01 Preface
"Old Shao, or we should still divorce, I am dragging you down too much."
"What do you say?" When I had no money and no red before, you didn't abandon me; Now that you're sick, I'll abandon you? So who have I become? I can't do it! ”
"Take good care of your illness, don't think about it, be good."
Shao Feng said softly to his wife.
His wife, Zhao Xia, was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, systemic lupus erythematosus, in 1999;
She saw her husband running day and night for her, and she was still in debt, and she couldn't bear it; So he proposed divorce and wanted to reduce her husband's burden, but Shao Feng firmly disagreed.
After that, Shao Feng worked hard to film, accompanied his sick wife for more than 20 years, and survived the difficulties with his wife.
Fortunately, Shao Feng's efforts were not in vain, he used his persistence and all his love to make his wife usher in a second life.
His story not only made Zhao Xia cry, but also made fans who loved him praise him as a real man and a good man.
02
Shao Feng is an actor we are very familiar with, he has appeared on stage 11 times at the Spring Festival Gala, is a nationally certified first-class actor, and his acting skills have also been recognized by the audience.
In 1968, in an ordinary worker's family in Jinan, Shandong Province, a new life was ushered in, and he was Shao Feng.
In our cognition, Shandong people are generally tall and large, but Shao Feng has been thin and small in the crowd since he was a child, and his head is not tall.
Looking around, Shao Feng was not conspicuous at all in the crowd.
Shao Feng has a lively personality since he was a child, and often climbs trees with his friends of the same age to catch birds and fish in the water.
Although Shao's father and mother Shao were a little helpless, they knew that boys were lively and playful, and they felt that as long as their sons could grow up safely, they didn't need to say anything more.
Later, they found that as their son grew older, his playful personality gradually converged, and what they did not expect was that Shao Feng began to show the characteristics of calm and literary art.
When Shao Feng was in middle school, there was an old gentleman who said fast books near the school;
This made Shao Feng have a strong interest in Shandong Fast Books, and every day when he came home from school, he would listen to one or two hours of fast books on the street before he was willing to go home.
Listening to others, it is better to sing a period of happiness yourself, Shao Feng's mind has such an idea.
Perhaps it was his own talent, Shao Feng himself opened his mouth to sing two or three times to have that feeling, although the words that insiders came to listen to were not particularly authentic, but for an amateur newcomer, it was already very perfect.
Shao Feng began to regard Shandong Kuaishu as his hobby, and sang a paragraph when he had nothing to do.
In the blink of an eye, his student career was coming to an end, and he had thought that his grades were not good, and there was no hope of going to college, so he found a factory to earn money to support himself.
However, Shao's father felt that his son was young and lacked experience in breaking into society, so he encouraged him to join the army.
"Xiao Feng, you first go to the army to train for two years, carefully plan your future path, and then go to break into society, maybe you can still find your own place of use in the army, in short, being a soldier is a hundred benefits to you."
Shao Feng listened to his father's words and felt that it was very reasonable, so he answered the call and became a member of the army.
After becoming a soldier, Shao Feng's artistic talent was soon discovered by the leaders, so he was transferred to the literary and art department, and he also became a literary and artistic soldier.
Shao Feng was very happy, and on the first day of reporting, he gave his comrades a shandong quick book, and the comrades applauded.
However, Shao Feng was still immersed in the emotion of joy and did not come out, and he encountered the first difficulty.
Because his appearance is not prominent, and his height is not dominant, he can only do some chores, and even the dragon set cannot run.
Later, he was directly asked to go to the logistics department of the literary and art department to stir-fry and cook for the actors in front.
Years later, Shao Feng said in an interview on the show:
"I'm relatively low, I can't reach the stove, so I can only stand on the pot and stir-fry, fortunately, my comrades-in-arms do not dislike me, and praise me for the delicious food."
Although he became a logistics staff, Shao Feng was not discouraged, and he still maintained a heart full of yearning for art.
Every time he finished his work in the back kitchen, he would seize the time to run to the front desk to watch his teammates rehearse, and when he encountered places he couldn't understand, Shao Feng would always humbly ask for advice.
Comrades-in-arms saw that he loved to learn, and people were still down-to-earth, and they would patiently give him answers and add some additional knowledge for him.
Shao Feng listened intently, keeping in mind each newly learned knowledge, and from time to time he took a few minutes to review it, and if he had the chance, he would also carry out actual combat.
