcohol, you will drink a bottle of yogurt, which will be much more comfortable."

A girl said and handed yogurt to everyone one after another.

This action made Ren Shuai begin to notice this tall, ordinary-looking girl.

And she has been busy taking care of everyone during the meal.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Ren Shuai, who was self-reliant in everything in the field, silently looked at the gentle and sensible girl in front of him, and he had a good impression of a person after a meal.

Cherish the love you "pick up" at the table

After the dinner, he inquired with his colleagues, and he learned that the girl's name was Xiaohong, a native of Shanghai, and a part-time actress.

After getting the contact information, politely and sincerely take the initiative to contact, Ren Shuai invites the girl to eat together.

Handsome men coupled with humor can easily make a good first impression on girls.

The two single young men intersected, and then invited each other to dinner, went out to the movies, and walked in the park.

The understanding deepened back and forth, the relationship was also mapped, and the two parties determined the relationship between lovers.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

One day Ren Shuai returned to the hotel after filming and found Xiaohong sitting at the table waiting for him.

On the table, dumplings, Harbin red sausages, pot wrapped meat, chicken stewed mushrooms and other Northeast delicacies surrounded a circle.

In the middle is a cream cake.

"It turned out that it was my birthday, I forgot about it when I was busy, I mentioned it to Xiaohong once when chatting before, but I didn't expect her to remember it." Ren Shuai smiled sweetly when he recalled this paragraph.

Soon after the filming in Shanghai, Ren Shuai was going back to Lanzhou.

Xiaohong is a native of Shanghai, filming is also part-time, she still has a stable job, so she can't leave.

Seeing that the two are about to be separated from each other, I think that Ren Shuai is in the entertainment industry and has met many beautiful women.

If you are separated for a long time, will the relationship change? Xiaohong was very uneasy.

"I am a person who is very serious about feelings, I sincerely want to be with you, you wait for me."

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Soon Ren Shuai fulfilled his promise with practical actions, and he returned to Lanzhou to arrange work and inform his family.

After that, he returned to Shanghai to propose to Xiaohong.

The unexpected scene made Xiaohong's cheeks red.

Although the deer was in turmoil, she insisted on thinking about it for a few days.

Ren Shuai understood his girlfriend's concerns, and then offered to settle in Shanghai after marriage, and he was willing to be a "backwards" son-in-law.

This made Xiaohong unexpectedly moved.

But this decision impressed Xiaohong, but failed to impress her family.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

"An outsider, working in the entertainment industry, we are not at ease if you marry him. And he doesn't even have a house, what to marry you! ”

The woman's parents think that people in the entertainment industry are not steady, and the person their daughter is looking for has no economic foundation.

But Xiaohong, who identified Ren Shuai, did not back down.

"I have a house, besides, if you are unhappy when you get married, what does it have to do with the house, he just needs to be good to me!"

Xiaohong understands the difficulty of her sweetheart, although Ren Shuai has a certain amount of savings, but the pressure to buy a house in Shanghai is still not small.

She used her small house as a marriage house and married herself, but her relationship with her family became strained because she "disobeyed" her parents.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

For his lover's dedication, Ren Shuai saw it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart.

He secretly vowed to be good to his wife, to let her live a good life, and to give an explanation to his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Happiness is enough to comfort the wind

In order to get more job opportunities after marriage, Ren Shuai often took the initiative to stay on the set after filming his own scenes to assist other personnel in shooting.

His humble and hard-working personality has brought him good popularity, and the opportunities to participate in the performance have also increased.

In 2001, he starred in the role of "Jin Weidong" in the TV series "Gongjia".

met the famous actor Chen Baoguo through "The Predator is Invisible", and the two have worked together many times since then.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Ren Shuai, Niu Li stills

In 2004, he played "Wang Daling" in "Groundbreaking".

In 2006, he participated in the recording of the biographical TV series "Zhaojun Out of the Plug" with Hong Kong actors Law Jialiang and Li Caihua.

After years of silent hard work in the film and television industry, Ren Shuai finally ushered in a small peak in his career.

In 2007, he received invitations for three films "Red Snow of the Anti-United Expendables", "Ming Palace Mystery Case" and "Kanto Fisher King" in one breath.

It was also from this year that Ren Shuai changed from filming a play in the past one or two years to having new dramas filmed every year.

But I don't know what's going on, some dramas are not hot, and some dramas are not burning people or fire.

There are many works filmed, but they do not leave an image in the eyes of the audience.

Fortunately, Ren Shuai's income is several times more than before, and it can be regarded as a gain.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Ren Shuai "The Legend of the Blood Martial Arts Team" plays Gao Fengliang

In these years, in order to take care of both career and family, Ren Shuai will rush back to Shanghai wherever he films, as long as he has a holiday.

Even if he sometimes has to stay at home for one night and walk the next day, he is not tired of running.

"I often don't come home, and my wife feels lonely and misses her. Others think I'm too tired to run back and forth, but I don't think that happiness is enough to comfort the wind. ”

In addition to finding time to go home to visit, Ren Shuai also took the initiative to hand over all the income from his labor.

"Every time I get paid, I call my wife as soon as possible, and then she will divide the money, save some, give some to my parents, supplement the family... I never asked, and she never messed around. ”

At work, Ren Shuai loves himself and tries to avoid taking on emotional scenes.

