Speaking of domestic blind date variety shows, which one do you think of first, is it Jiangsu Satellite TV's "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", which premiered on Jiangsu Satellite TV on April 15, 2010, the form of the program is that more than 20 female guests stand on the stage and wait, male guests come to the stage to show, and female guests decide whether male guests will stay by turning on and turning off the lights.
The above information source: Baidu Encyclopedia "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" Jiangsu Satellite TV Dating Program
After three rounds of selection, the remaining female guests can participate in the final "boys' rights" link, the male guests make their own choices, and select the female guests they like from the remaining female guests, and the two sides will be paired, or the male guests will not choose and will not be moved by the remaining girls, and they can leave silently.
Since the broadcast of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", it can be said that the ratings have soared all the way and has become the trump card program of Jiangsu Satellite TV, not only invited the professional host Meng Fei to host, but also has many celebrities and celebrities to join, Tong Dawei, Hawick Lau and Lu Yi and other star artists have been guests on the show, although there are many controversies in the show, but it cannot be denied that the show is popular.
If you are not sincere, do not disturb the fire of the show, not only because the appearances are basically handsome men and beautiful women, the mechanism of the show is reasonably arranged, the host is humorous, and the guest comments are incisive, in fact, it also fits the values of young people, that is, free marriage and love are not particular, and they choose their own lovers.
Coincidentally, the matchmaker Wang Po of Kaifeng also exploded on the Internet, and was also selected by everyone as the down-to-earth version of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", which suddenly exploded on the Internet, and was sought after by young people, and the explosion of the show also produced a butterfly effect, not only Wang Po herself, but also the entire scenic spot has also increased its popularity, driving the tourist crowd to visit the local area.
Source of the above information: People's Daily released on March 28, 2024 - "Why "Wang Po Says Media" Can Speak to the Hearts of Young People"
Wang Po said that the matchmaker is famous and has a story
Wang Po in "Wang Po Says Matchmaker" is from the famous Chinese classical novel "Water Margin", the local scenic spot creates the cultural background theme of the Great Song Dynasty, Wang Po as a well-known character in the famous novel, naturally it was enabled, combined with her business in "Water Margin", the essence of the job is to open a tea shop, part-time pimping to others as a matchmaker, Wang Po said that the matchmaker can be said to be famous.
The above information source: Sogou Encyclopedia Wang Po introduced
Wang Po appeared in "Water Margin" and "Golden Vase Plum", but her settings in the story are very similar, living next door to Wu Dalang, who has a worrying appearance, opening a teahouse at home to make a living, and working as a matchmaker, midwife and other subsidies in her spare time to make money, the character image is not as honest and conservative as other old women, but chases money, and sees no one when you see money.
Although Wang Po is described as obscene, unclean, greedy for money, not enterprising, and in some film and television works, she kindly matches the male and female protagonists, Wang Po is a full villain, but as a perennial contact with society and dealing with three religions and nine streams, she does have something to do with Lalang.
As an old fritter in the rivers and lakes, Wang Po is shrewd and sophisticated, as an old man, she usually gets along well with her neighbors and opens a teahouse, but in fact, the teahouse does not make money, what does she rely on, in fact, she is pimping, engaging in this kind of food that cannot be eaten on the table, in order to get Ximenqing's money, and even kill others for personal gain.
But she is a good matchmaker, she sees that Pan Jinlian wants to steal people, and Ximenqing wants to mess with Pan Jinlian, she sees that there is a good way to do it, and knows that the two are not people who abide by the law of etiquette, so she immediately matches the two parties. Hearing that Wuda threatened Jin Lian, she calmly made up her mind, killed Wuda, commanded and assisted in getting benefits, and got benefits, which can be said to be ruthless but with brains and calculations.
Matchmakers are unreliable, and young people are reluctant to go on blind dates through matchmakers
Wang Po is not alone, it turns out that some matchmakers also have professional ethics, matchmaking between single people on both sides, and make the situation and conditions clear, although they will also persuade peace, but they are all adhering to the concept of good for the young people on both sides, and finally tie the knot and give red envelopes as a heart, and give the heart to convinc, but thank both parties for giving a marriage.
But now many matchmakers, especially in the rural matchmaking market, blind dates have poor information, matchmakers take advantage of the anxiety of unmarried men and women to make money, there is no professional ethics at all, and it has become a common routine to collect red envelopes to raise the bride price, etc., and the matchmaker makes a profit from it, and even more fraud in the countryside, so that the man pays a huge bride price and then does not return or returns less, making a profit.
The above information source: The Rights and Interests Department of the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League issued "Chaos in the Rural Matchmaking Market? The State Has Taken Action: "Volunteer Matchmakers" Come to Help!"
