As soon as the second season of the new variety show "Fifty Mile Peach Blossom Dock" was broadcast, it exploded on the hot search because of "embarrassment", and was collectively complained by netizens:
"The level of embarrassment is comparable to that of flower science!"
"The last time I saw such a suffocating and oppressive show was that year's 'Flowers and Youth.'"
As a veteran "flower lover", Gigi I certainly can't miss it!
Unexpectedly, I only glanced at the video a few times, and I was immediately embarrassed to the point of cutting out a large villa...
In the first episode, Song Dandan, as the eldest of the guests, proposed to hold a bonfire party to draw the distance between them, and then began to designate a performance program for the big guys.
Who sings, who dances, who recites poetry...
Specifically, the feeling of being suddenly danced on stage by the boss cue at the annual meeting of the brain supplement company is really oppressive!
The most pitiful one was Li Xueqin, who was unhappy all over his face and was talking about resistance all over his body.
Unfortunately, as netizens said, this is a "stupid bird with a head".
Before he could finish his opinion, he was intimidated back by Song Dandan, and he had no ability to resist at all.
He could only slap himself wordlessly, and then hug Wang Sutaki next door in a wronged manner.
There were also several times of fruitless resistance, and finally the pianist Wu Muye could only lie flat.
Song Dandan asked him to sing, and he said "no"; Song Dandan asked him to recite a poem again, and he said" How stupid.
After two consecutive refusals, Dan Jie did not give up, still taking care of herself and continuing to impose personal ideas on everyone: "Not stupid, this performance program is not stupid as long as it is performed." ”
emmm...... Gigi, I can only say, maybe this is the professionalism of old artists.
Wu Muye, who was powerless to resist, could only give up resistance in the end and choose to dance.
Of course, there are also people like Yoko Spicy, Wang Sutaki, Wang Hedi, Mengziyi, Song Yanfei, etc., who are either known for their high emotional intelligence, or they are the newly debuted juniors in your circle.
Although they were also reluctant, they were almost afraid to say anything due to the authority of the seniors.
Some and thin mud, some gags, and some incitement, making Li Xueqin speechless again...
To tell the truth, seeing this, I already feel wronged for Li Xueqin.
It's really like our humble workers, in the face of the leader do not dare to refute it, even if the colleagues are still desperately dragging their feet.
In the end, I could only be punched by the spirit pua while holding my stomach and punching my scalp.
But at this moment, Wang Chuanjun, who had been silent all along, began to speak!
As the only person who did not attend the show, he said very directly and firmly: "I have already answered, I don't want it." ”
His words almost said what everyone present wanted to say but did not dare to say:
"I'm really unhappy when it comes to shows."
"In the middle of this process, I'm a very sensitive person, I have a strong feeling, the feeling of being pushed away, I don't like this feeling very much, I feel like I have to say it." 」
"I don't think we can finish it because we want to finish it, I think each of our emotions are in the process of constantly going up, and what I'm more looking forward to is that when we finally end, we really come from the heart, there is a song that we want to sing or a dance that we want to dance." 」
"Instead of cue Wang Chuanjun, let Wang Chuanjun do what, I don't."
After listening to this passage, Gigi I immediately gave Li Xueqin the same thumbs up.
Brave, really too brave!
This courage to say "no" directly is really enviable.
Before Li Xueqin said a word, Song Dandan, who could scare ten sentences, was also dumbfounded by Wang Chuanjun's reasonable rejection words.
She can only silently fight the psychological offensive, using her usual sense of oppression to force back: "You don't have to, you can not act..."
But without waiting for the "but" behind her to come out, Wang Chuanjun immediately said the most firm words in the most calm tone: "Yes, I will definitely not act." ”
Wang Chuanjun, who dared to say "no" to the authority, also reminded me of another slow variety show "Longing for Life".
"Yearning" is broadcast to the sixth season, whether it is He Jiong, Huang Lei, the two "old people", or the new people who come to the mushroom house as guests, they are already full of fatigue.
