Text/Nagging Officer No. 1
In 1990, Yuan Yin met the cross-talk actor Hou Yaowen because of the play, and the two sparked a spark of love.
Although the difference between the two is 20 years, they still got married without hesitation and became a couple.
However, the marriage between the two people has completely come to an end because of the appearance of a person.
Later, Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng developed feelings, and the two came together desperately.
When Yuan Yin and Hou Yaowen got married, why did they turn around and fall in love with Dai Zhicheng?
After divorcing Hou Yaowen, she turned around and married Yuan Yin of Dai Zhicheng, did she get happiness?
One
Hou Yaowen had a failed marriage before he met Yuan Yin.
In 1979, Hou Yaowen married Liu Yan, a dancer in the Railway Literary troupe, and began his first marriage.
At that time, the relationship between the two was flat and stable, and they also gave birth to a daughter Hou Zhan.
After that, Hou Yaowen began to be busy with the cross-talk business, and gradually broke out of the hall of fame.
Just after the career has made a huge improvement, the marriage of Hou Yaowen and Liu Yan has also come to an end.
In 1990, Hou Yaowen and Liu Yan divorced.
That year, Hou Yaowen met another important woman in his life, that is, Yuan Yin.
Yuan Yin, a native of Heilongjiang, graduated from the Beijing Film Academy and is a talented girl.
After graduating from the Beijing Film Academy, Yuan Yin was assigned to the North Film Studio as an actress.
At that time, Yuan Yin, as a young actor, was working hard for her career.
Until 1990, Yuan Yin met Hou Yaowen while filming "Special Police".
Yuan Yin cherished the opportunity to act this time, so she was particularly attentive and hard working when filming.
In the play, Yuan Yin played a model who fell in love with Hou Yaowen, and did not expect the two to extend their feelings beyond the play.
At that time, Hou Yaowen had divorced Liu Yan and was in a time of emotional frustration.
After getting to know Yuan Yin, Hou Yaowen moved his heart again and completely fell in love with Yuan Yin.
Yuan Yin admired Hou Yaowen's talent very much, and was even more infatuated with his maturity and stability, and the two came together as they wished.
Whether it is in his career or life, Hou Yaowen takes good care of Yuan Yin.
However, although the two are very much in love, they are opposed by Yuan Yin's parents.
Yuan Yin's parents felt that Hou Yaowen had been divorced once and was 20 years older than their daughter Yuan Yin, and the two could not be together at all.
But Yuan Yin did not care about these worldly gaps, and she was even more determined to marry Hou Yaowen.
In 1993, Yuan Yin, despite her parents' objections, married Hou Yaowen, who was 20 years older than herself.
After marriage, Hou Yaowen still cared for Yuan Yin in every way, and the relationship between the two was stable and happy.
In addition, the two also created and discussed works together, becoming an enviable couple.
However, no matter how beautiful the marriage, there are also cracks, and the marriage of the two is like this.
Hou Yaowen has been busy with his career, so he had a child in the 5th year of marriage, and the two had a daughter, named Youyou.
After having children, Hou Yaowen loved Yuan Yin even more and worked hard to provide them with a better life.
To this end, Hou Yaowen became more diligent, busy with his career all day long, and rarely had time to go home.
Because of this, the marriage of the two also has a huge crisis.
Three
Hou Yaowen is very good to Yuan Yin, even if he is out of the house, he will often worry about Yuan Yin and his daughter.
He often worried that Yuan Yin would not be able to take care of himself at home alone, and he could not always accompany her.
Therefore, Hou Yaowen, who was distressed about Yuan Yin, thought of a way, and he decided to find someone to help take care of Yuan Yin.
And the people Hou Yaowen was looking for were Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei.
Hou Yaowen is Dai Zhicheng's uncle, and Yang Lei is a famous sketch actor, so they have a good relationship with each other.
In addition, at that time, Hou Yaowen's family and Dai Zhicheng's family lived in the same community, so they had close contacts.
Yang Lei also got along with Yuan Yin and became a good girlfriend, so Hou Yaowen decided to let Dai Zhicheng and his wife Take care of their wife Yuan Yin.
Later, Hou Yaowen often went out to work, desperately busy with his career, and the number of times he returned home was less and less, and Yuan Yinju was less and less away.
In the days when Hou Yaowen was not at home, Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei often went to take care of and visit Yuan Yin.
Yuan Yin is at home alone to take care of the children, and many things need help from others, so she is very grateful to Dai Zhicheng and his wife.
Over time, Hou Yaowen was also full of gratitude to Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei, but the ending made him feel regretful and helpless.
Later, Yang Lei found that her husband Dai Zhicheng was particularly concerned about Yuan Yin's affairs, almost on call, and even often went to find Yuan Yin.
