In the early years, every time he went to act in other places, Ge You would write a letter to his wife He Cong.
But he's not going to be like Tony in Green Book.
At the end of each letter, the children are asked how they are.
Because Ge You and He Cong have not had children at all for many years.
On the other hand, since Fu Biao's death,
Ge You's son Fu Zi'en has been very attentive to Fu Biao for more than ten years.
After Fu Biao's death that year, the cost of medical treatment, coupled with the unpaid loan for buying a villa,
Widow Zhang Qiufang roughly calculated that there were more than two million.
At the beginning, Zhang Qiufang planned to sell the villa to pay off the debt.
At the beginning, the villa was bought by more than three million.
Zhang Qiufang estimated that the villa can be sold to more than four million after appreciation.
After paying off all the loans, she can still have more than two million left, enough for her and her son to live.
Just when Zhang Qiufang began to look for buyers,
Looking at the bits and pieces left by her husband before she died, Zhang Qiufang changed her mind again.
When Fu Biao died, Ge You, Feng Xiaogang and other friends who mourned sent some gifts.
Together with the insurance company's subsequent payments, the two sums up to more than a million.
Zhang Qiufang later used the money to repay the remaining mortgage in one go.
After paying off the mortgage, there are more than 800,000 other debts left.
Zhang Qiufang was caught off guard for a moment.
Although he also graduated from Chinese opera, he has been a non-well-known entertainer for many years.
If she were to go to filming, her annual income would not reach six figures.
So relying on Zhang Qiufang herself, there are more than 800,000 debts left,
She had no idea what year and month it would be before she could pay it off.
Fortunately, there are Friends of Fu Biao, such as Zhang Guoguo, Ge You, and Feng Xiaogang, to help.
Zhang Qiufang first started the agency brand business.
Half a year later, her son graduated from junior high school, and Zhang Qiufang remembered the events of her husband's life.
At first, the couple hoped that their son would come to the UK to study.
In the current situation, Zhang Qiufang has no money.
She inquired about the first cost of a local high school in the United Kingdom of 600,000 yuan.
Zhang Qiufang later gritted her teeth and applied for a 600,000 yuan study loan.
After sending his son on a plane to England,
The friends decided to help Zhang Qiufang start a brokerage company.
In Zhang Qiufang's later words:
Feng Xiaogang, Ge You, Guo Guo, and Bao Guo were not friends in vain.
With the help of friends, Zhang Qiufang's brokerage company soon began to make profits.
His son Fu Zien was also very sensible when he studied in England.
The school's journal has a column that writes a weekly article about Chinese customs and customs.
He can earn 40 euros in writing fees.
Moreover, Fu Zien had excellent academic performance and won a scholarship in the first academic year.
On weekdays, he could save up the money his mother sent by mail.
In his first year he saved 20,000 euros.
This amount of money is enough for Fu Zien to graduate from high school.
In China, at that time, Ge You strongly recommended Zhang Qiufang,
In the new movie "Breathless", he played his somewhat neurotic wife.
Ge You feels that the filming cycle is short and the speed of taking money is fast.
In this way, Zhang Qiufang is acting as an agent for brands while operating a brokerage company.
On the one hand, he continued to take over the drama under the recommendation of his friends.
So, about three years after Fu Biao's death,
In addition to the debt, Zhang Qiufang actually earned more than two million.
After Fu Zien graduated from high school, he originally wanted to study acting.
Under the persuasion of Ge You and Feng Xiaogang, he eventually studied directing.
Privately, Ge You has been paying attention to Fu Zien's growth.
On his 18th birthday, Ge You pushed off all activities.
Specially accompanied Fu Zien through his coming-of-age ceremony.
However, Ge You, who has always been low-key, never said anything about all that he did.
Looking back, Ge You's personality runs through it.
As a child, Ge You lived in the Beijing Film Studio.
The neighbors are all actors.
At that time, Ge You was very thin, both shy and shy.
In addition to not greeting adults, his parents had never seen him fight with anyone.
Although his father Ge Cunzhuang was an actor, Ge You, who was a child, did not like acting very much.