He has been waiting for the opportunity to perform on stage, he feels that there is no now, does not mean that there will be no future, he firmly believes that the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared.
Shao Feng's belief and preparation were correct.
Once, before the rehearsal of the party, the actors who had been scheduled to have a long vacation suddenly had to take a long vacation at home.
The leader felt that since the actors could not come, let's cancel the show.
Shao Feng also heard the news, and he thought of volunteering to fight for this role.
So he went to the leader and spoke his mind.
The leader felt that he was small and had no characteristics in appearance, and was just about to deny his idea.
Shao Feng said, "After you watch me perform, you will make a decision, okay?" ”
The leader felt that it would not take long to watch a performance, so he agreed to him.
Shao Feng immediately began a 3-minute "audition", and he mixed all the things he had accumulated during this time.
Although his performance is still a bit green, it is enough to make the audience shine.
The leader patted Shao Feng's shoulder and said, "Xiao Shao, your performance is very novel and interesting, and I decided to let you replace this vacant role." ”
Shao Feng also responded excitedly to the leader: "We will certainly not live up to your expectations." ”
Since there were not many days left before the official performance, Shao Feng, in order to integrate into the rehearsal team as soon as possible and reach a tacit understanding with them, he stayed up late to read the script and used all the small fragments to memorize the lines.
He felt that this was a small turning point for himself, and it was the first time he had performed on stage, and Shao Feng both valued and cherished it.
With his efforts, the performance was very successful, which attracted a round of applause from the audience.
After this time, Shao Feng finally "escaped" from the back kitchen and became an official actor.
Shao Feng suddenly understood what his father said to him before he joined the army, and he found the direction of his future development - taking the road of acting.
He began to learn a lot of professional knowledge in the performance team, and every day in addition to eating and sleeping, he memorized words and rehearsed.
Although monotonous, Shao Feng felt very meaningful.
Soon, under his hard work, in 1990, he was transferred from the performance team to the Jinan Military Region Drama Troupe and became a formal drama actor.
Here, not only did he polish his character and make him a tough soldier, but he also met a beautiful love.
03
Not long after Shao Feng became a drama actor, someone introduced him to the object.
Before they met, the girls were satisfied with the cover when they heard that they were soldiers or actors acting in dramas, but after meeting, they found that Shao Feng was short and not handsome, so they all rejected him.
Shao Feng knew that his appearance conditions were not particularly good, and he felt that it was reasonable to be rejected, he did not particularly care, and continued to concentrate on studying drama.
Later, when a colleague wanted to introduce a girlfriend to Shao Feng, he directly said:
"You'd better tell people about my appearance first, and if the girls don't have any opinions, they'll meet again, or they'll delay their time."
His colleague laughed and said, "Xiao Shao, you are more afraid of being rejected, rest assured, I have told people well, people girls don't care about your height, she said that your character is good." ”
After Shao Feng heard this, he immediately put down the line book in his hand and said, "Really? ”
"Of course it's true, I can still pit you into not being able to do it, brother, meet this weekend, you dress up Liso, don't lose me."
"Well, don't worry."
Shao Feng said with a smile.
However, he thought about it for a moment and was a little afraid; He thought to himself: This girl doesn't care about height, so there can't be any problem, right?
After thinking about it for two minutes, he felt that his idea was very bad.
"You can't think of others like that, there are so many bad people."
Shao Feng said to himself.
Soon, it was time to schedule a meeting, and Shao Feng dressed himself very sharply, and also went to get a haircut and brought a flower to the appointment.
Shao Feng arrived at the agreed location 10 minutes ahead of schedule, after which he saw a girl with a ponytail and walking towards him.
It was as if there was a deer in his heart, and when the girl approached, his heart was also fast to the extreme.
"Hello, my name is Zhao Xia, are you Teacher Shao?"
The girl smiled and squinted.
Shao Feng saw that the girl was so enthusiastic and rushed to introduce himself.
"I don't think Teacher Shao said it so badly, did your colleague deliberately joke with you?" I think you're both humorous and talented. ”
Zhao Xia said jokingly again.
Immediately, the two of them chatted about you and me.
They both made a good impression on each other when they first met, and after this date, the interaction between the two became more and more frequent, and soon entered the sea of love.
After talking for a while, Zhao Xia and Shao Feng were also ready to talk about marriage.
