preface
Wang Zhifei is an excellent actor in the mainland, who has starred in "Good Dad Bad Dad", "Book of Swords and Vengeance", "Highlight the Siege", "Storm Court", "Rainy Night Horror", "Crime Scene", "The Wind Blows the Clouds and Moves the Stars",
"100,000 People's Homes", "Hero Tears", "Operation Without Borders", "Walking on the Tip of the Knife", "Floating and Sinking", "Rushing Out of the Fog", "Storm Dance", "Sweeping Black Storm" and other TV series,
In the recent hit "Happiness to Ten Thousand Families", Wang Zhifei also had a wonderful performance, cameo Xu Yani's father,
Although there are only a few scenes, the image of an official from a poor background who is dragged down by a rural family is portrayed very well.
Wang Zhifei has been married twice, and when he first married, he was not yet famous, and he had no feelings for his wife at all.
Although he also gave birth to a son, Wang Zhifei did not have the joy of being a father.
Even when his son grew up on the stage of "I Am Not a Star", he was scolded by Wang Zhifei on the spot, and the father and son even pushed and shoved in public.
Later, he and Zhang Xinyi had an affair because of the drama, and because Zhang Xinyi forced his wife to divorce, but unfortunately, 9 years later, Wang Zhifei suddenly unilaterally announced that he had broken up with Zhang Xinyi.
And in the second year, he married Zhang Dinghan, a 15-year-old actor who was younger than himself, and it took only 3 days from love to marriage, Wang Zhifei said that it was Zhang Dinghan's words that touched him and let him know that he had found the right person.
Two years later they gave birth to a lovely daughter, Wang Zhifei loves her daughter very much, is a proper "daughter slave", in order to accompany her daughter even reduced the time of filming,
Now that he and Zhang Xinyi have broken up for 9 years, looking at their marital status, it is too wise to understand why Wang Zhifei finally chose Zhang Dinghan.
01
The relationship between Wang Zhifei and Zhang Xinyi was a "love affair" from the beginning, and it was doomed to have no good results.
Wang Zhifei, born in Beijing in 1965, as soon as he was born, he bore the same vision as others.
Because his parents are deaf and mute, it is inconvenient to take care of him, and he usually has to go to work, so Wang Zhifei was carried to his grandparents' house to raise him as soon as he was born.
As the eldest son and grandson of the family, the man who set up the door, the grandparents loved him very much, and in order to take better care of him, the grandmother also went through the retirement procedures in advance.
Until he grew up, Wang Zhifei really experienced the taste of being ridiculed, and when he grew up, the children in the hutong would laugh at his parents for being deaf and mute, collectively isolating him, and secretly making up a smooth mouth to sing.
Whenever his parents led him through the factory area, there were many bad children standing next to him and shouting: "Dumb is coming dumb", Wang Zhifei was very angry, and he also felt very humiliated.
Little Wang Zhifei did not know how to understand his parents, he often cried and ran home, whenever his parents came to care for him, he would always say with disgust: "You go away",
Later, he became taciturn, hiding the fact that his parents were deaf and mute deep in his heart and rarely mentioning it to outsiders.
When he was 10 years old, by chance, Wang Zhifei was selected to participate in a drama performance, and since then, the seeds of acting have been planted in his heart.
However, although the image is handsome, Wang Zhifei's acting road is full of ups and downs and twists, and it is too suitable to use it on him when he is not born.
At the age of 17, Wang Zhifei applied for the Central Academy of Drama, in order to test him to practice hard, but unfortunately before the re-examination began, he practiced too fiercely because of the practice of his voice, and he collapsed.
After entering the examination room, no matter how comforting the examiners were, Wang Zhifei could not make a sound, and it was a pity that he missed this opportunity.
I wanted to take the exam again the next year, but I didn't expect that there was no enrollment in 1983, so Wang Zhifei had to enter the factory as an electrician, and it wasn't until 1984 that he was admitted to the China Railway Literary troupe drama troupe.
Wang Zhifei cherished this opportunity very much, because of his excellent performance, he was sent to the Central Academy of Drama for further study, and finally completed his dream, and became a classmate with Juanzi, Fu Biao, and Lin Jinglai.