After going to kindergarten, once the teacher ordered him that he would not perform the show.
So for a long time, Ge Cunzhuang and Shi Wenxin,
They all feel that this child has no acting talent, and he will certainly not inherit his father's business in the future.
After going to elementary school, Ge You had a sister Ge Jia with a fart worm.
Ge Jia Xiao Ge You was 5 years old, but when Ge You was 13 years old,
My sister was inside and outside the house, chasing Ge Youda.
In the end, Ge You was actually beaten and cried by his sister.
Since then, Ge Laoshi's name has not been shy in the North Film Studio.
Shy, shy, and naturally timid.
Two years later, Ge You began to raise pigs.
It was the Xiangtun Brigade in Xingshou Commune, Changping County.
Every morning before dawn, Ge You came out of the house in a white breath.
He first stepped on the dew to cut the pig grass.
Once the grass is cut, it must be picked and washed, especially to remove the stones and soil grains that are mixed in.
The last thing is to cut the pig grass and mix it with the feed.
Pig breeding time is long, Ge You summed up the experience.
Grain must be placed at the bottom.
Otherwise, the pigs will only pick and choose to eat the grain, and will not eat anything else.
So under Ge You's careful breeding, the pigs he raised were fat and strong.
The people in the brigade liked him, and every time they met, they praised Ge You's love of labor.
Ge You always smiled embarrassedly, and then said slowly:
Pigs don't fool us, and we can't fool pigs.
In this way, Ge You raised pigs for three years.
The parents thought that this boy would not be able to do anything in the future.
Who knew that one day after returning to the city, Ge You suddenly told his parents that he wanted to learn acting.
If you want to learn, you have to take the test.
At this time, unlike his father Ge Cunzhuang's era, he could have opportunities with hobbies.
Most people who want to be actors have to go to professional schools or art groups.
Ge Youyi reported to several places, such as the Beijing Film Academy, the Central Academy of Drama, and the Experimental Drama Theater.
The final result is that there is no talent in the performance and is turned away.
Seeing that this boy was hopeless, a friend who was still his father later said,
The All-China Federation of Trade Unions is still recruiting, and the last batch is gone.
In this way, under the guidance of his father, Ge You later performed a clip of feeding pigs in the exam.
Years later, Ge You said that he was raising pigs,
It has reached the point where there are no pigs around and pigs in the heart.
With this sincere and unmistakable performance, Ge You passed the exam.
It was 1979, and Ge You was 22 years old
For the next six years, Ge You's heart was undistracted, running the dragon set on the drama stage.
Still like the pig in the beginning, he silently did not fool people into performing.
In the blink of an eye, I was almost thirty years old, and my parents were in a hurry.
If you don't work high or low, you will be mixed, but you can't continue to play bare sticks.
Therefore, the family mobilized all the people they knew and began to match Ge You's media.
At the age of 28, after being introduced by a matchmaker, Ge You met He Cong, a primary school teacher.
At first, He Cong's parents heard that Ge You was an actor.
He was afraid that he would go to the end of the day and would not agree to his daughter's association with Ge You.
As He Cong learned about Ge You's temperament, she told her parents,
Ge You is more honest than any man.
Honest people are afraid of trouble, and they are timid, that is, they let him become emperor,
It still won't bother.
In 1987, the two married.
The format of the wedding could not have been simpler.
Dinner was at a small restaurant near Xidan.
Because the restaurant owner is a friend of Ge Youyi, he promised to give a discount.
The car for the wedding was also borrowed from a friend.
He Cong's colleagues on this side all felt that she had lost.
How can you find such a precarious little actor?
But He Cong knew that he certainly didn't look at the wrong person.
After getting married, Ge You began to make movies and TV series.
It's not like in a theater troupe, sometimes you have to go out to shoot a movie, and the time is still very long.
There is no mobile phone, and it costs money to make long distance calls.
Every time he went out to shoot a scene, Ge You wrote a letter to He Cong, basically writing one a week.
He is not a romantic person and cannot write beautiful and moving sentences.
The content of the letter is nothing more than to report the itinerary and then pay attention to He Cong's body.