Although Yang Lei sensed something was wrong, she did not pay attention to it, because she felt that there could be no problem between the two of them.
"At that time, I thought that Dai Zhicheng could not do such a thing, and it was a generation difference!"
But the fact is that Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin gradually developed feelings in the process of getting along, and the two secretly talked about love.
In 1987, Yang Lei met Dai Zhicheng, and the two began to get along as friends.
Later, Dai Zhicheng took the initiative to confess to Yang Lei, and the two finally came together as they wished.
It was not until 1997 that the two people who had been in love for many years got married and officially became a couple.
After the two got married, their relationship has been stable and happy, but in the end they have not been able to escape the fate of divorce.
Under the care of Dai Zhicheng, Yuan Yin gradually felt unprecedented warmth and love.
Compared with Hou Yaowen, who often goes out and is not at home, Dai Zhicheng, who is always by her side, is more considerate and gentle.
However, the two already have their own families, and it is impossible to hide their love affair all the time.
So, the two decided to divorce each other and then marry together.
In 2004, Dai Zhicheng, who had been eager for divorce, finally plucked up the courage to send a text message to Yang Lei.
At that time, Yang Lei had just rehearsed the Spring Festival Gala program, but she received divorce news from Dai Zhicheng.
Dai Zhicheng said to Yang Lei very directly: "Let's get a divorce." ”
Seeing that Dai Zhicheng suddenly filed for divorce with himself, Yang Lei was completely confused.
She didn't know what was going on? Why did Dai Zhicheng suddenly divorce himself?
Yang Lei, who did not want to divorce, even went to find a friend Li Jindou to reconcile, but Dai Zhicheng was determined to divorce.
In desperation, Yang Lei finally divorced Dai Zhicheng, ending a 12-year marriage relationship.
On the day of the divorce, Dai Zhicheng moved his things, left the house, and even took the mop.
Three
After watching Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei divorce, Yuan Yin also completely relaxed her heart and was ready to propose a divorce with Hou Yaowen.
A few months after Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei divorced, Yuan Yin and Hou Yaowen also divorced.
At that time, Hou Yaowen did not know why Yuan Yin wanted to divorce himself, and even felt that he was not doing well.
About half a year after divorcing Hou Yaowen, Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng lived together.
At this time, Hou Yaowen finally understood why Yuan Yin wanted to divorce herself, and it turned out that she had already fallen in love with Dai Zhicheng.
But after the divorce of Hou Yaowen, the tragedy of life began to strike completely.
On June 23, 2007, Hou Yaowen died suddenly at the age of 59.
The last days of Hou Yaowen's life were very lonely, and his apprentice Guo Degang once recalled painfully:
"In the late stage of Master's life, every time he returned to his four-story villa after acting, he cooked bowls of noodles in the middle of the night and ate them alone, not even a person who spoke his own words, and the successful people who had unlimited scenery on the stage in the eyes of outsiders actually had their own hardships."
After Hou Yaowen's death, Dai Zhicheng was ready to marry Yuan Yin, but many people came to dissuade him.
Li Jindou also said to Dai Zhicheng: "Yuan Yin is a master's aunt, if you marry her." Isn't this punching Hou Yaowen in the face?"
But Dai Zhicheng already loved Yuan Yin deeply, and he finally married Yuan Yin despite any worldliness and pressure.
After Hou Yaowen's death, Yuan Yin wrote an article to commemorate him, and she recalled their relationship in this way.
"In him, I found three kinds of feelings: father, lover and brother, at that time, I didn't know whether it was good or bad, I just felt that I needed these three kinds of love." 」
But no matter what, Hou Yaowen became a frustrated person in this marriage.
Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng's marriage has also been ridiculed, but the relationship between the two has always been rock solid.
After getting married, Dai Zhicheng was very considerate and gentle to Yuan Yin, and even considered her everywhere and did not let her suffer a little harm.
Dai Zhicheng was busy working to earn money, and Yuan Yin was at ease taking care of her children at home, and the marriage between the two was stable and happy.
In addition, Dai Zhicheng has always regarded Yuan Yin's daughter Yu Yu as his own and has become a good stepfather.
Dai Zhicheng will take a lot of time to accompany you to grow up, pick her up and drop her off at school, take her to play, and even help her complete her dream of chasing stars.
Over time, you also especially like Dai Zhicheng, and the relationship between the two is very close and harmonious.
After having a girl, Dai Zhicheng has not wanted his own children, and the two are like biological fathers and daughters.
Nowadays, you have already grown up and have your own life, and the days of Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin have been long and thin.
Fast forward many years, although the way Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin came together was not decent enough, they may be truly in love with each other.
Now, Yuan Yin has been married to Dai Zhicheng for 15 years, maybe she has really found her own happiness.