In college, Wang Zhifei carefully prepared for making money after graduation, 5 homework are 100 points, known as "5 points student",
At that time, Zhou Lijing was very red, and Wang Zhifei looked a bit like him, and he stole beauty in his heart: I look so similar to him, I will definitely be as red as him after graduation.
But I didn't expect that after graduation, the form changed greatly, Zhou Lijing disappeared, the idol faction was not popular, the ugly stars were in charge, like Ge You, Xie Yuan, Liang Tian, etc., were very popular, and the original "slipping the pot edge, rubbing the bowl along the child", but all became the main actor,
On the contrary, as the first marshal in the class, Wang Zhifei did not have any drama to look for him, he was very depressed, and he felt that he was really not born at the right time.
In order to live, Wang Zhifei even went to the printing factory with his brothers to apply, and also sold lottery tickets and opened fish ponds.
Until 1987, Wang Zhifei got the opportunity to star in a children's drama, playing the teacher Chen Ping in "Good Dad Bad Dad".
The drama won the first prize of the 9th China TV Drama Feitian Awards for Children's Television Series, as well as the Outstanding Screenwriter Award, and Wang Zhifei gradually became famous.
But he can still only play supporting roles, often for Ge You, Xie Yuan and other people as a match, he is very unwilling, feel that growing up as a protagonist to drink five or six, while he grew into such a thing only has two or three lines, but there is nothing to do for life.
In 1993, at the age of 27, Wang Zhifei's career was still not improving, and his parents began to urge marriage, and asked people everywhere to find him a partner.
02
Finally, under the introduction of friends, Wang Zhifei met his first wife Li Jian, Li Jian is not beautiful, but he is a very down-to-earth person, very suitable for marriage and life.
Wang Zhifei followed her parents' orders and married her, and the next year gave birth to a son Wang Ye, but Wang Zhifei did not have the joy of being a father.
When his son was only eight or nine months old, Wang Zhifei, who had been crying and crying, was impatient, and he directly turned his son over and slapped him on the buttocks.
Unexpectedly, his son did not cry, but he also hated him from then on, and he found that when he often called his son's name, his son ignored him.
And because Wang Zhifei has been filming outside for a long time, he and his wife and son have gathered less and more, and the feelings of father and son are also very indifferent, not to mention the feelings of husband and wife.
In 1999, Wang Zhifei finally won the Audience Favorite Supporting Actor Award at the First China Golden Eagle Television Arts Festival with "Highlighting the Siege".
At this time, he really experienced the taste of popularity, the film came one after another, shooting six or seven dramas a year, not going home for many years, and the couple's feelings were precarious, just on the verge of collapse.
At this moment, a newcomer actress who was 16 years younger than him stepped into her field of vision.
She is Zhang Xinyi, Zhang Xinyi is a dancer, beautiful and good-looking, but the family difficulties have no background and can not get any resources.
In front of Wang Zhifei, she behaved with a sassy personality, not like a Sichuanese at all, but very much like a Beijing lady, which was very appetizing to Wang Zhiwen, and since then, he has fallen into her "trap" and become her "prey".
When the two people meet in "The Wind Blows the Clouds and The Stars Don't Move", it is like an electric stone fire, Wang Zhifei loves her atmosphere and straightness, Zhang Xinyi likes him to be mature, wise and courageous, regardless of his family to show him kindness.
Before the scene was finished, the two people came together, and Wang Zhifei simply filed for divorce from his wife.
However, Li Jian still loved him deeply and never agreed, and did not sign it until two years later.
After Wang Zhifei and Zhang Xinyi fell in love, they also spent a lot of sweet and happy times, Wang Zhifei introduced his resources to her, if it were not for him, Zhang Xinyi would not have been able to get so many scripts from the Beijing circle.
But surprisingly, two people have been together for 9 years, one is 47 years old, the other is 31 years old, but they have never been married.
And during this period, Zhang Xinyi filmed a drama will spread a scandal, and during the filming of "What to Save You, My Love", a scandal was passed out with Jia Nailiang.
The dinner party with Li Chen during the filming of "Beijing Love Story" was also filmed, and the most important thing was the scandal she had with director Yang Shupeng during the filming of the movie "Pifu".
In addition to being the director of this play, Yang Shupeng is also an investor, he knows that Zhang Xinyi has a boyfriend, but as long as he likes him, he will not care so much, and when filming, he launched a fierce pursuit of Zhang Xinyi.
