Jackie Chan's children are the pride of their parents, and children who accompany them are gifts to their parents. This phrase is more like chicken soup than truth.
Grown-up "good children" are not out of the ordinary, parents often say so. Yes, after so much effort and so much money, the children went to school and worked step by step, but the graduating school was just an ordinary school, and the work was ordinary. As the age approachs thirty years old, ordinary work, there is no benefit brought by a little education, and there is no "bad boy" in the early years who earn a lot of money and get married and have children early, so that parents can enjoy the happiness of the world very early.
Such an grown-up "good child" is so sad, not because life is just that he does not understand himself more and more, does not understand how he has lived like this, and does not understand where his future is. Of course, it is to blame oneself, and it is not smart and not hard-working, with the aura of "good children" even "bad children" can provide insufficient for parents, and the name of "high education" is not even as good as the realistic basis of "early mixed society".
The children of the Zhou family in "The World of Man" can correspond to the values at the beginning of the article, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong have always been the pride of their parents with high education and good work, and Zhou Bingkun is not good at studying and working well, but has been taking care of his parents without complaint or regret. Many of the "well-behaved children" who grow up can not only take care of their parents, but also occasionally need the help of their parents or rely on their parents' wings.
Whenever my parents said that my sister and I were grown up "good children" and did not show up, whenever my parents urged me to get married, I had to be silent. One is that their own situation is really garbage, and the other is that they really don't know how to respond. After all, a person who is willing to improve is not so disgusting.
In fact, I was not originally a "good child", the real "good child" should be a person who studies wholeheartedly, listens to the advice of his parents, and lives life step by step. If so, even if there is no highly educated and good job, at least you can really take care of your parents and be self-disciplined.
Karma is good at being diligent and absurd, and doing is destroyed by thinking and destroying. Unfortunately, most of the superficial "good children" are the "playful" and "casual" applications and maintainers, ordinary and ordinary and inactive. In life events, the so-called "blunt feeling" should be useless, and the "anxiety feeling" is more like a needle prick, a stab once a pain, and then forget. Then it's just the torment of continuing to mix.
The pace of marriage is getting tighter and tighter, and it is easy to ask this question every time relatives meet. I understand the concerns of my parents and the concerns of my relatives, but they are more concerned about whether they should get married or not, and I think about whether it is appropriate or not to get married. Obviously, I think I am not suitable, inferior personality, bad body, lazy temperament, ordinary work, I don't know how I should look at myself, and I don't know why girls choose such people to marry? Ordinary well-behaved children who have grown up may only be able to praise this point, they are not willing to hurt others, they are not willing to graft their uncomfortable lives to another life.
If you are like my second brother, although he is nearly 40 years old and has not married, at least his job is stable and self-reliant. He will help his aunt and uncle do farm work on weekends, he will actively learn intelligent technology after work, he will rely on his own strength to buy a car and a house, and he will do a good job of financial management to invest in his parents' living expenses. Although many relatives still stubbornly persuade him to get married, although I also expect him to get married, it seems that such obedience is really what should be done.
Life hasn't deceived me, and Neither has God. It's just the appearance of "being good" that obscures everything, so that those who are really lazy and afraid of being ignored. And I, as if I had accepted the mask of "obedience", was unwilling to expose the truth.
The grown-up "well-behaved children" may be so entangled, they also hope to meet expectations, but they are buried by their own "no show" again and again. Later, pride can't be done, and gifts can't be done.
Li Yunlong is very good, and Zhao Gang is not bad. In fact, there is no appearance, there is no future, there is no future, it is worth being proud of or feeling happy, and "good children" and "bad children" have nothing to do with it. Any kind of life must work hard to realize value and satisfy a certain positioning. If you do a good job, you should really be criticized.