In May 2020, Liang Jiehua, 59, died of illness.
At the funeral, her husband, Huang Rihua, who had been in love with her for 40 years, once cried until she fainted.
He said to all the media: "I have only one wife in my life, Liang Jiehua, and I must keep my promise, always accompany her, and never marry." ”
Now that Liang Jiehua has also died for 2 years, has Huang Rihua, who announced that he will never marry again, fulfilled his promise?
Is he doing okay now?
1.
Huang Rihua is 1 year younger than Liang Jiehua, and the two had a stark gap before they fell in love.
They are also members of the TVB Artists Training Course in Hong Kong.
But Huang Rihua's resources are much better than Liang Jiehua's.
Huang Rihua first played Guo Jing in the 83rd version of the martial arts drama "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter".
Then he played Qiao Feng in "Tianlong Babu", making him directly become the standard character of "infatuated male protagonist".
At that time, Liang Jiehua was still just a small dragon set that shuttled through major drama groups such as "Chu Liuxiang" and "Shanghai Beach", and her name would not be added at the end of the movie.
Two people with such a huge disparity in status and strength did not expect to see the right eye.
That year, Liang Jiehua was 20 years old and Huang Rihua was 19 years old.
The fate between the two seemed predestined, and the first time they met was to watch each other smile for two minutes.
Then Huang Rihua's mind was all Liang Jiehua.
In 1982, the two officially announced their love affair, and then traveled to Japan together, during which a reporter photographed Huang Rihua wiping the corners of His mouth from ice cream for Liang Jiehua.
The appearance of the little couple's love is about to come out, which makes countless people envious.
However, their feelings are not stable.
During that time, Huang Rihua's fame was very large, and he often had scandals with actresses, first Hui Yinghong, and then Maggie Cheung publicly said that she was obsessed with Huang Rihua.
Even Liu Jialing once said that Huang Rihua made himself fascinated.
When she was young, Liang Jiehua was a person who could not tolerate sand in her eyes.
The man carried out so many gossip in her ears, she was very angry, and asked Huang Rihua: "I am your girlfriend, can't you stay away from other women?" ”
"I'm an actor, there will definitely be female stars to work with, how to stay away?"
On this day, the two had a big fight and finally chose to break up.
At this moment, the media took a photo of Huang Rihua and Deng Cuiwen, questioning that the two of them were already in love.
As soon as the news came out, Deng Cuiwen instantly stood at the top of the criticism.
She has been accused by countless people of being a bad woman who ruined the relationship between Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua.
But at that time, Deng Cuiwen and Wan Ziliang were in contact, and Huang Rihua was only a simple friendship.
However, the scandal about them could not be explained at all, and finally forced, Huang Rihua stood up and told the media in a loud voice: "Deng Cuiwen and I are just friends, and I have someone I like." ”
Huang Rihua's denial has led the outside world to agree that the person he likes is still Liang Jiehua, and they may get back together.
Unfortunately, everyone was wrong.
Because it didn't take long for Huang Rihua and actress Gong Ci'en to officially declare their relationship.
In this way, the outside world knew that the person Huang Rihua liked in his mouth was Gong Ci'en.
Perhaps it is that the love of Huang Liang is too deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, when Huang Rihua and Gong Ci'en fell in love, they were attacked by many people.
Some people scolded Huang Rihua for not being single-minded, and some people scolded Gong Ci'en for destroying other people's feelings.
But these voices did not affect their feelings.
At first, the relationship between the two was still very stable, and it was very pleasant to hold hands together and go out to drink tea and travel.
But gradually, Huang Rihua found that Gong Ci'en didn't seem to need himself.
She is very strong and very casual, and she is reluctant to tell herself anything to tell her friends, and the two have no feeling of being in love at all.
At this moment, Huang Rihua suddenly appeared in his mind the figure of Liang Jiehua.
When he and Liang Jiehua were together, Liang Jiehua was like a little elf who circled around him all day and would share any interesting and interesting things with him.
Now it seems that there is no such girl around him again.
A sense of regret welled up in my heart.
Two years later, Huang Rihua and Gong Ci'en broke up, just at that time, Liang Jiehua's "Grand Canal" and "Taiping Heavenly Kingdom" were being broadcast.
Looking at the glorious appearance of his former girlfriend on the screen, Huang Rihua's heart throbbed again.
He found Liang Jiehua and wanted to reunite with her.
But fate didn't give him that chance at all.
At that time, Liang Jiehua already had a boyfriend.
