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Is it okay to stay here? Chinese, I need you! The German girl did not marry for 61 years, and Ji Xianlin had an exotic love affair

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When he was in high school, he translated Turgenev's How Beautiful and Fresh roses are! When he was admitted to the university, he only applied for Tsinghua and Peking University, and was admitted to Peking University tsinghua at the same time, and finally he chose Tsinghua to specialize in German.

He is an internationally renowned master of Oriental studies, linguist, writer, sinologist, Buddhist scholar, historian, educator and social activist, and has served as a member of the Faculty of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, vice president of Peking University, and director of the Institute of South Asian Studies of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences.

He is proficient in English, German, Sanskrit, Pali, can read Russian, French, especially proficient in Tocharian, is the only scholar in the world who is proficient in this language, and wrote three laureates before his death: "Master of Traditional Chinese Studies, Scholarly Hero, National Treasure." ”

He, a master of traditional Chinese studies, Ji Xianlin, was born in a poor peasant family in Liaocheng, Shandong Province, with the character Xidi and Qizang (the meaning of the effective Fa Xuanzang to learn the scriptures), and died in 2009 at the age of 98.

In 1935, the 24-year-old Ji Xianlin was given the opportunity to study abroad at the University of Göttingen in Germany to study "Indian Studies", and in the book "Ten Years in Germany", he recounted the twelve years of studying in Germany, revealing for the first time the love experience of 50 years of hidden heart.

At a family gathering, Ji Xianlin met the German girl Imgard, who was the daughter of Meyer, the landlord of Ji Xianlin's senior Tian Dewang, and at that time in war-torn Germany, the international students who had dinner together were considered to be a consolation for nostalgia for their homeland.

Ji Xianlin went to Meyer's house every once in a while, the host was very enthusiastic, the lively and splendid girl Imgard was also very enthusiastic, Ji Xianlin used a very Chinese description for the young girl Imgaard who had just opened her love sinus - "like a flower like jade".

At that time, Imgaard was naïve and did not know what love was, just a daily relationship, and Imgard found that love was deeply rooted. The Germans were always outgoing and cheerful, and Imgard decided to take the initiative.

According to the regulations of the University of Göttingen, the graduation thesis submitted by students to their supervisors must be printed with a typewriter. Ji Xianlin was stupid, he couldn't afford to buy a typewriter, even if he bought a word, he had to learn to type, and Imgard stood up at this time and said that there was a knockout in the family that could help him.

Ji Xianlin couldn't help but ask: How much to pay? Imgard smiled and replied, "The reward I want is: you accompany me to every corner of the city of Göttingen."

Is it okay to stay here? Chinese, I need you! The German girl did not marry for 61 years, and Ji Xianlin had an exotic love affair

Ji Xianlin naturally gladly agreed, just like this, whenever Imgard helped print a paper, Ji Xianlin accompanied Imgard to the town hall square, holding the bronze statue of the goose girl to watch the pigeons flying, and walking on the leafy path at the beginning of the morning and dusk after the rain.

Over the next 4 years, Ji Xianlin completed a paper of millions of words with the help of Imgard. The footsteps of the two also walked through the streets of Göttingen, through dusk and dawn, except for not pointing out the relationship.

Ji Xianlin, who is polite and restrained, loves the simple and kind girl in front of him, understands the girl's heart, but has always been affectionate and polite. He did not dare to take another step, he already had a wife and children in the country, although it was an arranged marriage, it was also a responsibility.

At the end of World War II in 1945, the date of Ji Xianlin's return to China was set, he did not know how to talk to Imgard, until 3 a.m. in the evening, after the paper was finished, Ji Xianlin said softly: "Are you tired?" Let me rub your shoulders....."

Ji Xianlin stepped forward gently, and the hands on Imgard's shoulders trembled slightly. "Good girl, I'm leaving, my motherland needs me....."

Imgard's shoulders shook violently, and the strong girl cried and begged, "Is it okay to stay here?" I need you too! Ji Xianlin lifted his face to prevent the tears from flowing out.

Ji Xianlin shook his head in pain: "Miss Imgard, there must be a man who loves you better than me, who is willing to stay with you forever and take care of you for the rest of your life." ”

Imgard didn't say anything more, she dried her tears, tried to squeeze out a smile, and at the end of the paper, typed a line: "All the way safe!" But please don't forget. ”

After all, Ji Xianlin could not let go of his homeland and relatives, he and Imgard had never behaved excessively, and after returning to China, Ji Xianlin resolutely did not contact him, he hoped that the beloved girl would have a happy life.

Is it okay to stay here? Chinese, I need you! The German girl did not marry for 61 years, and Ji Xianlin had an exotic love affair

In 1983, Ji Xianlin returned to the University of Göttingen for academic exchanges, and at the age of 72, he looked for Imgard, who had worried him for nearly forty years. When he came to the door of Imgard's house, he did not see Imgard, and the old man who dreamed of it had to leave alone.

In 2000, a female director of Hong Kong Television Station, when filming a feature film, went to Göttingen to look for Imgard, and miraculously, found the white-haired Imgard, the elderly Imgard, silver hair fluttering, smiling.

Imgard's room was still the same as before, the typewriter that witnessed love, lying quietly on the desk, Imgard said: "Look, everything has not changed, I have been waiting for him to come back, my fingers are still diligent and flexible, I can even type!" ”

Imgard, who never married, said: "Because it is him, even if you can't wait, it is happiness." ”

At the age of 90, Ji Xianlin "broke" this exotic love in "Ten Years of Staying in Germany" with such words:

"If she were still in the human world, I am afraid that she would be nearly an ancient age." And now I am dying of old age. There are probably not many people in the world who can still think of her. When I can't think of her, there will probably be no one in the world who can think of her. ”

"There are lovers who have not become dependents", this cross-century foreign love, touching, let people sigh, although there is no substantive behavior, but like a flower blooming, earned enough of the Chinese and German people's infinite feelings and touching tears.

Is it okay to stay here? Chinese, I need you! The German girl did not marry for 61 years, and Ji Xianlin had an exotic love affair

Ji Xianlin anecdote 2:

The student asked, "How should learning be done?" How did the paper come out?"

He said, "Is the paper suffocating?" Drink more water, and naturally there will be urine. ”

Twilight sighed: "The road is not always paved with roses, and sometimes there are inevitable winds and waves. In this way, the ups and downs, the ups and downs, until the dying old age. ”

Is it okay to stay here? Chinese, I need you! The German girl did not marry for 61 years, and Ji Xianlin had an exotic love affair

Author | Luoyang is full of wind and rain, red dust is prosperous, and jun reads together.

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