In the past few days, the emotional events of "Ice Ice, Turtle and Earth Lady" have undergone constant reversals, and the heat has not decreased.
But what has not reversed is that the wind evaluation of The Earth Lady has been attacked by the word "female competition".
I don't know when it began to blow a "anti-female competition" wind on the Internet.
Today, Xiaoyin will explore with you, why is "female competition" annoying?
Is "anti-female racing" popular now?
Some time ago, a plot in "Dress up" caused a heated discussion on Weibo.
The editor-in-chief and assistant want to leave the liquor bureau first, but they do not expect that the men at the wine table are aggressive, forcibly pouring alcohol on the assistant and violating her.
The editor-in-chief found that the assistant was being bullied, and was furious, rushing into the private room to pick up the bottle and smash it at the violator.
Many netizens said that they were empathized with and hoped that someone could help themselves so much.
"Dream Hualu" focuses on the theme of women's mutual help: Zhao Pan'er helps her sister Song Yinzhang deceive Hugh Shu and save her from the depths of the water.
Zhao Pan'er was questioned by the officials, and Gao Hui did not hesitate to disobey her father and enter the palace to speak for Zhao Pan'er.
The plot of the three sisters accompanying each other also makes everyone empathize fiercely.
In addition to film and television dramas, we can also see the rise of women's power in variety shows, and girls help girls seem to have become a matter of heart.
Li Xueqin accidentally cut vegetables on a certain show, and Chen Yu picked up Li Xueqin in the air to comfort her.
This unexpected move made Li Xueqin very surprised: "She can actually pick me up!" ”
Li Xueqin said directly: "I have a place in my heart that once withered, and today you have a small bud." You healed the depths of my soul, a place I once thought had broken. ”
This plot made many viewers feel the power of warmth between women.
In life, the power of women's mutual help is also getting stronger and stronger.
When women face sexual harassment or other bad behavior, there will always be other women who stand up and teach her how to bravely reject others and protect herself.
A tacit understanding between the same sex "I understand you" and "I see myself in you" arises spontaneously.
Nowadays, this phenomenon of "anti-female competition" is becoming more and more obvious.
People gradually realize that "female competition" behavior will only pose a huge threat to the normal female relationship in society, and they are increasingly agreeing that "common beauty is the truth".
It is hoped that through mutual help, we can create an environment that is not guided by men, and constantly weaken the stereotypical requirements of society for women.
It is not to rely on malicious competition with the same sex to cater to men.
Although girls help girls are now advocated, before that, the wind of "female competition" has also surged on the Internet.
Many women have passed on the "female competition" signal of "I am better than other women, so pick me".
Rating yourself and other people's appearance in the crowd, searching for "female beauty" plastic surgery tips...
So how did the crooked wind of "female competition" catch fire?
How did "female competition" catch fire?
"Female competition", a new word that has emerged in recent years, refers to women who gaze at other women from a patriarchal perspective, and thus become hostile and critical of other women.
And people who are good at female competition are not only good at criticizing others, but also always put shackles on themselves and compete with the same sex at all times.
Scenes of female strife are never absent in our lives.
Before the emergence of the term "female competition", the phenomenon of female competition had already caught fire in the palace fighting drama.
The harem concubines did everything in their power to compete for favors, plotting and hurting each other, which concubine lost her heirs today, and which one hurt her throat tomorrow.
In addition, the female characters in the Qiong Yao drama have a secret struggle for the male protagonist, and in the big female protagonist's drama, you come and go to the sword and sword...
Women in various film and television dramas constantly consume their own energy in the fight.
The word "female competition" began to go out of the circle, and it began to start from the circle of the Hanzo Forest in 19 years.
In the incident of Hanzo Forest and Ah Qin, some netizens humiliated Hanzo Forest while being a slut, accusing her of knowing three and three, while tirelessly learning her aesthetics and "female competition" means of "pure desire wind" and "tea art photos".
At the same time, he also convinces himself with the psychology of "I don't tea, I have high morals, I just want to learn how to harvest men".
Then, with the explosion of Han Zong's "Single is Hell", the appearance of Song Zhiya set off an "entertainment carnival" of netizens in China and South Korea, pushing the "female competition" to an unprecedented new height.
In "Single is Hell", Song Zhiya said generously and confidently in front of the camera: "No matter which woman I am on, I have the confidence to win over her." ”
And what does Song Zhiya want to win? Obviously, it is the favor and worship of the male guests.
Her remarks that all women are regarded as opponents have turned the love round into a comprehensive love competition between women under the scrutiny of the whole network.
The exquisite beauty and dating skills shown by Song Zhiya in the show essentially have an ultimate goal: to become the most popular woman among female guests, win the love contest, and win the eyes of all men.
Under the "blessing" of the marketing number, many people follow the trend and think that Song Zhiya's "female competition" speech reflects self-confidence and charm.