Although his hopes were disappointed, Huang Rihua did not give up.
He felt that Liang Jiehua was not married anyway, and he still had the opportunity to pursue.
So he often greeted Liang Jiehua with greetings and sometimes carried gifts to visit her.
In this way, Liang Jiehua fell again.
In 1988, Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua were reunited, and in December of the same year, the two entered the palace of marriage.
At the wedding, Huang Rihua looked at his beloved girl wearing a white wedding dress, and a restless heart suddenly began to tense.
He straightened his hairstyle three or five times, still trembling when he took Liang Jiehua's hand, and then he gently carved a kiss on the beauty's face.
Lang Cai and the female appearance stand together like a moving picture.
Less than two years after the marriage, Liang Jiehua gave birth to a daughter, Huang Zhiqing, to Huang Rihua.
Because she had no time to take care of her daughter, Liang Jiehua announced that she quit the entertainment industry and became an insurance broker.
And Huang Rihua has a long memory, in order to give his wife and daughter a family full of security, he tries not to have too much contact with other actresses.
As soon as he finishes filming, he will go home immediately.
During the period, some media wanted to borrow Huang Rihua to hype up, so they took him and the actor Cai Shaofen who had worked with him out.
There was a wave of hype about their relationship not being simple.
After learning of this, Huang Rihua, who was clean and self-sufficient, went directly to the media company and told him very angrily: "My wife and I love each other very much, and if you spread rumors again, I will sue you!" ”
All along, in the eyes of outsiders, Huang Rihua has given people a very kind look.
In a state of stress like this, they were also seeing it for the first time.
Since then, no one has dared to provoke Huang Rihua, they all know that Huang Rihua is the only one in his heart, Liang Jiehua.
But Liang Jiehua's heart seemed to be more than just Huang Rihua.
2.
In 2000, the reporter photographed Liang Jiehua chatting with a male colleague in the car.
Lonely men and widows, sitting in the car in the middle of the night and chatting hotly, it is difficult not to make people think wrong.
So Liang Jiehua was labeled as "derailed".
But she didn't admit it, just said that she was late from work and her colleague sent herself.
The reason is fair.
But it didn't take long for someone to find Liang Jiehua and this male colleague walking in the rain together, holding hands.
The other party even gave Liang Jiehua a bouquet of flowers.
The scandal came out again, and Liang Jiehua's "new love" seemed to be solidified.
At that time, countless people were waiting for Huang Rihua's response.
It is said that Huang Rihua at that time also quarreled with Liang Jiehua because of this.
Even quarreled to the point of almost getting a divorce.
Fortunately, Huang Rihua is sober enough, he feels that since people are married, they should not easily divorce, and husband and wife should know how to tolerate.
So Huang Rihua issued a statement to the outside world, he maintained his wife behind him, telling the media: "My wife I know best, she will not mess around." ”
After clarification, in order to make the media believe the matter more, Huang Rihua also ran to Liang Jiehua's insurance company and took a group photo with the male colleague.
He said: "We have known each other for a long time, and we are all friends. ”
One sentence directly saved Liang Jiehua's image.
As the "green hat" incident slowly subsided, some people found that Huang Rihua began to fade out of the entertainment circle.
It wasn't until 2009 that he made a comeback.
At that time, many people were very confused, why did Huang Rihua, such a popular star, withdraw from the circle at his peak?
In fact, his mother died.
In the years since his mother's death, Huang Rihua has been living in great pain, and he feels like a child who has lost his home and love, and he always sits in the room in a daze with a picture of his mother.
Liang Jiehua understands her husband, and she will not persuade him to let go of the past, but simply accompany him.
She told Huang Rihua: "You and me, and my daughter, we are your dearest family. ”
His wife's words made Huang Rihua extremely grateful, and the cold in his heart was also warmed.
However, he had just picked himself up and did not know that there was a bigger blow waiting for him behind him.
3.
In 2013, Huang Rihua surprised Liang Jiehua and gave her a gemstone necklace.
This necklace is a gift to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary.
Liang Jiehua wore this necklace and happily looked in front of the mirror for half a day.
The next second, however, her nose began to bleed.
At that time, Huang Rihua also quipped to her: "Send you a necklace, how can you be so excited that you have nosebleeds." ”
Liang Jiehua also felt that he was too excited to get on fire, so he didn't care if he had a nosebleed.
But the next day, she began to have nosebleeds again, and her body began to become weak and weak.
Liang Jiehua realized that something was wrong, so she went to the small clinic and thought that it might be better to drink a few pairs of medicines.
