Everyone says that "good people have good rewards", is this really the case?
Actor Sun Li, who funded children in mountainous areas for 4 years, did not do anything, but was eventually bitten back.
The other party wrote a 6,000-word long complaint and even threatened to ruin Sun Li.
Besides her, does anyone remember the singer Cong Fei?
He was supposed to live a wealthy life, but in 11 years he scattered his family wealth and sponsored 178 children.
More than 3 million yuan has been donated in total, and more than 150 people with disabilities have been funded.
But the singer, who was awarded one of the "Top Ten People Who Touched China", has been living a life of poverty, and eventually died of cancer due to lack of money to treat the disease.
It is said that the hemp rope is specially picked and broken, and just 5 years later, his wife Xing Dan also died unexpectedly, leaving his daughter who was only five years old.
Great love is selfless, they give all their love to others, but their own daughters have become orphans.
It can be said that Cong Fei and his wife are even more bitter in this life than Huang Lian, what kind of tragic life have they experienced?
What happened to my daughter's life after losing her parents?
Now, 15 years after Cong Fei's death, what happened to her daughter now?
Cong Fei, whose original name was Zhang Chong, was born in an ordinary family in Liaoning, he was the eldest in the family, and there were two younger brothers below.
Although they are not rich, their family lives very happily, the three brothers have a very good relationship, and their father likes to sing two people to turn, and when there is nothing to do, he will sing two sentences to relax.
They are well-known well-meaning people in the area, often selflessly helping them.
Perhaps it is this kind of family environment that has created Cong Fei's bodhisattva heart.
Cong Fei dropped out of junior high school without graduating, and he inherited his father's love of singing.
Like "Shanghai Beach" and "Huo Yuanjia", he can remember it once or twice when watching TV series, and everyone praises him for singing well.
The neighbors became his little fans, and when there was nothing to do, they let him sing two sentences, and Cong Fei's singing skills became more and more outstanding unconsciously.
But poor family environment, no extra money to fulfill his musical dreams.
After not going to school, Cong Fei entered a local bank as a cashier, and although he was busy at work, he still had difficulty letting go of his dream of singing.
Although the education is not high, Cong Fei knows that if he wants to chase his musical dream, he must study in a professional college.
Later, with the support of friends, he tried to teach himself outside of work and used his free time to practice singing.
In the end, kung fu paid off, and Cong Fei was admitted to the Shenyang Conservatory of Music with a salary.
In the blink of an eye, four years later, Cong Fei graduated from school, and he was once again confused.
Because the music scene at that time was the time when the masters of the competition were gathered, rock, ethnic, ancient, popular... And so on, there's a place for it.
But this is obviously not Cong Fei's style, in order to find a suitable way out for himself, he had to come to Guangdong to develop.
Life here is not familiar, Cong Fei wants to come out of the head is difficult to go to the sky, began to live a poor life he also slept under the bridge hole for a long time.
At this time, a girl was deeply touched after listening to his singing voice and funded him 600 yuan to participate in the singer competition, which gave Cong Fei the opportunity to take the stage.
Perhaps this 600 pieces is also the biggest reason why Cong Fei will desperately help others in the future.
In fact, from a professional point of view, Cong Fei's singing voice is not so brilliant, but it can convey an unyielding force to people.
In 1994, Cong Fei was invited to participate in the charity performance for out-of-school children returning to school held in Chengdu, Sichuan Province, and he took out all the cash 2400 yuan on the spot and handed it to the principal.
Watching the children not be able to enter the school for various reasons, he remembered his childhood experience.
If someone had helped themselves, wouldn't they have had to take so many detours?
This was Cong Fei's first love offering, and the principal told him that the 2400 yuan could allow 20 poor primary school students to complete two years of schooling.
This data greatly shocked Cong Fei, he did not expect that the pocket money he was carrying casually could actually change the fate of 20 children or even twenty families!
Immediately, he decided that in the future, he must do his best to help more people and let more poor students have school!
"Obviously I don't have a good life, but I just can't see the suffering of the world", this sentence refers to Cong Fei.
Philanthropy is something that is hard to stop once invested.
Because there are too many difficult people in the world, there will always be people who can't help.
He even sacrificed his own happiness to help others.
Over the years, Cong Fei has been on the road to charity performances and donations, before and after he adopted a total of 37 orphans and helped 183 poor students.
Many times, he will even take the initiative to push off the commercial performance, pay for the liquidated damages at his own expense, and then go to participate in the charity performance.
When it came time to pay the children's tuition, Cong Fei would borrow from relatives and friends to make up for it even if he couldn't come up with so much money.
