In the age of the Internet, we often have a lot of malice toward strangers, and the same is true for people working in Cambodia.
"Working in Cambodia? "Why did you go to Cambodia?" Can't you do that job domestically? "And so on, and there's a lot more. Some people may be well-intentioned and curious, but some people are purely malicious attacks.
And such malice, girls working in Cambodia, obviously suffer more.
Recently, some netizens posted on the forum "How many Chinese girls can't go back to Cambodia", and someone in the comment area of this post said: "There are a few good people who come here, hahaha"; Another person said: "What kind of girl can the big village attract, don't you have points in your heart?" It was such a comment that deeply stung people's hearts!
So, girls work in Cambodia, what's wrong?
In Cambodia, there are more Chinese girls who are struggling
In Cambodia, from time to time, you can hear the news of girls committing suicide or falling off a building, such a tragedy is regrettable, but many people have the inherent impression that girls in Cambodia are engaged in improper work.
Even some criticism has been raised, and some girls who are doing legitimate work in Cambodia have been misunderstood, and even these misunderstandings come from their families. Some girls originally developed well in Cambodia, but under pressure from their families, they gave up their job opportunities and chose to return to China.
The incomprehension of family members and the doubts of outsiders have colored the road to Cambodian drift, coupled with the epidemic and the burden of life, making these girls who are wandering in Cambodia and working hard, difficult.
In fact, in Cambodia, there are many Chinese girls who work hard and diligently, who choose to stay away from home and run alone, looking for their own little world in Cambodia.
A Chinese woman working in Phnom Penh said: "I have been in Cambodia for more than four years, and I have met many Chinese girls who are self-reliant and self-reliant in Cambodia, and many of them have been promoted in Cambodian work and grown into a better version of themselves. There are also Some Chinese girls who have started businesses in Cambodia and realized their freedom of work, while others have realized their dreams.
And they never limit themselves here, constantly improving their abilities in all aspects, one of the sisters I know, after getting married and having children, once again returned to school to pursue a master's degree, and another has applied for a doctorate in Thailand. ”
She says she admires the girls who have been working hard, who organize their work and life in an orderly manner and are very clear about what they want. Whenever I meet these hard-working and self-motivated people, I am unconsciously infected and begin to actively plan my work and life.
In addition, I also know many Chinese girls in Cambodia, who are doing legitimate work, choosing to come to Cambodia at the beginning of graduation, with a slightly higher salary than their domestic counterparts, in a relatively less inward environment, happy working life, and some girls, with their own efforts, pay half of each with the man, buy a house and settle down in Cambodia.
Admittedly, there are all kinds of temptations in Cambodia, but they say: "The money earned by their hard work is the most reassuring to spend." ”
So, girls are working properly in Cambodia, what's wrong? Why suffer from generalized misunderstandings and criticisms?
Cambodia should not be a "bad label"
In any place, there is a figure of hard work, and the region and gender should not become a bad label, indiscriminately attached to everyone, which is our most basic kindness to a stranger.
In recent years, due to the rampant telecommunications fraud activities hidden in Cambodia, many people's impression of Cambodia has changed, and cambodia will inevitably have some problems in the process of development, but the three words of Cambodia should not become a stereotyped label, once they hear people working in Cambodia, they avoid it, and even some people who are in Cambodia indiscriminately attack others.
Admittedly, there are some dark corners of Cambodia, but if you choose clean circles to live and work, those things will be far away from you. Just as the so-called one thought of heaven and one thought of hell, some people cannot withstand the temptation and are willing to embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes, and the final evil consequences can only be borne by themselves.
But those who work in normal business in Cambodia, men and women, should not be victims, objects of attack and insults together. In the process of development in Cambodia, there are Chinese in all walks of life, and on the streets of major cities such as Phnom Penh, various Chinese signs can be seen everywhere. In various Chinese-funded enterprises and projects, there are many Chinese choose to stay abroad and work hard, among which there are many girls.
Therefore, whether it is a Cambodian Chinese or a Chinese girl in Cambodia, it should not be defined in general, some people have a lifetime, and some people take firm and powerful steps and constantly chase their lives. #柬埔寨 #