The troubled life of the young woman Jiang Lisha
In 2011, a 25-year-old woman of Chinese descent was in a hurry on the streets of Italy. Hidden beneath her clear countenance was an unspeakable concern, and she walked forward with difficulty.
The woman's name is Jiang Lisha, who was originally a basketball player and later worked as a model. A year ago, she met and fell in love with a Hong Kong actor in his 40s and registered as husband and wife.
At that time, Chen Haomin made a promise to his wife to stay forever, which made her feel happy and needed.
However, the good times did not last long, Chen Haomin began to wander around scandals, and was photographed having ambiguous affairs with other female stars. The young and beautiful Jiang Lisha was greatly hurt, and she did not understand the reason for the fleeting nature of this vow.
Even if her heart is like a knife, she still gave birth to 4 children for Chen Haomin in five years, and she has never rested well.
Having conceived and giving birth many times has caused her youthful youth to shine in the pre-pregnancy and lactation. Her pale face was covered with vicissitudes of life, and she was more than ten years older than her actual age.
The price of this life has caused the girl who should have been riding the wind and waves to suffer great physical and mental damage.
With helpless and heartbroken eyes, she stared at the bustling and noisy foreign streets at her feet. The giant wheel of fate was mercilessly crushed, and she only hoped that someone could hear her inner cry at the moment.
The mid-life crisis of successful actor Chen Haomin
On this day, Chen Haomin sat alone in the office, looking irritated and browsing the dense comments on the computer. Over the years, he has become Xi to the vanity fair of the entertainment industry, but his popularity and reserved scripts went downhill without warning when he was in his 40s.
He recalled the most glorious years, when he starred in film and television works such as "Dragon Babu" and "Journey to the West", which were deeply loved by the audience. At that time, he had gained fame and fortune, and his career was at the peak, as if the whole world was his.
Now all this has become an unforgettable beauty, replaced by the studio's cautious rejection and the disappointed and sarcastic gaze of the audience.
While Chen Haomin was worried about his bleak career prospects, his private life also became chaotic this year. His four children are still young, but he has been repeatedly photographed with ambiguous lace news with actresses.
This has made the already declining popularity even worse, and the broad drama path has become narrower and narrower.
The wife, who could have relied on him, is now financially independent and refuses to have any more children. Chen Haomin realized that he had officially entered middle age, and he didn't know what would happen to him.
The Internet celebrity era spawned a narrow escape from death
Jiang Lisha stood alone in front of the camera, sorted out her clothes and makeup, and pressed the button for the live broadcast. "Hello everyone, I'm Jiang Lisha, and the skin care product I recommend to you today is ......" Before the words fell, a large number of comments poured into the barrage.
She was busy taking orders, and a relieved smile appeared on the corner of her mouth.
Once upon a time, she would also wronged herself under the aura of her husband, and the double pain of physical and psychological almost crushed her. However, when the Internet celebrity economy and e-commerce are on the rise, Jiang Lisha keenly captures the business opportunities.
With her star resource advantages, she succeeded in the live streaming industry in one fell swoop and gained a second life.
With her own career and financial resources, she regained the power to be herself. She began to face the camera generously and vigorously, sharing goods, talking eloquently, and winning the love of the audience.
The praise in the barrage is like a clear spring, nourishing her long-dried soul.
She no longer needs to live under his aura by clinging to her husband, nor does she need to be aggrieved and tolerate what he does. The success of her career has given her financial independence, and she has regained control of her own destiny.
Chen Haomin looked at the barrage and praise that his wife quickly swiped the screen during the live broadcast, and his face was ugly. He began to realize that this woman, who had once been obedient to him, had found new coordinates in the world he was familiar with or unfamiliar.
And his own life is in the process of waiting for a restart.
Wake up to the awakening of women's self-consciousness
We often say that women are the masters of their own destiny, do they really have the power and space to control their own lives?
Taking Jiang Lisha's early life as an example, she paid a huge amount of family labor, gave birth to four children in a row but never stopped resting, and suffered the harm of her husband's infidelity.
Being a mother and wife encompasses her as almost an individual, and she is forced to forget her own needs and become an accessory to the family.
In such an environment, it is easy for women to identify with the value of "born for family" and think that they should not pursue too much. No matter how unwilling they are in their hearts, many people will still be aggrieved and compromised, and will be at the mercy of their husbands or families.
This is a sign of a denial of self-awareness.
Jiang Lisha later regained her career as an Internet celebrity, just like a microcosm of women re-establishing themselves. When she no longer relied on her husband and lived on her own abilities, her fate was radically reversed.
This marks her escape from the fate that has been defined and she truly takes back the initiative.
Women must first learn to live for themselves and look at the world from the position of the main body of life. We shouldn't just be the actors or executors of certain roles, and our voices deserve to be heard.
Jiang Lisha's transformation is the embodiment of this self-awakening.