I have never had an affair with any female star for many years since my debut.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

The son-in-law attaches great importance to his daughter, in fact, Xiaohong's parents have always seen it in their eyes.

It's just that they had unpleasant trouble with each other before marriage, and Ren Shuai has been taking the initiative to visit over the years and try to ease the relationship between the two parties.

After saving enough money to discuss with his wife to buy a larger house in Shanghai, Ren Shuai took his wife's documents and left only his wife's name on the real estate deed.

"That day he bought a bunch of things and dragged me back to meet my parents. As soon as I walked in the door, I handed over the title deed to my parents, and said that he would definitely take care of me..."

Xiaohong's face was full of happiness when she recalled this past.

It was also after that that the relationship between Ren Shuai and his father-in-law and mother-in-law really developed in a good direction.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Moving the family east is also for love

In 2007, the 37-year-old Ren Shuai's career and family were happy.

In terms of career, through the recommendation of the famous actor Chen Baoguo, he got the opportunity to participate in the TV series "Breaking the Guandong".

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

With the chivalrous and righteous "Zhen Sanjiang" mixed with the audience with a "familiar face"

In terms of family, Xiaohong is pregnant, and the sweet little couple is about to welcome a new family member.

Just watching his wife's belly getting bigger and bigger day by day, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law who are not in good health.

Ren Shuai thought about it and called his parents, and then made a decision.

"Or you quit your job and follow me to Harbin to raise a baby, my parents are in better health, they are willing to take care of you, and they can take care of the children in the future."

Listening to her husband's words, Xiaohong was moved but also felt guilty.

In recent years, he has been with his parents, but his husband has been separated from his parents for a long time.

In the early years, I did not take care of them by the side of my in-laws, but now I want them to take care of myself.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

After knowing his wife's thoughts, Ren Shuai directly followed his parents in Harbin and made another call.

The old couple greeted Xiaohong over very warmly, saying things that they didn't feel hard at all.

The pregnant woman on the other end of the phone was moved to tears and immediately agreed to go to Harbin.

I thought it would take a while to adapt to the new environment, and there would be a small friction if I didn't live with my in-laws for a long time.

It's just that the psychological preparations made along the way are useless, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law have a bold and generous character of northeasterners.

They did not blame themselves for "tying" Ren Shuai for many years, but felt sorry for her for giving up her job, leaving her parents, and leaving the environment where she had lived for many years.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Daughters-in-law are not allowed to do housework.

Three meals a day with Korean ginseng stewed pigeon, black chicken tonic soup, chicken stewed with mushrooms, and duck soup in turn.

The in-laws' kindness made Xiaohong hug Ren Shuai and cry several times.

He quickly integrated into the warm family atmosphere and quickly became closer to his in-laws.

In July 2008, Xiaohong successfully gave birth to her son "Youyou".

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Who says family and career can't be both?

The harmony of the family made Ren Shuai, who was a new father, smile and blossom.

In order to make his family's life more secure, he still travels back and forth between the shooting location and his family.

From the "Gushuo Gu Sanye" in "Life and Death Line", who has feelings and righteousness but is doomed to tragedy, to the people's soldier "Zhou Ming" who silently dedicates himself without seeking merit and fame in "All the Way Kelsang Flower".

And then to the waste king "Zhao Guanqiu" in "Wenzhou Family"...

Years of hard work have steadily increased Ren Shuai's reputation in the circle.

Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared.

In 2014, he made the audience remember his face by interpreting "Lao Ding" in "Parental Love".

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

After striking while the iron was hot, he cooperated with Chen Guobao again and brought the patriotic TV series "Old Peasant".

starred in "Son-in-law" with the popular comedy actor "Guo Qilin".

and excellent young actor "Guo Jingfei" performed "I Am Yu Huanshui"...

The 52-year-old Ren Shuai has been in the film for many years and has been tepid.

Obviously, he has filmed a lot of high-rated dramas, but he has always been "popular and not popular".

Looking at the "Yan Ni" and "Jin Dong" who had cooperated with each of the big hits, he did not feel lost.

In his eyes, red is not red, fire is not hot is not important, interpreting every role well, worthy of the word "actor" is enough.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Accompany his wife and children during the break, and go to Shanghai for the family during the summer vacation, taking his father-in-law and mother-in-law to the Oriental Pearl to see the night scene.

After the winter vacation, I picked up my father-in-law and mother-in-law and admired the ice sculptures in Harbin, and my little life was very comfortable.

Not neglecting the care of his family for work, Ren Shuai has done a good job in this regard.

Whether it is to accompany his wife all year round, or to let his wife and children be better taken care of and move the family.

Although many people say that Ren Shuai's wife is not good-looking, it does not affect his favor for his wife in the slightest.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Keep your wife in your heart and family in the palm of your hand.

In 2022, Ren Shuai will have several films released one after another.

The names of the films "Boiling Life", "Proof" and "Blood Oath".

It seems to be telling Ren Shuai's past, and he is using his life to prove the vow he once made to Xiaohong.

"Lao Ding" Ren Shuai: In reality, he married "Dehua", and he has been in love for 21 years without scandal and is happy

Stills from "Proof"

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