In this way, Cong Fei, as a small and famous star, was saddled with debts of more than 100,000 yuan, and the family was crowded in a house of more than 50 square meters, and the life was tight.
I believe that many people are difficult to understand such a way as he did, and even his first wife left him.
Cong Fei's first wife, a Burmese, could not understand her husband's desperate dedication and was unwilling to suffer with him anymore.
So when her daughter was 2 years old, she left alone.
This made Cong Fei sad, but the failure of the marriage did not stop his path to charity.
When he thought that without him, there would be 200 children without school and no future, he could not bear this heart, or decided to carry out the funding to the end.
However, it is precisely because of this unique kindness that it has attracted the attention of Xing Dan, an equally loving girl.
Xing Dan has lived in a wealthy family since she was a child, and as the only child in the family, she has been the pearl in the palm of her parents since she was a child.
When she grew up, she came out of the woods, her personality was gentle and generous, and she finished college at Shenyang Institute of Aeronautical Industry.
In 2003, after graduating from school, she joined the Shenzhen branch of China Southern Airlines and became a flight attendant.
At that time, Cong Fei was often invited to perform at Shenzhen Airlines, and after repeated contacts, the two northerners who were in the south had a common language, and it didn't take long for them to become familiar.
In the later contact, Xing Dan learned that Cong Fei was not only very talented, but also kind-hearted, and unconsciously she was deeply attracted to this man.
She felt: "Such a good person who is loving and willing to give deserves love!" ”
At the end of 2003, the two men came together as they wished.
When Cong Fei's friend first met Xing Dan, his face was unbelievable, and he couldn't figure out why the beautiful Xing Dan married Cong Fei.
"How could such a beautiful flight attendant marry Cong Fei, who has no house, no car, is divorced, and has a daughter?"
In fact, in the early stage of love, their feelings are very difficult.
Cong Fei is 12 years older than Xing Dan and is divorced with a child.
He knew the distance between him and Xing Dan, she was like a clean white cat, she should lie lazily on the balcony combing her hair, not walking through the streets.
Moreover, Xing Dan's parents would not agree to let their daughter marry him.
To this end, Cong Fei began to take the initiative to alienate Xing Dan.
Unexpectedly, the other party took the initiative to come to the door to help him do housework and take care of him and his ex-wife's daughter Rui Rui.
On the other hand, Xing Dan was also trying to persuade his parents that the soft membrane had been soaked for a long time before the family accepted Cong Fei.
After marriage, Xing Dan quit her job as a decent and well-paid flight attendant to focus on taking care of the family.
Someone asked Xing Dan, Cong Fei took all the money to donate, do you have any opinion?
She just smiled and said:
"He wants to do whatever he wants, anyway, just be happy, as for the money thing, anyway, it is not to the point of not being able to eat, and if he can fund it, he can fund it, and he can spend it himself."
Everyone felt that Cong Fei had finally found the other half who understood him, such an open-minded and kind couple should have been happy for a lifetime, but they had not been able to get a little favor from heaven.
On May 12, 2005, singer Cong Fei was diagnosed with stomach cancer, and the next day he found that the cancer had spread, sometimes so bad that he could not swallow his meal.
During the days when he was recuperating, there was almost no source of livelihood in the family, and it was difficult to imagine that a small and famous star actually needed to raise donations from the society to treat his illness.
At the same time, he has to endure countless condemnations.
Because from March of this year, when the new semester began, Cong Fei suddenly disappeared, and many of the children receiving the financial assistance and their parents did not know the truth and began to be jealous.
They called him one after another: "Do you regret your previous commitment to help your children complete their education?" ”
"Can't you bear to watch these children drop out of school again because they don't have money?"
It is hard to imagine what kind of mood Cong Fei would feel when he received countless such calls and letters while lying in his hospital bed.
He was so anxious that he couldn't sleep all night, thinking about how he could help his children complete their schooling in a limited life.
Moreover, his wife Xing Dan had just become pregnant at the time, and he was about to have a second child.
Cong Fei dragged the sick body, praying day and night that he could survive that day.
However, some people who have been receiving cong fei's donations for many years not only did not lend a helping hand when they learned that the benefactor was seriously ill and hospitalized, but also had an unusually indifferent attitude.
Some people even said bluntly: "When will you be cured of your illness and come out to make money?" ”
I believe that the pain and suffering brought by this sentence to Cong Fei must be more uncomfortable than chemotherapy.
But the only thing worth rejoicing is that with a strong belief, Cong Fei really survived until the birth of his daughter.
They gave their daughter a special name: Xing Xiaocongfei.
The couple closely linked their names.
