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Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

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Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

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When it comes to actor Shao Feng, everyone may not be familiar with it, and they may even be confused.

Because in the entertainment industry, there are two actors named Shao Feng.

And the actor Shao Feng we mentioned this time has appeared on the Spring Festival Gala 10 times, and went bankrupt to treat his wife.

It can be said that Shao Feng's inspirational and touching story is worthy of our Xi and praise.

Now, Shao Feng, who has accompanied his wife for 23 years, how many bitter tears did he pay back then?

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

One

In 1968, Shao Feng was born in an ordinary family in Jinan, Shandong Province.

His father was a worker, his mother was a pharmacist, and the family was ordinary and happy.

Because his parents are busy with work, Shao Feng grew up with his grandparents since he was a child, and he is not strict with his discipline.

Therefore, Shao Feng has been very naughty since he was a child, and has become a "bear child" in the eyes of teachers and neighbors.

Some parents even said directly to their children: "You are not allowed to play with Shao Feng." ”

After going to high school, Shao Feng was also very worried about teachers in school.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Once, Shao Feng found a nail on his desk, so he went out to find a brick and smashed it down.

As a result, Shao Feng was seen by the principal when he was looking for bricks, and then reprimanded him without asking for a reason:

"What are you doing with bricks? Who are you going to fight with? You can go to this high school, or your father is looking for me. ”

This sentence completely made Shao Feng feel aggrieved and helpless, he felt that he must study hard to make everyone look at him.

So, Shao Feng began to study hard to Xi, and his grades soon improved by leaps and bounds, and he also took the first place in the class.

Shao Feng, whose grades have become excellent, has also made his parents more full of expectations for him.

After graduating from high school, his father let Shao Feng enter the army for training.

After arriving in the army, Shao Feng was selected into the propaganda team because he did not sing out of tune.

But what Shao Feng didn't expect was that after he arrived at the propaganda team, he didn't have a fate with literature and art.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Because of his ordinary appearance, Shao Feng was assigned to the cooking class to cook, which also ushered in a new challenge for him.

Shao Feng didn't know how to cook before, so he had to start learning Xi all over again, and because he was short, every time he made a big pot of rice, he would stand on the pot table and stir-fry.

Although he is a cook, Shao Feng has not lost his love for literature and art, and every time he cooks a meal, he will go to watch everyone rehearse.

Shao Feng has a high level of understanding and is also very sensitive to lines, and every time he watches someone perform, he silently memorizes it by heart.

Sometimes, when he sees that some actors can't remember their lines, he is anxious and thinks that others are stupid.

Until a performance, Shao Feng finally waited for an opportunity.

At that time, the army was going to perform a cross talk, but on the day of the performance, an actor was unable to participate in the performance because of something.

And Shao Feng, who happened to be on the side, directly volunteered to say to the captain: "I can act."

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Seeing the embarrassing situation of one less person temporarily, the captain had no choice but to give it a try and agreed to let Shao Feng participate.

As a result, because Shao Feng often watched the performance, he performed very well on stage, which made the audience smile.

With this performance, Shao Feng's talent was completely discovered, and he also won the first prize of the program and the outstanding performance award.

In 1990, Shao Feng entered the avant-garde drama troupe of Jinan Military Region with his own efforts and began to become a professional drama actor.

After entering the repertory troupe, Shao Feng began to work hard in his acting career, and gradually improved.

As his career gradually stabilized, it was time for Shao Feng, who was not young, to talk about marriage, but he had always been single.

An enthusiastic friend introduced him to a girl, and Shao Feng soon got his own love.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Two

The blind date is named Zhao Xia, and when the two met for the first time, they had dinner at a restaurant.

Zhao Xia said that she liked to eat rice, but there was no one in the restaurant, so Shao Feng got up directly and went to the restaurant next to him to buy a piece of rice and came back.

This careful and warm gesture also made Zhao Xia's first impression of Shao Feng very good, and the blind date between the two went very smoothly.

Since then, the two have been in frequent contact and eventually come together.

In 1994, Shao Feng and Zhao Xia fell in love for half a year and got married as they wished, officially becoming a distressed couple.

That year, Shao Feng was 26 years old.

When they got married, due to limited financial conditions, the couple lived in a small room allocated by the unit, but the two were full of beautiful visions for the future.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Shao Feng also began to work harder to break into his career, and in 1995 he went to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts to study Xi.

In 1997, Shao Feng won the first prize in the "Top 100 Sketch Grand Prix" held by the Chinese Drama Association with his work "Class Meeting" and won the third prize.

His career began to improve greatly, and his wife Zhao Xia also gave birth to a healthy and lovely son for him.

At this time, Shao Feng's career is stable, his family is happy, and his life is getting better and better.

But just when Shao Feng was immersed in the joy of a happy life, a huge blow fell on the husband and wife.

In 1999, his wife Zhao Xia often felt unwell, sometimes her body would be hot and painful.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

At first, Zhao Xia didn't take it to heart, maybe she felt that she was too tired, and it would be good to rest for a while.