Zhang Xinyi knew that this was not right, but at that time, Yang Shupeng and Wang Zhifei obviously had more say, so they kept hovering between the two men.
In the end, Wang Zhifei could not sit still, and he suddenly unilaterally announced that he and Zhang Xinyi had broken up, and generously wished her happiness.
The 9-year relationship came to an end, and soon after Zhang Xinyi admitted to his love affair with Yang Shupeng, and in 2013, he was licensed to marry.
Unfortunately, this marriage only lasted for 1 year, and it was divorced in a flash, which made people sigh.
In fact, this marriage has long been doomed to the end, Yang Shupeng was a bad teenager on the street when he was young, because of his father's reasons, he came into contact with movies.
He has an extreme and cynical personality, and is not a suitable person to marry, this time, Zhang Xinyi looked away.
03
After the breakup, Wang Zhifei originally had no hope for marriage, and he felt that it was impossible to meet the kind of girl he wanted to find in this life.
He once thought that Zhang Xinyi was, but he did not expect that Zhang Xinyi was also a person who chased money and fame, and her "stupidity" turned out to be a shrewd disguise.
And because he lived a superior life when he was a child, he never saved money, and when the film was paid, he went out to drink with his buddies and spent it not long ago, which may also be the reason why Zhang Xinyi is insecure.
Until 2013, he met Zhang Dinghan, who is also a Beijinger, at an event, Zhang Dinghan is a costume drama goddess, who has starred in TV series such as "Tianya Mingyue Dao", "New Gan Nineteen Sisters", "The Legend of Wu Meiniang" and so on.
It was a public welfare activity for the deaf and dumb, Wang Zhifei did not expect the beautiful Zhang Dinghan to be so loving, and very patient with the deaf and dumb, he immediately felt that she was the person he wanted to find, so he pursued her.
Zhang Dinghan was still a little hesitant at first, thinking that the age gap between the two people was too big, but his mother did a "god assist".
Mom is Wang Zhifei's iron fan, as long as it is Wang Zhifei's TV series, she chases in front of the TV every day, and she also chants all day:
"You see how good Wang Zhifei's acting skills are, if you can find me such an aunt in the future, I will be satisfied."
Zhang Dinghan thought to himself, let's try it together, but I didn't expect to encounter embarrassing things just together.
Don't look at Wang Zhifei who has been filming for so many years, but he doesn't have a house, basically running with the crew, occasionally returning to Beijing to stay in a hotel.
After they confirmed the relationship, Wang Zhifei talked about his lack of place to live, and Zhang Dinghan immediately said: "I have a nest here, you come",
Wang Zhifei did not expect Zhang Dinghan to be so atmospheric and not twisted, and he did not mind that he did not have a house, because of this sentence, he made up his mind at the moment: he must marry her!
So on the third day of the relationship, Wang Zhifei proposed to her.
At that time, Zhang Dinghan was shopping in the Guomao Building, and suddenly received a call from Wang Zhifei, asking where she was, and it didn't take long for Wang Zhifei to appear, still holding the household registration book in his hand, and he was going to take her to get the certificate at the moment.
Zhang Dinghan was shocked, she actually just wanted to talk about a relationship, but she didn't think about getting married.
So she said in a hurry: "You are too anxious, not even a ring and a marriage proposal, how can you buy a ring first, if you can buy a ring that suits me, I will go with you to get a license." ”
Because Zhang Dinghan knew that his hands were very thin, it was difficult to buy a ring, so he wanted to delay it, but he did not expect That Wang Zhifei immediately pulled her full of shopping mall counters to try the ring, and he was sweating profusely.
Zhang Dinghan looked at him, and her heart silently surged with a wave of emotion, and she suddenly found that she had a voice in her heart saying: If you really can't find the ring, what if you miss him?
Zhang Dinghan was also startled by himself, and it turned out that his heart had already identified him.
Fortunately, in the end, the salesman looked left and right in the warehouse, and finally found a suitable ring, Wang Zhifei excitedly took out the ring, got down on one knee in front of everyone, and proposed to Zhang Dinghan.
Zhang Dinghan was already in tears and nodded happily.