The arrival of his daughter made Cong Fei, who was seriously ill, feel a short happy time.
In April 2006, Cong Fei suddenly said to the outside world:
The state and society have given me very good care, and the medical staff have done their best. I don't want the state and society to talk more money for me, I hope to use this cost on other people who have therapeutic value.
About ten days later, Cong Fei died at the Shenzhen People's Hospital due to ineffective treatment.
Born in poverty, he became a singer on his own, did not live a superior life, spent his whole life trying for strangers, and finally was beaten upside down...
Even at the last moment of his life, he was still thinking about others.
I have to say that Cong Fei has lived for others all his life, but fortunately, he has a wife who understands that he respects him.
After his death, the strong Xing Dan became the pillar of the family.
While taking care of the family's two daughters, she took over her husband's baton and continued to do charity.
Cong Fei's volunteer number was 2478, and after his death, Xing Dan inherited this number, continuing her husband's unfinished business.
But what is even more unexpected is that just 5 years later, Xing Dan also suffered an accident.
Late at night on April 13, 2011, Xing Dan was driving with a friend on the highway from Huizhou back to Shenzhen.
Suddenly, a flying stone was suddenly thrown at the car that Xing Dan was sitting in.
Due to the fast speed of the car, FeiShi suddenly broke through the windshield and hit Xing Dan's face.
The artery in the corner of Xing Dan's left eye was punctured by stones, and the injury was very serious.
Friends who were traveling with him rushed Xing Dan to the nearest hospital and also called the police.
However, by the time she was taken to the hospital, her pupils had dilated.
In the end, Xing Dan died in vain.
The culprit was committed by a few children who were not yet 20 years old.
The oldest of them, 19 years old and the youngest 15, were arrested without realizing they had committed a serious crime.
After sentencing, they were all sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment in accordance with the law.
But Xing Dan's life could never be saved again...
On the day Xing Dan was sent to be cremated, thousands of people on the streets of Shenzhen sent them off, some of them were students who had been helped by Cong Fei Xing Dan, and some were ordinary people who had heard about Cong Fei Xing Dan's deeds.
Some people silently sent off in tears, and some people couldn't help but cry and shout in front of the spiritual hall: "How can two people who are so good leave in such a hurry, it is really unfair in the sky!" ”
That year, Xing Dan was just 30 years old and was the pillar of his 5-year-old daughter.
Now her departure has directly made Xiao Congfei an orphan.
The day before the farewell party, the family told her about her mother's death: "Mom has gone to find Daddy and will not come back." ”
The young Cong Fei didn't know what was happening, but still said to his grandmother with tears: "I will miss them." ”
At the farewell party, looking at the grief-stricken family, Xiao Congfei still took a tissue to help them wipe away their tears.
Seeing her like this, the people present once again rippled, and they were worried about how she would spend her life without parents in the future.
After everything was properly handled after Xing Dan's affairs, Xiao Congfei's growth became the most concerned issue in the whole society.
Xing Dan's aunt said in an interview that the child's current life is taken care of by the grandmother.
The Shenzhen Charity Association also launched a care plan for her, through fundraising from the private sector, to obtain education, medical insurance, living expenses and so on for Cong Fei's two daughters.
Cong Fei's eldest daughter Rui Rui, because there was no one to take care of her, was later considered a granddaughter by Jiang Daao, who also did charity.
Every month, the Shenzhen Charity Association will pay living expenses to Cong Fei's two children according to the standard of 1,000 yuan per person until they reach the age of 22.
In addition, Xing Dan's former friend has also been concerned about the growth of Xiao Congfei.
In this way, Xiao Cong Fei thrived under the care of all walks of life.
Today, she not only excels in her studies, but is also very talented in literature and art, and one of the walls of her home is plastered with her paintings and awards.
In 2018, she was admitted to Shenzhen Experimental Middle School on her own;
Three years later, she was admitted to the Affiliated High School of Southern University of Science and Technology with excellent results, which can be described as both excellent and versatile!
With the increase of age, she is now also a beautiful big girl, her height has also exceeded one meter and seven, and her temperament is becoming more and more like her mother Xing Dan.
I believe that Cong Fei and Xing Dan have a spirit in heaven, and they can also rest assured to see that their daughter is so excellent.
However, looking back on the lives of the two, it is inevitable that people will not feel sorry.
Before his death, Xing Dan commented on her husband:
His heart is too soft, let alone a poor child, even ordinary friends come to plead, and Cong Fei also tried his best to solve it. He doesn't know how to reject others, which is an advantage, but it is also a weakness.
Yes, kindness should also have sharpness, don't let your kindness become weak!