Sometimes, you can't finish a page.
Even so, he kept these letters many years later.
He Cong knew that Ge You would not come outside,
But the husband shoots more dramas, especially when there are male and female scenes,
As a woman, He Cong still can't help but think more.
Ge You also knows that his wife is actually most afraid of running away with other women after she becomes famous.
He often told He Cong that he was not that kind of person.
It can be said that whenever I hear Ge You want to make intimate scenes with other actresses,
He Cong couldn't help but cry.
And once you cry, it is endless, and it will not be good to let Ge You coax it.
Until later, watching Ge You win one big prize after another, his fame became bigger and bigger,
But he didn't have the intention of going outside to look for it, and He Cong gradually became relieved.
He Cong put it down, but here Ge You only had the opportunity,
Every time I go back to the field, I also have to take my wife with me.
Such a person who looks very tender and has a good temper,
But as long as he was at home, he always took the lead in provoking war.
Sometimes, Ge You will deliberately provoke He Cong.
Because Ge You's unique secret is that if you want to be good between husband and wife, you have to quarrel.
It is quarreled once in three or five days, which has a home atmosphere.
As for the provocation, he began to confess and apologize.
In addition to arguing with his wife, Ge You said that he must cook on the fire.
Some people's homes are furnished like hotels, and they are not like homes at first glance.
As long as it is not out filming, there is at least one meal a day, and it is cooked at home.
Ge You can cook and is famous in the circle.
The best ones are braised fish nuggets and simmered fish soup.
In the early years, when there was no money, those home-cooked dishes could also be tricked by Ge You.
However, as long as the wife is at home, sometimes Ge You only has a hand.
He Cong was still in charge.
In this way, quarrelling and provoking He Cong,
The two men lived peacefully for more than twenty years.
On the occasion of their twentieth wedding anniversary,
Ge You specially spent tens of millions of dollars to buy a villa and give it to his wife as a gift.
The home is getting better and better, but there is no child around the two people.
Ge You once said that this was his and He Cong's biggest regret.
When I was young, I ran around filming and didn't think about it.
Later, as I grew older, I was delayed in giving birth to a child.
Because of this, after the death of his friend Fu Biao,
Ge You will be extra dedicated to his friend's son.
In previous years, even if they were not filming, the audience could occasionally see Ge You in advertisements.
But since his father's death, Ge You seems to have retired and rarely appears in public.
It turned out that after the death of her father, her mother had been immersed in grief and could not come out.
At first, Ge You wanted to bring his mother to live in his house.
Let her change the environment, so as not to touch the scene.
But my mother had feelings for the old house she had lived in for decades and didn't want to move away.
So a month after my father's death,
Ge You and his wife also moved back to the old dormitory building of the Beijing Film Studio.
In those days, my mother would coldly tell Ge You,
Your dad didn't leave, I heard him in the kitchen, let me go and have a look.
I asked a doctor to do a check-up, and everything was normal.
The doctor said that this is a mourning syndrome caused by excessive grief and should be well cared for.
So Ge You has been accompanying his mother.
After three or four months, my mother said to Ge You, I am emotionally stable, you can go out and work.
Ge You told her mother that I would only shoot one play every year from now on, and the main task was to accompany you.
At night, in order to facilitate the care of the elderly, Ge You slept in a room with his mother.
He was worried that his mother would not bother himself by drinking water at night or going to the toilet.
So he tied a rope to his own hand and to his mother's hand.
In this way, as long as the mother moves, she will wake up.
When Ge Cunzhuang was alive, Shi Wenxin often told people,
Ge You is definitely the son of filial piety.
No matter how big Ge You is on the outside,
This is always the most gratifying thing for mothers.
Today, Ge You is also 65 years old.
From the pig in that year to the leader of the film and television industry now, almost instantaneously.
In line with the principle of not being fooled,
Whether it is career or family, Ge You has always kept his duty.
He once said that men can be a little ugly, a little stupid, a little poor,
But you can't be honest and you can't be honest.
With the foundation of duty, we can do things while planning the future.
| Nancy
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