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Preface
There are countless loving couples in the entertainment industry, and one couple that netizens pay attention to is Chen Haomin and his wife Jiang Lisha.
The focus of netizens is not the love story of the husband and wife. It is the story of an inspirational woman in Jiang Lisha.
She has given birth to four children in five years, and the most important thing is that she never has confinement! She is 16 years younger than Chen Haomin, but the husband and wife stand together and look older than their husbands......
Use your wife as a shield!
In 2011, 19-year-old Jiang Lisha met and fell in love with star Chen Haomin, and the two soon became unexpectedly pregnant.
The young lovers were not ready for a new life, let alone the great trials that followed.
At the beginning of Jiang Lisha's pregnancy, Chen Haomin was hit by public opinion for allegedly sexually harassing 18-year-old actress Chen Jiaheng at a drinking party.
At the drinking party where the scandal occurred, a drunken Chen Haomin tried to forcibly kiss Chen Jiaheng and molested her body, but she pushed her away in a panic and refused to give up.
After a brutal video leaked, Chan's reputation was severely damaged. Many bigwigs in the entertainment industry, such as Liang Jiahui, Wang Jing and others, stood up to support her and scolded Chen Haomin for being "wolf-hearted and dog-hearted".
Chen's career has also been hit hard by this, and he urgently needs to revive his reputation.
When he was in a dilemma between defending his career and his wife and children, Chen Haomin actually forced Jiang Lisha, who was 8 months pregnant, to accompany him to hold a press conference, crying and begging for forgiveness from public opinion.
"My wife is about to give birth, and if I fall, a family of three will suffer!" This was met with rebuke from the masses, many accusing him of being selfish and irresponsible.
However, Jiang Lisha, who was under great pressure in the state of pregnancy, still supported her husband without hesitation, believing that her efforts could be exchanged for her husband's repentance.
With red tears in her eyes, she begged the public to give Chen Haomin a chance, causing an uproar. Many reporters were also moved by her and did not continue to ask Chen Haomin's embarrassing questions.
This finally saved Chen Haomin's acting career from collapse, but Jiang Lisha paid a heavy price for it.
However, his family is obviously not as important as his career in Chen Haomin's heart. A month later, Jiang Lisha gave birth to her daughter Chen Yaxu, but Chen Haomin brought up the old matter again, and he was involved in scandals.
Instead of learning from the lessons, he intensified his efforts to get in and out of pairs. In the following years, he used his wife as a fertility machine and forced Jiang Lisha to give birth every year.
In 5 years, Jiang Lisha gave birth to a total of 4 children by caesarean section, physically and mentally exhausted, but still did not hesitate.
What's even more infuriating is that Chen Haomin publicly commented that Jiang Lisha "is a very capable person", as if she was a tool for giving birth to children.
His selfish behavior has once again drawn condemnation from the outside world, but Jiang Lisha still believes that he will come to his senses.
She would rather endure criticism from the outside world than protect this crumbling home, which shows her infinite loyalty to her family. This unreserved love and dedication moved everyone.
5 years and 4 children have never been confined!
Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin gave birth to four children, which attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens. The two met and fell in love abroad, and Jiang Lisha gave up her original studies for Chen Haomin.
After the two got married, Chen Haomin unilaterally thought that a woman should teach her husband and children at home, not to mention that Jiang Lisha did not earn as much as him, so he wanted her to give up her career.
On the one hand, it is his own children, and on the other hand, he is passionate about the cause. After thinking for a while, Jiang Lisha still chose to take care of the children at home.
At the end of their marriage, Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin's eldest daughter was born, and people offered their blessings. In 2013, Jiang Lisha gave birth to a boy, the mother and child were safe, and people offered their blessings one after another.
At this time, some netizens said that now that they have both children and daughters, will they have children again in the future? At the end of 2014, Jiang Lisha gave birth to another baby girl.
In the blink of an eye in 2015, Chen Haomin happily told everyone at the press conference of the new drama that he would be a father again next year. At the end of March 2016, Jiang Lisha had surgery again, and their fourth child was born.
After five years of hard work in preparing for pregnancy and giving birth, Jiang Lisha suffered a lot of stress and difficulties, especially the physical and mental exhaustion caused by frequent surgeries and long recovery periods.
The birth of these four children made Jiang Lisha put down her career and concentrate on production, and there was basically no gap.
In an interview, Jiang Lisha meant something, she said that in Chen Haomin's opinion, she has nothing to worry about, she doesn't have to work, she has no worries about food and clothing, and she lives happily.
During this period, Chen Haomin has been accompanying Jiang Lisha and trying his best to help and support, but he has also been exposed to various irresponsible behaviors, which made some fans express disappointment and disgust towards him.
Despite this, Jiang Lisha still firmly chooses love and family, and interprets the greatness and tenacity of motherhood in her own way.
At the same time, she also hopes to have more opportunities to show herself and develop her career, so as to achieve her own growth and determination to pursue her dreams.
No matter what challenges and difficulties she encounters in the future, Jiang Lisha will stick to her beliefs and continue to move forward. In the years that followed, she showed extraordinary perseverance in the process of giving birth.
After 4 caesarean sections, her health is worrying. But she quickly returned to work, faced all kinds of doubts, and remained optimistic and supported her husband.
We see a mother's heartfelt love and devotion. There is no such thing as a perfect life, and choices should not bind you forever.
She used to be excellent!
Jiang Lisha, who has shown amazing basketball talent since she was a child, could have become the future star of Chinese women's basketball.
However, at the age of 14, an invitation from a modeling agency changed the course of her life.
In 2002, at the age of 17, Jiang Lisha won the championship in the New Silk Road China Model Competition.
With her delicate facial features, slender figure and good posture honed from the basketball court, she quickly became a standout among the new catwalk talents.
After stepping on the runway, Jiang Lisha was not as nervous and restrained as other rookie models. The concentration and ability to withstand pressure that she has experienced on the basketball court since she was a child allows her to complete every show with composure.
Since then, she has gradually emerged, becoming the spokesperson of many well-known brands, and has also appeared on the runways of international shows in South Korea, France, Italy and other countries.
For a while, the outside world was full of expectations for her future development prospects. In order to further improve herself and take more opportunities for high-end fashion shows, Jiang Lisha deliberately chose to study fashion design Xi.
During her Xi at Beijing Institute of Fashion Technology and the Ecole Supérieure de Design in France, she studied Xi diligently while accumulating catwalk experience. Many in the industry are optimistic about her potential to become a top supermodel.
Just when her career was in full swing, Jiang Lisha met the popular film and television actor Chen Haomin at a gathering of friends. The two fell in love at first sight and quickly confirmed their relationship.
In order to follow Chen Haomin, Jiang Lisha resolutely decided to give up everything she had accumulated in the entertainment industry. Over the years, she faded out of the public eye and lived an ordinary life as a housewife.
Taking care of her husband and children became her whole life. Although her dream of excellent basketball has come to naught, she has no regrets about her decision to pursue love.
Netizens all felt deeply pity: "At the age of flowers, he looks older than his husband now!"
She seems to have found a life that suits her better than a stage career.
epilogue
Jiang Lisha's life is full of choices, and she has made sacrifices for her family, but whether these choices are correct or not, history is difficult to judge.
Do you think female friends should give up their jobs after getting married and having children?