Text|Aomori
Editor|Situ Ye
Since ancient times, "red men and green women, uneasy in their rooms" have been despicable.
In ancient times, it was a big sin to "soak the pig cage".
"Unfaithful to feelings, unrighteous to brothers" is even more so.
However, in modern society, how many "scumbags and scumbags" who like the new and hate the old, and see different thoughts are still jumping happily.
Cross talk boss Hou Yaowen, who has been illustrious all his life, has brought laughter to many people.
Unexpectedly, he was "stolen" by his nephew Dai Zhicheng.
not only gave his young and beautiful wife and smart and lovely daughter to others.
In the end, I was one step ahead because of myocardial infarction.
If Hou Yaowen knew about it, would he hate the sky when he watched this pair of "adulterers and adulteresses" live happily and did not "borrow himself for 500 years" more.
01" Work hard all the way, middle-aged to marry a little wife"
If you want to say Hou Yaowen, at the end of the last century, everyone knew as long as he listened to some cross talk and watched some quyi.
He is the third son of cross talk master Hou Baolin.
Born in a famous family, but he has to break into the world by himself.
is not only the pioneer of Chinese cross talk, but also the mentor of Guo Degang, the "old club" of Deyun Club.
He was brilliant in life, but he was particularly bleak after death.
In order to fight for his inheritance, the family did not bury for 4 years.
But that's not what we're going to talk about today.
It is said that this Hou Yaowen has been exposed to the environment since he was a child, and he naturally wants to inherit his father's mantle when he grows up.
But his father didn't agree with him joining this industry, because in the past, all the people who talked about cross talk were street performers.
I don't have much culture, and I don't know how to read.
He felt that he had suffered this loss.
I don't want my son to do this.
But I didn't expect Hou Yaowen to be determined to do this business.
When I was in junior high school, I secretly took the exam for the Railway Art Troupe, and I hurried over as soon as I graduated.
Wait until you have a small achievement, and then confess to your father.
Hou Lao couldn't say anything.
After years of hard work, he has become one of the "Top Ten Laughing Stars in the Country".
Popularity is "rubbing" upward.
When he was young, Hou Yaowen was working hard in the cross talk world.
He never thought that one day he would be able to marry a wife who was 20 years old!
In 1990, Hou Yaowen and his first wife Liu Yan divorced.
Liu Yan is a colleague he met in the art troupe, and the two have been in love for a long time.
After getting married in 79, he also had an eldest daughter, Hou Zhan.
The relationship for more than ten years was finally divorced because of trivial matters and emotional weakening.
After that time, he took over the light comedy "Special Police".
Because of a little problem, the heroine of this drama has changed.
Hou Yaowen also got acquainted with Yuan Yin, who was temporarily hired by the crew to be the heroine.
At that time, Yuan Yin was only 22 years old and had just graduated from Beiying.
Not only is he young and beautiful, but he is also quite bold in his personality.
The energetic female college student plays with Hou Yaowen, who is middle-aged and old.
But there is nothing false at all.
In the play, she plays a model who is in love with Hou Yaowen.
I don't know if it's too naïve and ignorant or too deep into the play.
Yuan Yin's strong and fiery feelings gradually penetrated into real life.
Yixin belongs to Hou Yaowen, who is 20 years older than her, and "daddy boyfriend".
And Hou Yaowen couldn't hide his heart for her.
"Sesame seeds on mung beans", so naturally together.
The love is naturally strong in the depths.
Soon the two were thinking about getting married.
And Yuan Yin's parents have always been strongly opposed.
Hou Yaowen is not only old, but also married and has children.
No one wants their daughter, who has worked hard for more than 20 years, to be "arched" by an "old man".
But Yuan Yin, who was above the "love brain", couldn't listen to it at all.
She said that in Hou Yaowen, she found three feelings: "father, brother, and lover".
did not hesitate to cut off relations with his parents and marry Hou Yaowen.
Since the daughter insisted on doing so, no amount of words from the parents would help.
This pair of "old and young mandarin ducks" can be regarded as getting what they want.
02 Blindly believing in others, never thought of "luring wolves into the room"
Guo Degang and Yu Qian, the old partner, once performed such a cross talk:
B is going to a distant land, and there is a new wife at home who has no one to take care of.
A gag said to let yourself take care of it.
This paragraph is adapted from a real story "Wife and Child".
It's not groundless, the prototype of the story is all around us.
The wife of "Tuo" is Hou Yaowen's "young wife" Yuan Yin, so who is the person who will take it?
That is another actor in the cross talk industry - Dai Zhicheng.
Dai Zhicheng and Hou Yaowen are more than ten years old.
He studied under Li Boxiang, a master of quyi.
This Li Boxiang and Hou Yaowen were brothers and sisters back then.
Then Dai Zhicheng naturally became Hou Yaowen's nephew.
Yuan Yin, who was 5 years younger than him, became his aunt.
At that time, Hou Yaowen and his young wife had been married for a while.
Yuan Yin also gave birth to her second daughter "Niuniu" after she became pregnant.
A family of three also used to live very happily.
Yuan Yin not only keeps the house in order, but also helps her husband in his career.
Many of Hou Yaowen's works were also completed with the help of Yuan Yin.
But "happiness in the world is not always there".
At that time, Hou Yaowen's career was booming, and he was also promoted to an important leader of the Quyi Association.
Work is very hectic.
The time is basically filled with various schedules.
Nemoto Death Law Hui.
Because I can't rest assured, Yuan Yin is busy at home alone.
I am more worried about the safety of my wife and daughter.
So Hou Yaowen naturally thought of his nephew Dai Zhicheng, who had a good reputation in the industry.
