In the revolutionary period, many young men and women came together because of common ideals, married as a couple of life and death, and they faced the enemy's search and arrest hand in hand, and experienced nine deaths; Walk side by side to the battlefield, through the rain of bullets and bullets; Together, we will build a new China and make the nation rich and strong, the most representative of which is Chen Yi and his wife.
In the early days of the agrarian revolution, he taught at the Red Army School in the Soviet Union and met a female comrade named Xiao Juying. Xiao Juying was impressed by The talent of Mr. Chen and gradually developed a sense of admiration.
Once, when the enemy army raided the Soviet zone, Mr. Chen immediately organized troops to carry out an interception and cover the retreat of the comrades of the organs and units. But Xiao Juying said that she was unwilling to leave, and she stayed by The side of Mr. Chen, saying that if she wanted to die, she would die together.
Mr. Chen was deeply moved, and also began to have a good feeling for Xiao Juying, and the two subsequently established a romantic relationship and quickly entered the palace of marriage. But the good times did not last long, when Mr. Chen went out for a meeting, he failed to return as scheduled, and Xiao Juying mistakenly thought that he had encountered an accident on the road, so he committed suicide. After hearing the bad news, Mr. Chen was greatly shocked and took a long time to get out of the psychological shadow.
In 1934, Mr. Chen married a female comrade named Lai Yueming, and before their honeymoon was over, the Red Army decided to start the Long March, and they were forced to separate because of different tasks. Lai Yueming has not received news from Mr. Chen, and he feels that he has been killed in battle, so he remarries someone else. And Mr. Chen mistakenly believed the rumor, thinking that Lai Yueming had jumped off a cliff to commit suicide, so he did not inquire about her whereabouts again.
In 1937, Mr. Chen and hu Lanqi, an underground party member, had an affair with each other, and the two were preparing to get married, but the party organization intervened, because they feared that Hu Lanqi would be persecuted because of the marriage, and the relationship ended without any disease.
In 1938, when Mr. Chen opened up a base area in the Songhu area, he met Zhang Qian, who was a member of the literary troupe, with a beautiful appearance and a superb performance level, and Mr. Chen admired her very much, and finally, under the mediation of comrades, they came together.
In the nearly 10 years from 1940 to 1949, Mr. Chen and Zhang Qian gathered less and left more because of their working relationship, but the relationship between the two was always rock solid and never changed. After the founding of New China, whether Elder Chen always served in Shanghai or in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Zhang Qian always accompanied him. During this period, she also did not forget to learn cultural knowledge and improve her personal ability. In just 2 years, Zhang Qian has become proficient in Russian, and when Mr. Chen visited the Soviet Union, he took the initiative to ask Miao to act as an interpreter.
In addition, Zhang Qian has also been polishing her own mentality and improving emotional intelligence. In 1961, at an international dinner, the head of the US delegation suddenly gathered in front of Zhang Qian and said a long paragraph. At that time, Sino-US relations were very tense, so Zhang Qian did not dare to rush into contact with them, but it was not good to directly refute the other party's face, so she pretended not to understand and kept smiling in return. The other party was a little embarrassed, and said a few words, seeing that Zhang Qian still did not respond, he left on his own.
In the 1960s, When Mr. Chen entered old age and suffered from some chronic diseases, Zhang Qian was concerned about his health, so she did not allow him to drink, smoke, and stay up late. Once, Premier Zhou invited Mr. Chen to dinner, and as soon as Mr. Chen was happy, he drank two more drinks. Zhang Qian was not happy, and constantly stepped on Mr. Chen's feet to signal him to restrain himself. Another time, Mr. Chen attended a dinner party to send off foreign guests, and played until late at night before returning home, Zhang Qian was a little angry, so she deliberately locked the door and did not let Mr. Chen come in.
This infuriated Mr. Chen, who shouted "Divorce, divorce!" through the wine! Zhang Qian felt that he was good for Mr. Chen, he did not thank himself, and he wanted to divorce, so he had a big fight with him, and the relationship between the two was very stiff. After Premier Zhou heard the news, he made a cameo appearance as a peacemaker, and he asked the two out for a walk.
When passing through a park, Premier Zhou saw that there were children flying kites, so he made a suggestion to Zhang Qian, hoping that she would not manage Chen Too strictly in the future, marriage is like flying a kite, you need a tight and loose pull line, too loose the kite will fall, too tight the line will break, the kite will fly away.
Zhang Qian felt that Premier Zhou was right, so he took the initiative to apologize to Mr. Chen, who also felt that he was too impulsive at that time, and also apologized to Zhang Qian, and the two reconciled as before.
In 1972, Mr. Chen died of illness, Zhang Qian was overly sad, her physical condition suddenly deteriorated, and she was also admitted to the hospital. In the days before her death, she compiled The poems of Mr. Chen into a book and personally prefaced them, which was her last love for Mr. Chen as a wife. In 1974, Zhang Qian died at the age of 52.
No matter how vigorous it is when you are in love, and eventually return to marriage, it is still chai rice oil and salt, and the parents are short. Husband and wife get along differently from couples, we must be considerate of each other, tolerate each other, support each other, communicate in time when there are problems, do not have a cold war, so as not to break up feelings. Here, I hope that everyone can find a suitable partner in the future, face the right and wrong in life hand in hand, the wind and waves, and live a full life!