There is a female star, in just 5 years, has given birth to 4 children, and she is still like a foreigner, not confinement.
She is Chen Haomin's wife, Jiang Lisha.
Lisa Jiang's "First Half of Life"
Jiang Lisha was born in Changsha, Hunan Province, and she has been a slender girl with long legs and tall legs since she was a child, but Jiang Lisha prefers to sweat on the basketball court than to be an elegant and quiet beautiful woman.
Jiang Lisha's cousin is a professional basketball player Sui Feifei, under the influence of her cousin, Jiang Lisha also likes the sport of basketball.
In the first year of junior high school, Jiang Lisha was a well-known local basketball player, and she once represented Hunan Province many times as an athlete to participate in national youth basketball competitions, and the results were not bad.
For basketball, Jiang Lisha insisted on a full 6 years, and when she was in her second year of high school, she did not give up basketball for the increasingly heavy schoolwork, but won the title of "national first-class athlete".
However, in the route of Jiang Lisha's growth, at the age of 14, one thing happened.
An agent who claimed to be a modeling agency came to the door hoping to sign a contract with Jiang Lisha.
But at that time, Jiang Lisha was too young, and Jiang Lisha's father felt that his daughter at this age should focus on learning and wanted her to study well, so he refused the model agent.
In the days that followed, Jiang Lisha sometimes remembered the agent she met when she was 14 years old, and being a model sounded quite interesting.
In 2003, an opportunity came, when Hunan Province was about to hold the first New Silk Road Model Contest, and after consulting with her family, 18-year-old Jiang Lisha bravely reported her name.
At that time, Jiang Lisha absolutely did not think that this decision would change her life, and later she smiled and said: "I just wanted to try it back then." ”
Unexpectedly, Jiang Lisha was really good.
She had been suffering since she was a child, and during the months she had to practice for seven or eight hours a day, but she never cried out a word of exhaustion.
Soon, she went all the way from the preliminary round to the final, and even to the finals, and in the end, Jiang Lisha could not imagine that she would actually win the third place in one fell swoop.
After winning the third place in the model competition, Jiang Lisha was given the opportunity to be sent to Beijing Fashion Institute, after entering the university, she was busy with her studies while developing her own modeling career, in just a few years, the industry knew that there was a model named Jiang Lisha, who was in the limelight.
She was not only regarded by big brands as a spokesperson, but also won various awards in the Miss Global Bikini Contest, when the young Jiang Lisha's career had climbed to a peak that was difficult for others to reach.
However, the watershed that belonged to her life soon came, before she was the well-known model Jiang Lisha, and later, she was the wife of actor Chen Haomin.
His career is at the peak, but he chooses to marry a man who is 16 years older than himself
Jiang Lisha graduated from Beijing Institute of Fashion with excellent results, and she did not hesitate to choose to continue her studies in the face of career and studies.
She went to Italy alone and continued her studies in fashion design at a century-old Italian school.
Whenever Jiang Lisha recalls her days in Italy, she will smile and say: "If I hadn't met Chen Haomin, maybe I would have stayed in Italy for the rest of my life, and I like Italy very much." ”
In 2010, Lisa Jiang successfully graduated from graduate school, she had a dream job, and she also had the status of permanent residence in Italy.
In June of the same year, Jiang Lisha returned to China for a vacation, and it was at this time that she met Chen Haomin, the object of her life that she would work with in the future.
Compared with Jiang Lisha, Hong Kong actor Chen Haomin is more well-known, and the Duan Yu he played in "Tianlong Eight Parts" is the childhood male god of many movie fans, and after that, he relied on Nezha in "Fengshen List" to once again fire across the strait.
It is said that the encounter between Chen Haomin and Jiang Lisha was because Chen Haomin was filming "Living Buddha Jigong", when Jiang Lisha was invited by a friend to visit the class, and on the shooting set, she met Chen Haomin.
At that time, Jiang Lisha was only 25 years old, but Chen Haomin was a full 16 years older than her.
On the set, the two talked happily, and Jiang Lisha felt that Chen Haomin was really an "immortal male god", both in his forties and so handsome; Chen Haomin felt that Jiang Lisha was too beautiful, especially her tall and slender figure, which simply hooked his heart.
In this way, under the guidance of friends, they changed from ordinary friends to lovers, and Jiang Lisha, who fell in love, trusted and relied on Chen Haomin wholeheartedly, ignoring the peach-colored news that Chen Haomin made in the early years, and sometimes friends and family came to persuade her, and she would be reprimanded.