But what Zhao Xia didn't expect was that after a period of time, not only did her body not improve, but became more serious, and she couldn't stand up.

At this time, Shao Feng began to realize that something was wrong, so he decided to take his wife to the hospital for examination.

When she went to the hospital, Zhao Xia was already unstable on her own, and she needed Shao Feng's support when queuing.

The hospital saw that Zhao Xia's condition was serious and special, so they directly called her to the ward.

Then the doctor directly hospitalized Zhao Xia, and Shao Feng and his wife realized the seriousness.

The results of the next day's examination left the two of them sad and shocked, and Zhao Xia was found to have an incurable disease in the immune system, that is, lupus erythematosus.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

There is no complete cure for this disease, and it is called "immortal cancer", but in fact, it can be life-threatening at all times.

At that time, the doctor told Shao Feng that the treatment of this disease would require about 100,000 yuan, which was a very large amount.

Hearing that he needed 100,000 yuan for treatment, Shao Feng felt a lot of pressure, because all his savings added up to only 3,000 yuan.

However, in order to treat his wife's illness, Shao Feng did not choose to give up and retreat, and began to borrow money from relatives and friends.

In addition, Shao Feng also began to find ways to make money and entered the entertainment industry.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

During that time, Shao Feng raised money while working, and had to go to the hospital to take care of his wife Zhao Xia, and he was physically and mentally exhausted.

Looking at Shao Feng, who was under great pressure, his wife Zhao Xia was very distressed, she didn't want to drag Shao Feng down.

So, his wife Zhao Xia took the initiative to ask Shao Feng for divorce, but Shao Feng directly refused and comforted her to treat her well and not think nonsense.

In the face of Shao Feng's encouragement and companionship, Zhao Xia began to become strong and decided to treat her illness well.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Three

After her illness, Zhao Xia has been suffering from illness, but she always maintains an optimistic attitude.

In order to make money to treat his wife, Shao Feng began to film desperately, regardless of the size of the role.

Every time his wife was worried about the cost of medical treatment, Shao Feng would comfort her and say:

"You don't have to worry about the money, it's all handed over to me, you can just cooperate with the doctor in the hospital with peace of mind. ”

It is precisely because of the belief in saving his wife that Shao Feng worked hard, and his career is thriving.

In 2007, Shao Feng also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and cooperated with Guo Dong in the sketch "Going Home", and became famous in one fell swoop.

Since then, Shao Feng has also become a "frequent visitor to the Spring Festival Gala", and has participated in many sketches.

In addition, Shao Feng also began to make continuous film appointments, participated in many film and television dramas, and his career was smooth.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

After his career was successful, Shao Feng's economic conditions became better and better, and he no longer worried about having no money to treat his wife.

One day, Shao Feng, who was busy with work outside, heard the news of his wife's deterioration, and he hurried to visit the hospital.

This time, his wife Zhao Xia's condition deteriorated rapidly, and she had necrosis of the femoral head, so she could only sit in a wheelchair.

This time, his wife Zhao Xia felt that her illness had been cured and there was no hope, so she filed for divorce from Shao Feng again.

Shao Feng knew that his wife Zhao Xia was unwilling to drag himself down, but he must not be a negative man, so he chose to refuse again.

When the two were in pain and despair, the doctor finally gave an optimal treatment plan.

However, because the risk of surgery is too high, it is difficult for any doctor to be willing to do it, which also makes the two feel anxious.

Shao Feng was unwilling to give up and began to look around for doctors who were willing to do surgery, and finally got his wish.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

The operation was extremely difficult and could lead to life-threatening, so the hospital asked Shao Feng to sign a three-page consent form for surgery.

After the operation was done the next day, Shao Feng looked at his wife lying on the hospital bed, and his heart was full of feelings and was extremely distressed.

Because the operation requires bone replacement, the pain level is extremely high, and it is not a general anesthesia, Zhao Xia endured great pain that ordinary people can not bear.

Whenever Shao Feng recalled the pain his wife endured during the operation, he couldn't continue to talk about it, and his heart was extremely sad.

Thankfully, the operation was successful, and the wife's condition was well treated, and the deterioration of the condition was also curbed.

However, this disease has not been cured, so Shao Feng can't stop, continue to work hard in his career, and make money to help his wife heal.

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

Today, Shao Feng is still in love with his wife, and has been accompanying his wife for treatment, and it has been 23 years now.

Shao Feng, who is 55 years old, has a successful career and a happy family, which can be regarded as a bittersweet end.

In September 2023, his son got married and started a family, and he and his wife finally became parents-in-law as they wished.

I have to say that Shao Feng can be called a peerless good man in the entertainment industry, who never abandons his sick wife and keeps his promise of love.

As he said: "His wife Zhao Xia has become a part of life." ”

Actor Shao Feng: The most correct decision in my life is to never give up treating my wife for 23 years

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