Recently, a video of a 38-year-old woman publicly complaining about her rejection of five conditions on a blind date circulated on the Internet, which directly subverted my marital values and directly hit the ugliness in real life.
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is the woman in the above video, 38 years old and unmarried, put forward five conditions to the other party on a blind date, the man was directly scared away, and told the matchmaker that the woman's requirements were too high. She felt very aggrieved, she thought that her conditions were good, her requirements were reasonable, not too much at all, a man couldn't even do this, what kind of marriage did he get!
Let's take a look at the five conditions
First: the bride price is 300,000 yuan, after marriage, the man can not go home late every day, and he can't go home later than 10 o'clock every day, if it is more than 5 times, he will break up peacefully, and the bride price will not be refunded.
Second: If the man cheats after marriage and breaks up peacefully, the bride price will not be refunded, and the man will also compensate 100,000 yuan for mental damages.
Third: If your mother is sick, let her take care of it, impossible, she has no such obligation.
Fourth: The salary must be handed over in full, and the man will be given 1000 yuan of pocket money every month.
Fifth: I don't like to socialize, those relatives and friends of the man's family, when she is not willing to go, don't force her to go, if you have to force me to go, let's break up peacefully. The bride price is still not refunded.
In the end, he also said that I used to meet many men, but they all rejected me, and these men couldn't even meet these conditions, so why should they get married!
In the video, the woman was ashamed to say that her five conditions were not high, and she never thought about what she could give the man. Is this pretentious or did he come out to cheat on marriage? The most infuriating and ridiculous thing is that the bride price is not refunded.
The comments of netizens are even more to the point:
Netizen Lako: I advise you to bear with it, life will pass quickly! [Look]
Netizen delicious: Every sentence does not leave the bride price and the money is not refunded [covering his face]
The wandering prodigal son of netizens. No bride price, no strict requirements, I don't even want to post it upside down
Netizen Psychiatric Hospital Gai Beast: You are making a wish, you have to go to the temple to find the Bodhisattva
Netizen 6610: The wages are all handed in, I'm sick, my mother is sick, who will save me??
Netizen 1677267: At the age of 38, don't be in a hurry to go on a blind date, wait until you are 83 years old and come on a blind date.
Netizen Jiawei: Don't say that 300,000 is 20,000, I don't want any of the five requirements
Netizen Leng Ao 51: To tell the truth, I didn't dare to make such a wish when I entered the temple, for fear that the Bodhisattva would run away with the temple overnight.
Netizen 361507: None of these five conditions are rushing to get married, and the rules and regulations are all bride price non-refundable + loss of money
Netizen Gentle Kt: It's not high, it's not high at all, as long as you insist, you will definitely encounter a big wrong!
It feels very much like the overlord clause, only seeing the requirements put forward, not seeing what you can give, and the bride price will not be refunded at every turn, which sounds so harsh. Isn't it good that you can live by yourself, and you still run out to go on a blind date, people marry wives, not ancestors.
Sometimes a high bride price is the last straw that breaks the marriage, and you can't even ask for the life of the young lady. Marriage is a joint venture between the two parties, and it is not a case where one party blindly gives and the other party blindly accepts. As long as both parties are in love with each other and work together to live happily.
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