At that time, she did not know that she was very ill.
It wasn't until she drank the medicine prescribed by the clinic that she found that the symptoms were not only not alleviated, but more serious.
Nosebleeds are accompanied by a lot of hair loss, and even pieces of black and blue appear on the body.
Liang Jiehua was a little scared, and she asked Huang Rihua to take her to the hospital for examination.
Don't check don't know, check a frightened.
The hospital diagnosed that Liang Jiehua had blood cancer, that is, leukemia.
For the whole family, this is a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
Liang Jiehua looked at his checklist and did not react for half a day.
She asked the doctor again, "Are you going to get the test wrong?" I usually pay attention to health, how can there be blood cancer? ”
Even if Liang Jiehua didn't believe it, the doctor finally told her only one sentence: "Hurry up and be hospitalized." ”
Hearing the doctor's words, Liang Jiehua completely collapsed.
She fell to the ground, large tears falling down.
She was still young, how did she get such a disease?
Liang Jiehua couldn't accept this fact, and she ran home like crazy.
When she got home, she lay in bed and slept, and she felt that she was dreaming, and maybe it would be better to sleep.
But reality finally defeated her heart.
As soon as Liang Jiehua woke up, she found that her hair was stained on the pillow.
She began to be afraid, and her body kept shaking.
"How can this be?" Liang Jiehua threw the pillow on the ground and broke down and cried.
Hearing the movement, Huang Rihua rushed to come, still holding Liang Jiehua's case in his hand.
Seeing her husband appear in front of her eyes, Liang Jiehua still had some doubts: "Why didn't you go to work, wasn't the crew waiting for you to shoot a scene?" ”
Huang Rihua shook his head, and he told his wife that he had temporarily retired and should concentrate on accompanying her to treat her illness.
Hearing these words, Liang Jiehua cried even more uncontrollably.
She felt that she was dragging down the whole family, and she blamed herself.
Fortunately, with Huang Rihua's comfort, Liang Jiehua calmed down.
Two days later, Liang Jiehua was hospitalized.
In the hospital, she looked at the same patients as herself, each with a miserable face and a bare head.
She looked at Huang Rihua and asked with some concern, "Will I be like this later?" ”
Huang Rihua comforted her with a feeling of heartache: "No, even if you really have no hair, you are still as beautiful." ”
Having said that, when Liang Jiehua had 5 rounds of chemotherapy, her hair was really clean.
A rounded face also became concave and thin.
As if tormented to the end by the disease, Liang Jiehua was suddenly not afraid of death.
She began to explain to Huang Rihua what happened: "If I leave, you will find another woman to live a good life, don't immerse yourself in grief." ”
Listening to his wife's weak voice, Huang Rihua couldn't help crying anymore.
How could he be willing to let his wife, who had been in love for 40 years, leave?
He kept comforting his wife, he would be able to get better, and at the same time he comforted himself that his wife would be fine.
During Liang Jiehua's treatment, the expenses were very large, spending most of the family's savings, about 7.5 million yuan.
In order to save money to treat his wife's illness, Huang Rihua began to take over business performances.
He obviously didn't like to use his famous role as a tool to make money, but reality pushed him to the end.
As long as he participates in commercial performances, he will take a bow and arrow to show people in the image of "Guo Jing".
One commercial performance after another made Huang Rihua's reputation begin to decline, and people who did not know the outside world accused him of not being a good actor.
But Huang Rihua did not have time to pay attention to these negative voices, he performed during the day, and would catch the earliest flight back to the ward at night.
During that time, Huang Rihua basically did not return home much, except in the field and in the ward.
Maybe it's heaven pity this hard man.
In 2015, Liang Jiehua's condition was brought under control and he was finally discharged from the hospital.
At that moment, she hugged Huang Rihua tightly: "Thank you, husband has worked hard." ”
8 words are worth a thousand words.
After experiencing a storm, the outside world learned that Huang Rihua had been accompanying his wife to treat his illness during this time.
The rumors that had once slandered him had disappeared at this moment, and they were all praising him as a good man.
Looking at his recovered wife, Huang Rihua immediately took her to the mall and took her to buy clothes and jewelry to make her beautiful.
Later, he also took his wife and appeared on his daughter's runway together to watch her catwalk.
I thought they would live happily ever after.
Unexpectedly, in 2000, Liang Jiehua's condition recurred again.