After receiving the license, Zhang Dinghan originally did not want to do the wedding, but Wang Zhifei was determined to hold the wedding, and he also wanted to hold a big one.
The planning and preparation of the whole wedding was handled by Wang Zhifei, and he also gave Zhang Dinghan a new wedding gift very carefully:
He recorded a video for Zhang Dinghan, and he walked alone through the elementary school, junior high school, high school and college where Zhang Dinghan had once attended, and looked at the roads and shops that Zhang Dinghan had walked every day when he had not yet met her.
Finally he said, "It would have been nice if I had met you sooner." ”
04
After marriage, Wang Zhifei reduced the speed of filming, he stipulated to himself that he only shoots 3 plays a year, and the rest of the time is used to accompany his wife.
But unexpectedly, just when he wanted to enjoy life in a low-key manner, his son Wang Ye also caused him a big trouble.
Wang also likes music since childhood, loves to sing, and wants to take the road of singer, for Wang Ye's idea, Wang Zhifei has always not supported,
Wang also went to the bar to sing, and Wang Zhifei went to stir up trouble for him and let the boss fire him, but the son was still rebellious and must sing.
In 2014, he secretly signed up for "I Am Not a Star", disclosed his identity, hoping to promote himself through this show.
Then he let Wang Zhifei go to his place, and Wang Zhifei was very angry and dismissive of his behavior.
First of all, the son violated his principle of hoping that family affairs should not be made public, which added a lot of troubles to him, and then he looked down on his son who could not sing it himself, so he used his father's fame to consume Lao Tzu, which was too boring.
But he still went to the scene, but he did not go to help, but to embarrass his son in public.
He bluntly said that he did not support his singing debut,
Wang also said angrily: "Making music is a lifelong dream, and I will not give up when I break my hands and feet." ”
Wang Zhifei also did not let up: "I will not agree to this matter, even if he hates me, I will not let him continue to be wrong." ”
In the end, the father and son still pushed each other, and Wang Zhifei wanted to pull him down, and also said: "Don't go home after you don't go home with me this time.".
But Wang also stood firmly on the stage, and finally Wang Zhifei stepped off the stage with a blue face.
As soon as this matter came out, many people expressed their anger: Is it so rebellious to make music? Even if you don't approve, there is no need to embarrass your son so much, Wang Zhifei's desire to control is simply suffocating,
There are even many people who say that he is completely different from the children of his two wives, too eccentric to be a father.
In 2015, Zhang Dinghan also gave birth to a daughter, and Wang Zhifei really treated this daughter in the palm of his hand, usually feeding, changing diapers, coaxing these work without other people's share, Wang Zhifei all did it,
On the other hand, his attitude towards his son's disgust is really a world of difference, and later Wang Zhifei explained in an interview: "I want to use the radical method, maybe he can make some achievements if he is excited like this."
Things within the star family can not be judged, but Aiwu and Wu are certain, Wang Zhifei has no feelings for his ex-wife, and his feelings for his son are also very thin, and once his son disobeys, he has no patience.
He is much gentler to his daughter, which is also related to his love for Zhang Dinghan, but Zhang Dinghan is indeed worthy of his love.
After 9 years of marriage, Zhang Dinghan sacrificed a lot for this family, fully supported Wang Zhifei's career, and she never asked Wang Zhifei to give her all the money, and the two people spent their own money.
She also does not have much desire for money, as long as there is no shortage of money, and she does not like to buy luxury goods.
And she has a straightforward and atmospheric personality, never hides it, how to think about it, never need to guess and think, which makes Wang Zhifei very worry-free.
She also never cared about Wang Zhifei going out to drink with friends, never looking at his mobile phone, trusting him 100%, even if others gossiped, she did not listen.
Wang Zhifei is handsome, has a lot of fans, and often has friends who secretly tell Zhang Dinghan when filming,
Which actress sent Wang Zhifei a pipe, which sent Wang Zhifei coffee, but Zhang Dinghan felt very happy, which means that her husband is popular.
Now the family of three lives very happily, Wang Zhifei and his son also eased the relationship, Wang also somehow emptied all social platforms, no longer appeared, it is said that he has married and had children,
It may be that you have understood your father's hard heart, sometimes the arranged life is not necessarily a bad thing, your father is willing to plan for your future, this is already a responsible father, mutual understanding is true.