Soon, after the end of her vacation in China, Jiang Lisha returned to Italy, and she still remembered the day she left, she looked at Chen Haomin reluctantly, and Chen Haomin promised to wait for her to return.
Italy and China have a time difference of more than 6 hours, often Jiang Lisha just woke up, Chen Haomin will go to sleep; Either Chen Haomin starts work and Jiang Lisha has to rest.
The time difference between the two countries made Jiang Lisha suffer from missing each other, and the cost of frequent cross-border calls was also very high, and over time, Jiang Lisha suddenly had the idea of returning to China.
At this moment, Chen Haomin's words suddenly woke her up.
Chen Haomin said to Jiang Lisha: "You come back, after you come back, we will get married, and then you stay by my side, and we will never be separated again." ”
With Chen Haomin's words, Jiang Lisha resolutely and resolutely gave up the career she had worked hard in Italy, took the fastest flight back to China, and threw herself into Chen Haomin's arms without hesitation.
In 2011, Jiang Lisha solemnly said to her parents: "I have decided to marry Chen Haomin. ”
Father Jiang and Mother Jiang, who suddenly learned of this news, felt very absurd and incomprehensible, and from the moment they learned that their daughter and Chen Haomin were in love, the husband and wife had always held opposing views, but Jiang Lisha had been a very assertive character since she was a child, and she decided that the good thing was that ten cows could not be pulled back.
One of the reasons for the opposition is that Chen Haomin's age is too old, and he is a person in the entertainment industry, and there are many lace scandals on his body in his early years, so that his daughter who is as simple as a blank piece of paper is with such a personality, which is difficult for Father Jiang and Mother Jiang to accept as a parent.
As for another reason, Jiang's father and mother hope that Jiang Lisha can marry an ordinary person, preferably a civil servant, down-to-earth and stable, and will definitely be able to live a good life in the future.
In fact, Jiang Lisha's parents have long been looking for a candidate for marriage for her, the other party is a child who grew up in the same organ compound, the two families know the roots, and they will certainly not let Jiang Lisha be wronged in the future.
But in the face of her family's kindness, Jiang Lisha shook her head and firmly refused: "I love him, I don't want to miss him." ”
Most importantly, at this time, Jiang Lisha was already pregnant.
In the end, Jiang's father and mother were still defeated in Jiang Lisha's persistence, and in July 2011, Chen Haomin came to Changsha, Hunan Province, and completed the marriage registration with Jiang Lisha.
Chen Haomin and Jiang Lisha's marriage was very hasty, and there was not even time to hold a huge wedding, and within a few months, Jiang Lisha gave birth to her and Chen Haomin's first child.
Originally, Lisa's expected date of delivery was December 12 at the end of the year, but because the child's condition was very bad, the doctor proposed to have a caesarean section as soon as possible.
After discussion, Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin decided to set the date of the caesarean section on November 30, because this day was Jiang Lisha's birthday.
On the day of Jiang Lisha's 26th birthday, she brought a small life to the world, facing a soft and lovely daughter, Chen Haomin named her "Ya Xue", hoping that her future daughter can grow into a girl who knows how to read.
5 years of crazy birth of 4 children, confinement does not sit
Jiang Lisha, who has just given birth to a daughter, can't wait to restore her tight and beautiful figure before pregnancy, and then return to her modeling career, but looking at her newborn little daughter, Chen Haomin advised her: "I can make money alone at home, you can take care of the child at home, can you?" ”
Jiang Lisha was not very agreeable at first, she felt that women must have their own careers, otherwise this life will be in vain.
However, Chen Haomin is right in saying that her daughter is still so young, how can she leave her parents?
Jiang Lisha looked at the swaddled little girl and finally couldn't bear to leave her.
In this way, Jiang Lisha gave up her rising career and chose to be a stay-at-home mother to take good care of her daughter at home.
However, one daughter is not enough, for Chen Haomin, it is best to "have both children and daughters".
On May 28, 2013, some media broke the news that Chen Haomin took Jiang Lisha to buy a luxury villa in Xishan, Hong Kong, which is said to be worth up to 60 million yuan, and was bought in preparation for the second child.
That's right, Jiang Lisha, who had just given birth to a baby less than a year ago, was pregnant again.
Because the first birth was a caesarean section, and the recovery time was too short, Jiang Lisha could not give birth naturally, so her second child also came to this world through caesarean section.
On September 23, 2013, Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin's second child was born, this time, it was Chen Haomin who had been looking forward to it for a whole year.