Some young people on the Internet also shoot videos to ridicule the matchmaker's black can be said to be white, for example, the man has several children, but when the matchmaker's mouth is that you marry him, you don't have to have children, you don't have to suffer this crime, and you don't mention that the man already has children. Although it is a joke, it also reflects the fact that young people do not trust matchmakers.
What's more, the original information is not smooth, young people can only get married through the matchmaker, advocate the words of the matchmaker of their parents, and there is no way to take the initiative to choose, but now young people have gone through higher education, coupled with the impact of the Internet on young people, everyone is more inclined to free love, transparent information, and do not want to decide their lifelong partner only through the matchmaker's information.
Wang Po said that the matchmaker is sincere and not fake
The same is the matchmaker who said the matchmaker, Wang Po said that the matchmaker does not engage in those vain heads, does not exaggerate in the middle, and directly lets the blind date person speak on stage by himself, the first thing is to screen the guests, and see that the self-media Internet celebrity came to the stage in order to attract attention, Wang Po directly refused, not wanting unrelated people to steal the limelight of people in need.
Wang Po also said emotionally in the video that she just wants to build a platform for people in real need to make friends sincerely, even if they are not successful, they will make one more friend, Wang Po said that the matchmaker is a real friend, not fake, this move has also won everyone's praise and the support of the onlookers, thinking that Wang Po is doing a good job.
The reason why everyone is willing to come to Wang Po to make friends is also obvious, because Wang Po provides a stage for everyone who wants to meet destined people, and more importantly, this stage is a real and relaxed dating platform, you can say your thoughts out loud on the spot, and Wang Po will help you sincerely publicize.
This is undoubtedly in line with the current situation of young people's friendship, that is, the lack of opportunities to understand each other, everyone is under work pressure, social responsibility oppression has no opportunity to find, through the blind date group of Wang Po, everyone has an opportunity to understand each other, matchmaker matchmaking and finally the two parties work together to the end of marriage.
Not only the technique, but also the Tao, Wang Po can get the support of young people is also because, in essence, she can look at the problem from the perspective of young people, respect every young person's own values, she will give respect, values are their own, as long as it does not harm the society and does not bring negative impact to the society, why not be more tolerant.
On an outrageous blind date, Wang Po said that the matchmaker met a divorced older woman looking for a rich and handsome
Since Wang Po said that the media became popular on the Internet, the scene was crowded, everyone rushed to the stage to tell their stories, focusing on a sincere friendship, not the other chirps crookedly, it turned out to be young people, and now there are more other groups to come here to boldly confess, although people have changed, but the popularity has not decreased.
At the scene, a woman came on stage and gave everyone a shock, she didn't look young, and she was dressed relatively simply, a white lace top, a black skirt, and white sneakers on her feet.
The woman made a simple self-introduction to her situation, everyone has a certain understanding of her, is a divorced single woman from Luoyang, Henan Province, with a daughter is 16 years old, now she sells clothing for a living, lives an ordinary life, and has simple happiness.
But then her standard is not ordinary, she wants to find a rich and handsome, the princess on the stage also smiled when she heard this, and then took over the conversation and persuaded her to consider her actual situation, after all, men pay more attention to age in the blind date market, and she has children herself, and her work appearance is not outstanding, so it is difficult to find a husband.
But the female guest should have her own ideas, and continue to explain her requirements, which is to ask the other party to be younger than herself and not greater than herself, Wang Po can only continue to persuade her, I heard that her daughter was also at the scene, so she directly asked her daughter to do her mother's work together, but the woman was unmoved.
But the woman said directly, it is Gao Fu and handsome, and she doesn't think about anything else, and she directly releases the ultimate move later, and wants to drive a BMW. As soon as these words came out, not only the audience was stunned, but she didn't expect this woman to be completely unrealistic, regardless of Wang Po's dissuasion, and asked Wang Po to help her find out if she was in a match.
Wang Po can only shout hard but no one accepts the invitation at all, the female guest can only release the ultimate move, she is a demolition household, and she has money for five suites, if you have no money, you can come and insert the door, you can accept the man's involvement, but in the end, no one agreed to her, she could only step down.
The video circulated on the Internet, and many netizens expressed their opinions that this woman's requirements were too outrageous, and indeed many men now pay more attention to appearance, and when they have a daughter, instead of spending their energy on finding the other half, it is better to cultivate their daughter, and the wealth is not exposed, and use wealth to attract others to beware of the final overturn.
epilogue
Sincere friendship, happy life, in the current marriage diversification, many people have different views and values of marriage, this is a very normal thing, but whether it is single or in love, there is nothing wrong with pursuing happiness in life, but on this basis, it is necessary to have a correct cognition, after all, people can not recognize themselves at a certain age but are prone to old age.