Recently, I looked at the Three Kingdoms again, and the third time, I feel that there are still many things that I have not seen through, and every time I will have a new experience. If you can cross, you really want to be Cao Chao and be a traitor with the world in mind. If you can't, zhao yun, who can be a high-execution workplace person, can also not worry about where there is no food to eat. With a lifetime of ability can be arbitrarily jumped, promotion and salary increase is not a dream.
But what I admire most is the wise man, except for Zhuge Liang, who is strategic and profound, it is not Wu Guo Lusu who can compete with him. In order to assist the boss Sun Quan to achieve great things, in order to balance the relationship between Zhou Yu and Zhuge Liang, two geniuses, he can be described as a great hero. He seems to be harmless, but he is extremely sophisticated, and he is very much in line with the word "wise and foolish".
The boss Sun Quan almost obeyed his words and was very trusting. When encountering any problem, he can wait until it is resolved, and he can also correct the boss's "wrong" thinking in time, and strongly persuade him to follow his own suggestions to carry out the work. It's all watertight, just right!
One of them is the most impressive, showing the high emotional intelligence communication method in the workplace.
Faced with the choice of "helping Cao Lian Liu", the boss Sun Quan held a high-level meeting, and the discussion on the scene was very fierce, but Lu Su did not say a word. Most people advised the boss to unite with Cao Cao, and later to ensure a long-term stable career in Jiangdong. At present, Liu Bei is too weak and small, and it is difficult to become a climate. But Lu Su just listened at the scene and did not express any of his own views. Because he had seen that the boss was angry, and his face was very ugly, it was obvious that he did not agree with the advice of the ministers.
Therefore, at this time, the boss is confused, but he cannot veto it on the spot. If he expressed his opposition at this time and supported Liu Kangcao, he would inevitably be attacked by many ministers. And with the strength of one person, it is difficult to compete with them. Moreover, at this time, most of the company's executives, Governor Zhou Yu, had not yet rushed back, so this matter could not be rushed.
At this time, the boss Sun Quan also looked at Lu Su, and Lu Su also returned a look to him, expressing that the meaning was clear. So the boss Sun Quan immediately reassured the minister, saying that when the governor returned to discuss the final decision, I would consider your suggestions carefully. When the meeting was over, Lu Su waited for the boss Sun Quan's questioning and expressed his true views in detail.
1, leaders, just now those who advised you to lower the groove, in fact, are thinking about themselves. Because they are afraid that after joining forces with Liu to resist Cao Cao, they will suffer Cao Cao's retaliation and lose their lives, which is actually delaying your big thing! The key is whether to fight or fall, and in the end it is up to you to decide. However, what I need to tell the leader is that I can be an official and a good professional manager wherever I go. But you're different. You are the head of state, your emperor, how can you condescend to be a vassal of others? Give up your country to someone else?
2. If we unite Liu Bei Company and Cao Cao in a big war, with both of us having our own strengths, as well as excellent generals (professional managers), as well as the strong support of the broad masses of the people, and the unique geographical advantage of the Yangtze River, why worry about him Cao Cao? Our chances of winning will be greater, and we can also have a longer-term plan!
Such an analysis, the boss Sun Quan is at ease, and finally there is a person who thinks about the problem from the perspective of the boss and the company. It is worthy of Lu Su, it is not the same, our company needs such talents.
Lu Su is actually very smart, but he is not eager to show his excellence in front of everyone, but only shows these highlights to the leader alone. It can not only save the face of the leader, but also let the leader know his own ability, so that the leader can double his trust in him! In just a few words, you can talk about the psychology of the boss Sun Quan. This is not only a person's strong logical thinking ability, but also a super ability to observe and observe colors.
Not only did he gain the extreme trust of his boss Sun Quan, but he also made most of the company's senior leaders, Governor Zhou Yu, grateful, because he knew that these leaders also wanted to realize their ambitions in the company, so they did not want to merge with other companies. Therefore, in the end, until Zhou Yu was dying, he did not forget to recommend Lu Su as his successor in front of his boss Sun Quan.
Lu Su's abilities were not only excellent in his own company, but also won the trust of Zhuge Liang, an executive in rival Shuguo. In the process of Zhuge Liang's dealings with Eastern Wu, the negotiation of any commercial contract was given priority to consultation with Lu Su, and he also actively followed Lu Su's advice. Because the two have the same three views and visions, they can quickly reach an agreement.
This is the way for people with high emotional intelligence to survive in the workplace, have a big picture view, have a vision, will observe the color, will stand in the perspective of the boss to consider the problem, so that their career can be smooth!