Since ancient times, men should be self-reliant, shoulder the responsibilities of their husbands and fathers at home, establish strong self-confidence outside, live with their heads held high, and should bravely kill the enemy on the battlefield to defend the country.
Just as the so-called Three Kingdoms Zhou Lang Chibi, the rocks pierced through the air, the waves crashed on the shore, and a thousand piles of snow rolled up. The country is picturesque, and there are many heroes at a time. Heroes can create the situation, as long as there is a country and a home in your heart, the front will be your free battlefield: life since ancient times who has not died, leave Dan heart to sweat and green.
This is the iron-blooded heart of the ancients, and it is also the common voice of the sons and daughters of China.
But there is a problem, these poems left by the great writers of the past dynasties are almost all written about masculinity. Throughout history, there are very few women who can appear on the battlefield, and the most familiar is Mulan, but the authenticity needs to be examined.
In fact, the reason for this situation is very simple, that is, in ancient times, the status of women was not high, and it can even be described as low. For example, this saying has been circulated in the folk for thousands of years: "A woman with a hook head stands tall, and her life is rich and half idle."
The so-called "hook head" means to bow your head, you can imagine, in daily life, a woman with a chin, what is it like?
Needless to say, it must be a loving look.
The ancients advocated that women should be gentle and elegant, have a weak personality, listen to their husbands at home, and be generous outside. This is also the reason why there are ancient sayings of "ladies and gentlemen" that have been praised for thousands of years.
Living in a backward ideological society, women are asked for too many things, and there is even an absurd theory that "women without talent are virtuous". At that time, there was no talk of free love, and girls almost always obeyed the orders of their parents in marriage.
When the matchmaker is introduced, the man will definitely focus on whether there is a "hook head" performance. Only a woman who frequently bows her head will be considered a good wife for her husband and son, at least this is a very important criterion, and it is also an effective way to prove whether a woman is cultured.
Because such a girl is delicate in personality, in the married life will not have a direct conflict with her husband, even if she is wronged, she is willing to bear, in general, a family life will tend to be calm, rather than sword-rattling.
From another point of view, such girls are very popular with men, because they can not only arouse men's desire for protection, but also be respected by most people in that particular era.
Thus having a smooth life, not only does the matchmaker like it, but it is also more likely to be sweet after marriage. Therefore, the ancients summed up the life of such a woman as "a lifetime of wealth and half idleness".
In stark contrast to men, the men who hook up are not liked and will even be spurned. Because a good man should aim in all directions, not only to protect his family, but also to defend the safety of the country.
Manhood should be a domineering man who has a strong wind and a straight chest. Just as the so-called big husband should be a man who can bend and stretch, a man who has no responsibility is not worth entrusting for life, and such a man is doomed to achieve nothing.
Finally, let's sum up, the ancients said this saying "hook head woman straight chest, a lifetime of wealth and half idle", in fact, the meaning of the expression is not complicated, that is, girls should be gentle, in the personality can not be too strong, from the specific performance point of view, is the habit of bowing their heads.
As a man, you should release your strength with your chest up and show the masculine side of men. Men full of self-confidence are favored.
But this sentence has no value in today's place. Because this is the cage of old ideas, it is extremely unfair to girls, equality between men and women is not an empty word, it turns out that the value of girls in society is not weaker than men, but there are many deeds that can be sung and wept, such as Liu Hulan, Liu Shouwei, Lin Xinping and so on.
In ancient times, there was even a deformed aesthetic of wrapping small feet, which were difficult to forgive and understand. Although there are differences in the social division of labor, men and women should respect each other, build and maintain a family with each other, give full play to their own advantages, and create more value for the family and society.
Keeping your head down often is not only at risk of cervical spondylosis, but also a manifestation of lack of self-confidence, which is not beneficial in any way. While advocating individuality, we also hope that everyone can emit a positive light, only in this way can we see the ideal poetry and distance.
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