Women are the largest audience group of variety shows, and "female competition" seems to have become an outlet, and arousing people's "female competition emotions" has become a magic weapon to obtain traffic.
Especially in the dilemma of social PUA such as "appearance anxiety" and "body anxiety", many people hope to rely on this "drag sister confidence" to win the victory and get out of the predicament.
They are extremely serious about packaging themselves as a "confident queen" who "can beat any woman."
Sharing and learning on social platforms the so-called "Song Zhiya's Great Law", "Song Zhiya's Makeup Skills", "Song Zhiya's Heart Machine Dressing"...
The crooked wind of "female competition" seems to be blowing more and more vigorously.
However, as the word "female competition" is widely abused, the negative effects are more and more obvious, and "female competition" is also regurgitated due to excessive after the explosion.
The blind follow-up and illogical leverage of some groups have made more and more people resent the term "female competition".
"Female racing" has become an increasingly extreme behavior:
Bloggers evaluate clothing, and make some suggestions for friends who are not suitable for body conditions, female competition.
Put on a beautiful dress and take a picture with her boyfriend, and accidentally photograph other women, female competition.
P figure no p passerby, female competition.
And because "female competition" is essentially male-oriented, the product of male gaze, it is not a positive word in itself.
The female character in "female competition" degrades and relegates all competition between women and women to malicious competition in animal groups for the purpose of mating purposes.
No woman wants to be called a derogatory term by others as "female competition".
In addition, with the development of women's independent thought and the prevalence of feminism, women have begun to think more and more calmly and objectively about everything.
They gradually realized that there was no need to dress up for men, and that the pursuit of beauty was only to make themselves happy.
Women also gradually discover that "female competition" deprives women of their own interests, meaningless self-castration.
Suppressing other women for the sake of men is a kind of "worthless self-discipline", and internal friction competition will only hinder the female group from moving towards unity, leaving the female group in a more fragmented predicament.
It is only a matter of time before "female competition" goes from being hot to being disliked and abandoned.
But since so many people hate "female competition", why can it catch fire?
An incomplete guide to the psychological study of "female competition"
What is it that makes so many people go to the "road of no return" of excessive female competition?
First of all, most people who like "female competition" have a "queen bee" mentality.
Many women who like "female competition" are in their own circles and are in the upper middle. Women who stand in this position will form a "queen queen".
"No one is better than me, no one can beat me."
They may become the most popular people in their circles because of charm, money, etc., so they must not allow a more prominent presence than themselves.
When there are people around her who are more beautiful than her, more attractive than her, and more popular with the opposite sex than her, she will take the initiative to launch an "attack" and open the psychological defense mechanism.
This kind of woman is a classic character in American school dramas.
"Campus Big Sister" has the absolute right to speak and absolute authority in this circle. When the man she likes likes other little beauties, the eldest sister will gather her little brothers and sisters to quickly start an "American school bullying".
So we can often see this kind of line from the eldest sister: "Little Bichi, stay away from my mike." ”
In addition, due to the long period of time in the male-dominated society, some people have unconsciously developed sexism, and many women have been indoctrinated with the deformed idea that "women can only rely on men for success".
Therefore, they believe that the way for women to gain status promotion and even class leapfrog in society can only rely on and rely on men's social resources and become male vassals.
Women who compete with themselves are naturally classified as enemies.
There are also some women who are obsessed with reflecting their value in the marriage relationship.
They often flaunt themselves as "good wives and good mothers" from a male perspective.
And impose this set of requirements on others, in an attempt to further solidify gender roles, drag women's values from the workplace and society back to the family and kitchen, in order to obtain satisfaction.
If they are rejected and hurt in a marital relationship, they do not look for problems from men, but refocus on internal competition in the same sex.
The most representative is the highly controversial topic of "the original match to play the little three".
Many women blame men's infidelity and infidelity on the seduction and charm of other women.
Even excuses men: "He just made the mistakes that every man would make".
What instigates "female competition" is consumerism under the manipulation of capital.
They tell women in words that have been repeated a thousand times: Your value can only come from marriage and fertility.
"Women without marriage, life is incomplete."
"Women without children, life is incomplete."
This kind of PUA-style discourse makes these brainwashed successful women jump into the "female competition deep sea" without hesitation, limiting themselves and restraining themselves for the purpose of pleasing men, and using male love as a chip for their own competition.
They hope that they can become the top students in terms of age, appearance and figure, and then smoothly become the "precious goods" of the marriage market.
Thus, capitalists rely on the consumerist PUA to perfectly consolidate the "patrilineal society" they want, through pseudo-satisfaction, pseudo-sense of achievement, and constantly PUA female groups: let them think that women's values are attached to consumer behavior and male subjects, women must not only please themselves, but also can not forget to please others.
But in any case, we should know that "female competition" and "excessive female competition" are meaningless.
We need to be "anti-female", but not too extreme.
Women can be beautiful either alone or together.