Having given birth to two children in a row in just three years, and having put together a pair of "good" words, it is reasonable to say that Jiang Lisha can take the children wholeheartedly.
I don't know why, around February 2014, Jiang Lisha became pregnant again.
This is her third pregnancy, and less than half a year has passed since her last caesarean section.
In half a year, there was not enough physical recovery, Jiang Lisha did not even have time to sit in the confinement, to this, she joked to herself: "I am like a foreign woman, after giving birth to a child for two hours, I can step on high heels to work." ”
For Chen Haomin and Jiang Lisha's third child, fans said that it was a bit "rushed", although Chen Haomin was 16 years older than Jiang Lisha, but now Jiang Lisha is the golden age of childbearing, not afraid of not being able to give birth to a child in the future, why should she have three children in such a short period of time?
After all, everyone is not Jiang Lisha herself, and there is no way to know her real thoughts, only that on December 12, 2013, Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin's third child was born.
Unexpectedly, in 2015, Chen Haomin told the media at the publicity meeting of "Living Buddha Jigong" that Jiang Lisha was pregnant with their fourth child, and probably by next summer, Chen Haomin would be a father for four times.
On March 30, 2016, their fourth child was born, a little girl.
As soon as this news came out, many people were stunned, according to the time, Jiang Lisha gave birth to 4 children in 5 years for Chen Haomin.
Moreover, these 4 children, every time and again in the form of caesarean section to come to this world, Jiang Lisha frankly said that in fact, it is not that she wants to learn the foreigner's set of no confinement, but that she really does not have time to confine.
Chen Haomin is working outside the theater, Jiang Lisha is at home with children, although with the help of a nanny, but for Jiang Lisa, she is personally more inclined to take children herself.
A person with 4 children, the pressure can be imagined; Moreover, in addition to taking care of her children, Jiang Lisha also has to take care of her parents and Chen Haomin's parents.
Over the years, in the face of external rumors, Jiang Lisha has never complained, she perfectly played the role of wife, mother, daughter and daughter-in-law, looking at such a hard-working wife, Chen Haomin sighed: "Lisa is the woman I admire most, she is like a superwoman." ”
Super Life for 4-born mothers
In the face of Jiang Lisha, who forcibly delivered 4 children by caesarean section in 5 years, regardless of her body, the Hong Kong media "joked" that Jiang Lisha wanted to tie Chen Haomin with her child.
Later, these news reached Jiang Lisha's ears, and instead of getting angry, Jiang Lisha smiled and said: "In fact, they are right, we have 4 children, and we can definitely tie up my husband." Moreover, what woman in this world besides me would be willing to take such a big plate? ”
As for giving birth to 4 children in 5 years, Jiang Lisha explained: "I became a basketball player at a very young age, and later became a model. Even when I was pregnant, I didn't stop working out, so my body was very good and very anti-work. ”
Talking about the saying of "superwoman", Jiang Lisha has a lot of experience, she said: "In fact, every time I have a child, I don't sit on confinement. On the one hand, I was in good physical fitness, on the other hand, the person who took care of me at that time was my mother, but my mother did not speak Cantonese or English, so she could not help a lot of help, and I could only rely on myself. ”
After giving birth to the child, Jiang Lisha did not feel relaxed, Chen Haomin was filming outside for a long time, and the big things and small things in the family had to rely on Jiang Lisha.
Jiang Lisha said: "After I give birth, the child must go to the household registration, apply for a birth certificate, and I am alone before and after running. I rarely get sick, though, and I think it's all thanks to my years as an athlete. ”
As the father of the child, Chen Haomin is often too busy to go home, resulting in him unconditionally indulging and spoiling the four children as soon as he has the opportunity to get along with the children.
For this reason, Jiang Lisha did not have a dispute with Chen Haomin.
Once, 4 children were clamoring for ice cream before dinner, and if only Jiang Lisha was present, they would never let the children eat snacks before dinner.
But Chen Haomin is different, Chen Haomin not only has to take ice cream for the children to eat, but also "be the big brother" himself and take the lead in following them to eat.
Seeing this scene, Jiang Lisha couldn't cry and laugh, there was no way, she had to go by them.
Four children in the family, Jiang Lisha has educated the children very well, for example, when several children want to compete for a toy, Jiang Lisha will give them regulations, how many minutes a person plays, the end will give the toy to her younger siblings, she has cultivated the children's sense of independence and autonomy since she was a child, and when several children in the family are more than one year old, they can eat on their own.