Shao Feng, who has always been responsible in front of his girlfriend, actually had some ink marks on this critical juncture, and when Zhao Xia proposed to take him to see his parents, he was speechless.
This made Zhao Xia very puzzled, and she asked, "What's wrong, Shao Feng, haven't you ever thought of marrying me?" ”
"Of course not, I especially want to marry you, but..."
"Just what? Do you have any concerns? ”
Zhao Xia saw her boyfriend's appearance and was about to die.
"It's just that my family is poor, your family is better than me too much, I'm afraid my uncle and aunt won't agree to our marriage, but I will definitely try to earn money to make you live a good life, but now I don't have the courage to tell you this." 」
Shao Feng blushed and blurted out all the words in his heart in one breath.
Hearing these words, Zhao Xia was also relieved, she thought that Shao Feng did not want to marry him, she comforted:
"You are afraid of this, believe me, my parents will definitely agree with both of us, I don't hate you at all, and you don't have to be burdened;"
"You know, since I saw you acting in 'Class Meeting', I have fallen in love with you, and your talent and humor have deeply touched my heart, so I asked your colleagues to help us match, and I believe that you can make me live a good life." 」
Zhao Xia's words made Shao Feng feel incredible, he did not expect that his girlfriend admired himself and loved himself from within.
He felt that as a man, he could not be encouraged in the face of such a big right and wrong, and he had the courage to stand up and bear everything.
The next day, Shao Feng prepared many things to visit his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Zhao's father and mother Zhao were also very happy to see their son-in-law, they believed that their daughter's vision was correct, and in the process of conversation, they all felt that Shao Feng was down-to-earth and self-motivated.
He didn't care much about Shao Feng's family lineage and agreed to this family affair.
After that, Shao Feng also took Zhao Xia home to meet his parents, and Shao's father and Mother Shao saw that their daughter-in-law was well-behaved and sensible, so they urged them to hurry up and arrange the wedding;
He also promised: "I will definitely treat Zhao Xia as a daughter and give her the best wedding within my ability." ”
What girl doesn't have a wedding dream? Zhao Xia was no exception, but she knew that the conditions of Shao Feng's family were somewhat tight, so she made a very sensible proposal, and the wedding was done simply and generously;
This move touched the Shao family even more, especially Shao Feng, who vowed to let Zhao Xia live a good life.
In 1994, the wedding of the two was held as scheduled under the witness of relatives and friends; Life after marriage is still sweet, and it didn't take long for Zhao Xia to give birth to the crystallization of her and Shao Feng's love.
The birth of the child, in addition to bringing joy and laughter to the family, also made Shao Feng love his wife more, and he felt that his wife had given birth to a son and a half daughter for him, which was already a great hero in the family;
He worked hard to perform in the troupe, striving to get ahead as soon as possible, so that his wife and children could live a life of fine clothes and food.
However, the dream is beautiful, but the reality is cruel.
During that time, Shao Feng's career seemed to have reached a bottleneck period, his salary did not rise, and his position did not rise.
He was very disappointed, and he did not want to show it in front of his wife; But the careful Zhao Xia still noticed her husband's abnormality.
She carefully asked her husband, "Is there something wrong with you, or is there something difficult that cannot be solved?" ”
Shao Feng told his wife all the distress of the career bottleneck.
Zhao Xia said, "I was scared to death, I thought I had encountered something big!" Take your time in your career, don't worry, you've made our mothers and daughters live well now, don't blame yourself too much. ”
Shao Feng felt that his wife was a good medicine for him to reassure him, and every time he encountered a problem, Zhao Xia always had a way to comfort him and make him feel comfortable.
And afterwards, he was more motivated to work.
The little couple's life was uneventful and happy.
However, an illness was eroding Zhao Xia's body, and she didn't know it.
04
In 1999, Zhao Xia, who has always been strong and strong, actually got out of bed to be supported by her husband, and it was not long before she found that she had red spots on her body;
Shao Feng saw the situation and hurriedly packed up his things and took his wife to the hospital;
However, Zhao Xia was afraid of spending money, she thought that she had some skin disease, comforted her husband that her husband was no big deal, and asked Shao Feng to apply the ointment that was often prepared at home.
After using the ointment for a few days, it was still not good, and her knees hurt badly, Shao Feng could not hold back any longer, he said that he would take his wife to the hospital for treatment.
Zhao Xia also couldn't stand the physical pain, and obediently followed her husband to the hospital.