It just so happens that the two families also live in the same neighborhood.
Dai Zhicheng also had a wife at that time, Yang Lei, who he met at the Spring Festival Gala before.
Hou Yaowen was very relieved to tell the matter, and then returned to work.
What he could never have expected in the future was:
This "good teacher and nephew"!
seemed to have a peaceful relationship with his wife, but it turned out to be that he "lured the wolf into the room".
His daughter recognized someone else as her father, and her wife became someone else's wife.
Dai Zhicheng was entrusted by his uncle, and of course he did his best at the beginning.
But after a long time, the feelings for the "aunt" have slowly "deteriorated".
Yang Lei, the strong and weak wife beside him, is compared with Yuan Yin, who is a little bird and full of femininity.
It's simply "one heaven and one earth".
As a man, he had "evil thoughts" that he shouldn't have.
And Yuan Yin, who was forced to "stay alive and widowed", also began to feel attached to Dai Zhicheng, who was very caring and caring.
The two of them "dry firewood and fire, you and me" for a while.
Gradually, Yang Lei found that Dai Zhicheng made more and more excuses not to go home, and the time became later and later.
But she didn't take it to heart when she had a big heart.
is an old husband and wife, and she has absolute trust in Dai Zhicheng.
It never occurred to me that he would betray.
But unexpectedly, it was such "tolerance" that directly caused her depression for the next 10 years!
03 "The incident happened in the east window, and the cutting was untidy and messy"
and Dai Zhicheng developed into an "underground romance".
The two made an appointment to be together openly one day.
Yuan Yin has never dared to divorce first because she is afraid of being abandoned.
Dai Zhicheng, who had fallen in love with her completely, also filed for divorce first.
The evening of the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve in 2004.
As soon as Yang Lei got off the stage after performing at the Spring Festival Gala, she received a text message from her husband.
There are five big characters on it:
"Let's get a divorce. ”
Simple, one sentence.
But it's like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, thunder on a rainy day.
Yang Lei felt like she had lost her soul on the spot.
She and Dai Zhicheng are both comedians.
The two have a lot in common both in life and work.
Yang Lei didn't understand why her husband, who had always been in love, sent such a message to herself.
At that time, she was surrounded by laughter and the sound of New Year's greetings.
Yang Lei could only force herself to calm down first.
Despite her busy schedule, she learned how to cook well.
So that my husband can feel the warmth of home when he comes home.
Although she has always wanted children, she still didn't want them for the sake of the development of the two of them.
After thinking about it, she finally decided that she had been busy rehearsing lately.
Ignoring her husband's emotions.
I finally managed to get through the time and go home.
Yang Lei's eyes widened.
I saw that my home seemed to have been ransacked.
Everything was emptied.
Didn't even leave her a broom!
In this sudden and huge sadness, Yang Lei could only reluctantly sign a divorce agreement with her husband.
Coincidentally, they had just divorced.
Hou Yaowen and Yuan Yin also divorced.
At first, Hou Yaowen thought that he had been too busy with work, which caused his wife to become increasingly dissatisfied.
also guiltily gifted Yuan Yin a lot of property.
Unexpectedly, not long after, his beautiful beloved wife immediately received the certificate with his nephew Dai Zhicheng!
Such a result is unbearable for any man.
侯耀文为此也郁郁寡欢了好一阵子。
But if you really calculate carefully, Hou Yaowen is not "innocent".
As early as when he and his ex-wife were not separated, it was rumored that he had an underground affair with singer Wei Wei.
Wei Wei was not single at the time, and her boyfriend was named Fu Disheng.
This bloody love affair became a hot topic on the streets for a while.
In the end, because of the pressure of public opinion, the parties went their separate ways.
Nothing.
Not only that, when Hou Yaowen came out of the haze of "being divorced by green".
He turned around and fell in love with a much younger dancer, Chen Yijia (formerly known as Chen Feifei), who was 29 years old.
The two soon moved in together.
A year before Hou Yaowen's death, they also wanted to get married.
But the eldest daughter Hou Zan strongly objected.
In the end, they didn't get married.
After Hou Yaowen unfortunately passed away, this Chen Yijia also quietly withdrew.
So looking at the whole incident, the one who was hurt the most had to be Dai Zhicheng's wife Yang Lei.
Today, Yang Lei is alone.
But Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng, who obviously made mistakes and should be punished, did not have anything at all.
They have always lived a very stable life.
Hou Yaowen's daughter "Niuniu" has been cared for and accompanied by Dai Zhicheng for a long time, and she has also changed her name to Dai Zhicheng "Dad".
A family of three, but they live quite well.
epilogue
After reading this complex and bloody story, I can't help but think:
Is it the "lover" who is often not around, or the "intimate person" who is close in front of you that can impress people the most?
Although he is treacherous, he deserves to be reviled for seeing things that are different.
But this human heart is eternal and unchanging.
Yuan Yin is at the age of flowers, but she keeps the empty house alone.
One person takes care of the whole family, and naturally has more than enough heart but not enough power.
In that case, an arm that would give her warmth and care appeared.
It is natural to be able to move.
As for Dai Zhicheng, in the face of a lonely and beautiful wife, after a moment of impulse, he can still "do his best" for her, and then die.
It can also be called "righteousness among unrighteousness".
The red apricot can't be stopped from going out of the wall, but the poor lover.
This chaotic marriage can't be sorted out.
What would you do if it were you?
Some references:
Hou Yaowen, Yuan Yin
Baidu Encyclopedia|Hou Yaowen, Yuan Yin, Dai Zhicheng
Bilibili barrage video network|Hou Yaowen