Each issue is a drama of eating + chatting + sensationalism, which has long made people look unattached.
It wasn't until last week's show, xu Zhiyuan was a guest at the mushroom house, that it finally made people shine.
In recent seasons of "Yearning", one of the points that has been criticized by netizens is that they always love to force a group of unfamiliar people together to stir up emotions, and these guests can only pretend to be familiar and intimate.
Only this time Xu Zhiyuan was different, he always fled the crowd and acted alone.
Either stay alone in the coffee house, or go to the sea alone, or chat with the locals in the village, in short, deliberately avoid all the lively occasions, refuse all the lively scenes with the meaning of performance, and never force yourself to cater to others.
In Xu Zhiyuan's own words, he is like a child who wants to escape from his family.
However, such "unsociable" has not aroused the disgust of others in the slightest, but has made countless people envious.
I think it comes down to his self-consistency.
He doesn't care what other people think, and he doesn't skimp on praise for others; He wanted to escape the crowds, but he never ran away from what he had to do; He is honest that washing vegetables and cooking is not what he is good at, and he sincerely and sincerely says that he hopes to play again next time...
As he said, "Being an honest self is more worthy of respect than being a pretend industrious self." ”
Yes, it is too easy for us to live in the expectations and eyes of others, so we always pretend to be industrious, pretend to be brave, pretend to be lively... Only you know how reluctant you are inside.
Just like at the end of the show, Huang Lei, who has been busy all day, just wants to sit quietly in the courtyard with a coffee, "go and be Xu Zhiyuan for a while."
No need to be exquisite, no lively and funny, no need to take care of everyone's emotions.
In fact, not only Huang Lei, but people who are tired with masks in life, who doesn't want to be Xu Zhiyuan for a while?
But everyone yearns for freedom, and everyone can't help themselves.
Wang Chuanjun, who dares to say no, Xu Zhiyuan, who dares to be unsociable, they may live a truly "desirable life"...
I still remember "Summer of the Band" in 19 years, in the middle of the program recording, Park Shu suddenly stood up and said: "I'm at that point, and then I'm older, I have to go home and sleep!" ”
Then, under the surprised and funny eyes of the audience, he turned around and left...
At that time, some netizens said: "He did what I have always wanted to do but did not dare to do, just like every overtime and dinner, obviously I want to go, but no one dares to get up because of face, we are all tired of living!" ”
Another person said: "As a social animal, I really don't want to go for face." Only blame me for not being strong enough, so that people with ability can not look at people's faces. ”
Do you say that he really does not understand the worldly rules of this world? No, he was just too lazy to please others and wronged himself.
Looking at the entire entertainment industry, there should be no second person who is so willful and arrogant to go home and sleep, right? And the audience is really tolerant of him, and even everyone wants to protect his "truth".
If you change to someone else, you will have been scolded for "playing a big card", but because it is Park Shu, everyone knows that he is really resistant and tired of all the pre-camera attitude.
No one can bear to blame him, because the truth and struggle in him are exactly what we have discarded and asked for with our own hands.
Just like the other day, he said a paragraph at the graduation song meeting of the B station, which also particularly touched me:
"I think you need to be very tenacious, and then tenacious and have a bottom line."
And as the Shawshank Redemption says:
"Any place you don't like and can't live without, any kind of life you don't like and can't get rid of, is prison." If you feel pain and unfreedom, hopefully you will always have a flame in your heart that will not be extinguished, not numb, not to be assimilated. ”
We must have the courage to say no, and we must also have the ability to say no.
We must learn to refuse and know how to refuse, in order to live a dashing and pure life.
Of course, it is more important to accept everything about yourself, accept your inner sensitivity, accept your occasional laziness, and accept that you are an ordinary person who is imperfect and emotional.
There are too many involuntaries in life, but I still hope that we can all be "Wang Chuanjun", "Xu Zhiyuan" or "Pu Shu" once, not force ourselves, respect our hearts, even if it is only once...
Tenacious and bottom-line, free and open.
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