Taking care of four children is not a simple matter, but Jiang Lisha remembers that when she was about to give birth to her fourth child, her 5-year-old eldest daughter immediately cried when she saw her mother being pushed into the delivery room.
After more than two hours of surgery, the eldest daughter did not go anywhere, she stood in front of the ward with her eyes, and refused to let her go to eat something, until her mother came out safely, and the eldest daughter was relieved.
Whenever she thinks of this scene, Jiang Lisha will feel that everything is worth it.
As for Chen Haomin, as long as he has time, he will return home to accompany his wife and children, he once said: "It is said that as a brother, you can insert a knife in both ribs, but my wife has 4 knives for me in 5 years, and being able to marry Lisa is a blessing that I cultivated in my previous life." ”
Although Chen Haomin shows that he loves Jiang Lisha, there are still many people who cannot understand why they have to fight for 4 births in 5 years.
Whenever talking about this issue, Chen Haomin has his own statement: "The Hong Kong government has called on us, it is best to have 5 children, I am just responding to the government's call!" ”
When he said these words, Jiang Lisha smiled and said, "Actually, I already have 5 children, because he is the fifth!" ”
Although the outside world has always been quite controversial about this "old husband and young wife", some media will directly ask Jiang Lisha: "Your husband often shoots outside, don't you worry about what happens to him and the young and beautiful actress?" ”
Jiang Lisha shook her head and said, "How is that possible?" My husband is very smart, and besides, I am also young and beautiful. ”
As the pillar of the family, Chen Haomin has been very busy in recent years, after all, he has to take care of his four children, so naturally he has to shoot more.
From 2021 to 2022, Chen Haomin will have five films released, and as children grow up, Chen Haomin will appear in the audience's field of vision very frequently in the future.
Jiang Lisha's recent situation is lamentable, but she said "happiness is good"
Jiang Lisha in 2022 is 37 years old, and Chen Haomin is 54 years old.
Many people see Jiang Lisha's recent photos, and they will think that she is no longer young, and the beautiful model champion of that year is now married, but she has become a "fertility machine".
Everyone will get old, and Jiang Lisha is no exception, after all, she is 37 years old and 27 years old, and aging is also a normal thing.
At the beginning of 2022, Jiang Lisha posted a photo of four generations in the same house, in which Jiang Lisha's daughter kissed her gray-haired grandmother's face affectionately, Jiang Lisha's parents and Chen Haomin's parents sat together, and the four children sat in front, and the family was happy.
Although she has become a wife, but Jiang Lisha will still take some photo work, when the weather is good, she will take four children out to go out to the green, several children from high to short, jumping and jumping, so unhappy.
March 30, 2022, is the birthday of the youngest girl, "Ya Ya", and the six-year-old girl has come out of the sky, holding a cake and wearing a crown, looking like a little princess.
Forced to stay at home these days, Jiang Lisha is obsessed with following Liu Ruihong to learn to jump jobs, and she not only has to jump herself, but also pull Chen Haomin to jump with her, if the children end learning, Jiang Lisha will make a video call to her friends, and then take the children to dance together.
On July 11, 2022, the 11th anniversary of Jiang Lisha's marriage to Chen Haomin, Jiang Lisha posted a photo on her social platform.
In Jiang Lisha's comment area, some netizens even sighed: "Did this woman really produce 4 children by caesarean section?" How come there are no wounds and stretch marks at all, is she a leprechaun? ”
In this regard, Jiang Lisha has long explained that in the years when she was a basketball player, she trained her body very well, and she was married for so long, she did not forget fitness and sports, which is the secret of her figure to maintain so good.
In fact, for so many years, some people have been looking for Jiang Lisha to shoot a scene, but Jiang Lisha has rejected them on the grounds of taking care of her children.
Although it is important to take care of the children, for her, her identity is not just a wife, or a mother.
"A woman's most important identity must be herself." Jiang Lisha said.
Lisa Jiang will invest in some movies that she thinks are still good, and will also develop shampoos; A few years ago, he and Chen Xiaochun cooperated to open a restaurant in Hong Kong, and it is said that the business is still good.
Until now, there are still many people who are not optimistic about the marriage of Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin, but Jiang Lisha does not care at all, and every time she is asked, she does not regret giving up her life in Italy, and Jiang Lisha laughs and says: "I think I am very happy now, this is the dream life." ”
Source:
The Incredible Jiang Lisha Tian Xiangyu, "Marriage and Family: Marriage Emotion Edition", No. 1, 2018, 18-20, a total of 3 pages