When they arrived at the hospital, they did a basic examination according to the doctor's medical advice, and then waited in the waiting area.
Not long after, a doctor in a white coat came out of the house and shouted at Shao Feng and his wife, "Hey, you two, come in with me." ”
Shao Feng saw that there were so many people queuing in front of him, but he called them first, and he thought that the doctor had seen his sketch and recognized him.
Later, Shao Feng learned that in fact, the doctor did not know him at all, and called him in advance only because Zhao Xia's condition was more serious.
After entering the house, the doctor said:
"We have a basic understanding of your lover's situation, and we have initially concluded that it is lupus erythematosus, but don't worry, the chance of curing this disease is still very large, and now we need your cooperation and hospitalization."
"Go home and get the money, about a hundred thousand." The doctor added.
At that time, 100,000 yuan was a huge amount of money, and Shao Feng knew that the family only had 3,000 yuan in savings, but he did not frown, and when he returned home, he immediately sold all the valuable things and borrowed them from his relatives and friends.
Shao Feng's usual life allowed him to accumulate a good reputation, and soon enough life-saving money was 100,000 yuan, but the family was also "looted".
Zhao Xia also began the "Wolf Warrior Journey", although she could not accept this fact for a while, she once felt that she was a useless person;
But Shao Feng said:
"Without you, I will not live, you are my spiritual pillar, daughter-in-law."
Zhao Xia choked up, "Then I will live well." ”
She suddenly regained the meaning of her life, and she felt that she was still needed, not a waste.
At the beginning, Zhao Xia, in accordance with the doctor's requirements and accompanied by her husband, treated everything smoothly and the condition was effectively controlled.
Not long after, he was successfully discharged from the hospital.
After being discharged from the hospital, Zhao Xia continued to follow the doctor's instructions and take drugs, one of which was a hormone drug, although it could cure the disease, but it also made Zhao Xia's body become very bloated, and also led to necrosis of the femoral head.
This left her with a wheelchair every day, and she felt that she had lost hope in life.
And the operation cost more than 100,000 yuan, because he could not come up with so much money for a while, Shao Feng sold everything that could be sold at home.
She watched her husband work for the family every day, earn money during the day, and come back at night to take care of himself.
One day, Zhao Xia finally couldn't help it, and said to her husband: "Divorce, old Shao, I don't want to drag you down." ”
"Say what, take the medicine and go to sleep."
Shao Feng said softly.
Zhao Xia repeated it again, and the opening scene appeared.
After Shao Feng calmed his wife's heart, he thought about how to be famous, and only when he was famous could he treat his wife.
Although he would also be tired, he felt that his wife was under no less pressure than him, and in this marriage, Shao Feng felt that his wife was more upset.
During that time, his friends all said: "Shao Feng wants to go crazy, but it is all for his wife, and old Shao is not easy." ”
In 2000, Shao Feng decided to go to the entertainment industry to break through.
However, there was not much of a wave, but Shao Feng did not give up, he firmly believed that as long as he worked hard, he could succeed.
His sincerity may have touched the heavens, and in 2005, Shao Feng ushered in a turnaround in his career.
He starred in "Don't Take The Bean Bag Improper Dry Food", which was loved by the audience as soon as it was broadcast, and Shao Feng's fame gradually increased.
Later, with this popularity, he has starred in many TV series, and has also been well received.
After that, Shao Feng relied on his own strength, in 2007, he appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and starred in sketches with Guo Donglin.
Since then, he has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times, becoming the evergreen tree of the Spring Festival Gala, and sending blessings to the audience on Chinese New Year's Eve Night.
06 Conclusion
Shao Feng's industry is thriving, he also takes all the money to see his wife, and no matter how busy he is, he will take care of his wife's emotions and make her happy every day.
Under Shao Feng's love and companionship, Zhao Xia's health is getting better and better every day, and the operation of osteonecrosis of the femoral head is also very successful.
Now her body was recovering like a normal person, and Shao Feng was still as loving as ever.
Shao Feng is a dedicated and good actor in acting; In the family, it is a responsible good husband, a good man who is rare to see.
Life is not acting in movies, there is no movie plot that makes people feel moving all the time;
True love doesn't have to be vigorous, and it doesn't have to be sweet; Those who can share suffering and happiness are the people who should be cherished the most.
Originality is not easy, do not copy, wash the manuscript, if there is a will be in-depth study;
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