Impatient, Huang Rihua went to the hospital to arrange surgery for his wife, and he did not miss every opportunity to ask his grandfather to tell his grandmother to go around looking for a treatment.
The last hospital told him that if he transplanted Bone Marrow to Liang Jiehua, it might get better.
But the cost will be high.
Huang Rihua agreed without saying a word, and he said: "If the family is ruined, I must also cure my wife!" ”
The bone marrow transplant was a success.
But the side effects flowed on Liang Jiehua's body, and this operation directly led to her organ failure.
Looking at his wife's uncomfortable and painful appearance on the hospital bed, Huang Rihua suddenly felt powerless.
He walked out the door, knelt in the hospital hallway and looked at the sky, praying: "If you can make my wife recover, it doesn't matter if you want me to live for ten or twenty years." ”
However, contrary to his wishes, Huang Rihua's voice was not heard by God.
3.
On May 26, Liang Jiehua, 59, passed away.
At the funeral, Huang Rihua was in pain, crying out of breath, he knelt in front of his wife's portrait all day, did not eat or drink, kept crying, and even almost fainted.
At one point he wanted to leave with his wife, but he thought of his daughter and held back.
Liang Jiehua walked away with a smile when she died, and she told her daughter and husband all her thoughts.
She said: "I can have a husband who loves me in this life, and a sensible daughter is really very happy, after I leave Zhiqing you have to find a good man like my father to marry." ”
"As for my dearest beloved husband, if there is a next life, I hope we can still meet and be husband and wife."
Just like that, Liang Jiehua left.
The departure of his wife made Huang Rihua feel that he had no goal in life, and felt that his fate with the person he loved most was completely gone.
When he lay in bed every night, as soon as he closed his eyes, his mind was full of Liang Jiehua's shadow.
He wanted to try to forget and get himself out of his wounds.
But the more he forgot, the more he walked out, so he simply decided to keep his wife by his side forever.
So Huang Rihua collected 30,000 fraudulent sheets from his wife and selected 17,000 to hang on the wall.
In order to remember his wife more clearly, Huang Rihua also classified his wife's photos.
Childhood photos, family photos, work photos, singing photos, etc., every time he sorts out a photo, it will evoke infinite memories.
Especially when he last traveled to Thailand with Liang Jiehua.
The two sat in the dining room eating ice cream and laughing happily, like a little couple in love.
Looking at these photos and recalling those good memories, Huang Rihua smiled and then burst into tears.
He once said that after he married Liang Jiehua, he never thought that he would become single.
So when his wife died, he really hated that identity.
So he announced to the outside world: "I have only one wife in my life, Liang Jiehua, and I will not marry anyone from now on." ”
Perhaps afraid that Huang Rihua was alone, her daughter Huang Zhiqing moved to live with her father and often took him out to play.
The company of his daughter calmed Huang Rihua's mood a lot.
But just when he was about to walk out of the pain of his wife's death, he suddenly saw some moths flying from home.
The moths stay on Liang Jiehua's photo, and as soon as Huang Rihua and her daughter mention the names of the two sessions, the moths will incite their wings to fly.
It was as if the moths could understand what they were saying.
At that moment, Huang Rihua and her daughter couldn't help it.
The father and daughter hugged and cried, one missing his wife and the other missing his mother.
Huang Zhiqing once said: "If there is still a next life, I hope that my mother will still be my daughter, and I will be my mother to take care of her." ”
In this way, the daughter and the father live on each other.
A year later, Huang Rihua finally adapted to a single life, when someone asked him again, will he really keep his promise to stay single forever?
Huang Rihua said: "Fate is not something you can decide, this is a heavenly arrangement, you don't know when it will appear, so I don't think about it, first do my duty." ”
4.
As of 2022, Liang Jiehua has been dead for 2 years.
The 61-year-old Huang Rihua is still single and still loves Liang Jiehua in his heart.
He had promised never to marry again, and he had been keeping it.
Now he has listened to his wife and has a good life.
He and his daughter moved into a three-story house, and the home was decorated with the white that Liang Jiehua liked.
During this period, the daughter also fell in love, and the boyfriend was called Chen Day.
He is not a star in the entertainment industry, but an outsider.
When he and Huang Rihua first met, they were very polite, sending gifts to Huang Rihua and helping to cook and wash dishes.
Huang Rihua is also very satisfied with her daughter's boyfriend.
Time passed, and Liang Jiehua's last words before his death finally came true at this moment.
The daughter found a good man and the husband had a good life.
Presumably, she had no regrets in the Spirit of Heaven.
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